love
I believe we are here to find that missing someone in our lives , thuo maybe it's not a case to others but that's mine purposely!However some peeps are funny them profiles are; you divorced, you separated but you claim to know how to handle a lady/man gently with love and care..hahaha
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People got married too young, got married for the wrong reasons, or just simply drifted apart as time went on.
Sometimes blame can be attached to one of the partners, but often it is a bit of both, or none.
There are many factors/reasons to consider to keep relationships burning and many reasons why they fail and it's us"humans" to blame of course.
What I have seen people just marry to impress friends/relatives and society at large, but deep inside they be empty no love for each other;
1, he married her for her beauty
2 , she married him because of his money
3, he married her bcoz of her high degrees of education
4, they married bcoz of family high profiles e.t..c so many
See my point there was no love neither friendship. At the end of the day this fails but we don't give up at life and love here we are searching and searching again.
We throw away the pride and good luck
Do we in our fifties regard a potential partner the same way
as in our twenties?, very doubtful. We are the sum total of
our experiences and relationships combined.
Am I here for job interview or love.....the bar is so raised up to understand
Now I understand it is so much more.
Maybe that is why we stay single so long, looking for that "right" partner that will "fit" our life.
Clearly a hard task,.
The world is overpopulated yet so many are alone,.
I agree, some people need to discover the meaning of love. I think it took me about 4 years after my separation to get a fair grasp on what that means.
I feel one can give love but the other needs to reciprocate and be able to receive. If both are not on the same playing field, the relationship can have a forecast of bumpy roads ahead.
So....select wisely I would say.
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Of course, be on board for love yourself. :)
Thuo getting you behalf I shld say it's luck and we should learn to appreciate each other the way they come
We had no intention of getting divorced when we got married and the wheels fell off when we had a baby and there's no way of knowing that sort of thing up front. Stuff happens.
I'm not sounding defensive, I hope, because I don't feel defensive. He's a good guy and we've stayed on good terms, we just couldn't stay married. If he were on here and you were about to turn him down, I'd say listen, he's a bit of a workaholic but otherwise, you could do a lot worse?
(Okay that's not a RAVE review
Thank you
Not really. When we got married we were both workaholics. I HAD to change, to stay home with the baby. If we'd never had a kid, we'd be married today. Life changed, the marriage couldn't.
Many men here are divorced, and maybe some should stay single for ever and not crash into someone else's life, but not all of them.
As long as they have learned from past experiences and moved on.