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Traumatic chip on the shoulder...
I was lucky to have parents that didn't divorce. Some of my friends did. When their parents remarried, they had a tough life growing up as 'the step-child', usually torn between accepting difficult terms for visitation, alienation from a distant biological parent and power struggles when the step-parent wasn't accepting them... on any terms.
Some carried the experience of being a step-child like a chip on their shoulder.
One guy who had an older sister and a younger brother was raised with both biological parents... no divorce. However, they were the meanest parents I knew of. He couldn't wait to get a job and move away from home. He became a successful musician, married and had 2 kids. While he was on the road (earning a living and sending money home) his wife has an affair that led to divorce. The experience literally caused a career change so he didn't repeat the same mistake.
Dysfunctional would be a good description of his home life growing up and he brought that into his marriage as well.
Looking back, those kids had it easy as some of my school mates were adopted. Some not knowing who their biological parents were. To grow up knowing you weren't accepted at birth is a hard road to travel. While things have changed with orphanages opening records and DNA testing, that doesn't change the past.
On a brighter note, I do recall one couple adopting a baby girl from Asia. The adoption requirements were strict. They had the funds and knowledge to do it right where their daughter although 'different' from her classmates was a shining star and accepted by everyone she came in contact with.
Traumatic chip on the shoulder...
Some carried the experience of being a step-child like a chip on their shoulder.
One guy who had an older sister and a younger brother was raised with both biological parents... no divorce. However, they were the meanest parents I knew of. He couldn't wait to get a job and move away from home. He became a successful musician, married and had 2 kids. While he was on the road (earning a living and sending money home) his wife has an affair that led to divorce. The experience literally caused a career change so he didn't repeat the same mistake.
Dysfunctional would be a good description of his home life growing up and he brought that into his marriage as well.
Looking back, those kids had it easy as some of my school mates were adopted. Some not knowing who their biological parents were. To grow up knowing you weren't accepted at birth is a hard road to travel. While things have changed with orphanages opening records and DNA testing, that doesn't change the past.
On a brighter note, I do recall one couple adopting a baby girl from Asia. The adoption requirements were strict. They had the funds and knowledge to do it right where their daughter although 'different' from her classmates was a shining star and accepted by everyone she came in contact with.
Traumatic chip on the shoulder...
Family find
It was just confirmed last night that I have a Son and 2 Grandsons I never knew about.
First of all I am adopted and have since found both my birth Mother's side of the family as well as my birth Father's side.
It started when my half Brother Keith (Father's side) called me and told me according to Ancestry.com I have a very close relative who thinks he is my Grandson. I looked at my DNA relatives and saw where in DNA strength the Grandson's strength falls between 4 of my half siblings and 2 of my half Nieces and 1 half Nephew.
I called the Grandson last evening and asked him to look at his DNA relatives and see if he not only sees Keith, but also sees Bruce, Lisa, and Karen, all on my birth Mother's side. He said yes. They all are 2 generations away from him. His Father was also adopted and I spoke to him (my Son) Sunday.
I have never been married and until now have never had any known children.
Ain't life grand ?!?!
First of all I am adopted and have since found both my birth Mother's side of the family as well as my birth Father's side.
It started when my half Brother Keith (Father's side) called me and told me according to Ancestry.com I have a very close relative who thinks he is my Grandson. I looked at my DNA relatives and saw where in DNA strength the Grandson's strength falls between 4 of my half siblings and 2 of my half Nieces and 1 half Nephew.
I called the Grandson last evening and asked him to look at his DNA relatives and see if he not only sees Keith, but also sees Bruce, Lisa, and Karen, all on my birth Mother's side. He said yes. They all are 2 generations away from him. His Father was also adopted and I spoke to him (my Son) Sunday.
I have never been married and until now have never had any known children.
Ain't life grand ?!?!
Incredible day
Incredible day for me today. Through Ancestry.com I was contacted by someone who appears to be my biological Grandson. His Father was adopted. The possible Grandson is going to gift his Dad with a DNA kit from Ancestry. When his results come in, in about 2 months, I may discover a Son I never knew I had.
Missing California teen autistic Connerjack Oswalt found safe in Utah after three years
After three years of desperation, the family of missing California teen Connerjack Oswalt is overjoyed after the teenager was found this week in Park City, Utah.
In September 2019, then-16-year-old Oswalt was reported missing by the family in Clearlake, Calif.
The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System says that Oswalt, who was diagnosed with autism in 2014, had "a history of running away." Prior to his disappearance in September 2019, NamUs reported that he went missing in May of the same year after his mother took his phone away; he fled his home in Clearlake, taking only his cat.
He then reportedly went missing again on September 28, 2019.
Over recent weeks, reports came in to the Summit County Sheriff's Office of a man pushing a shopping cart in Summit Park in Park City. The last report sighted him sleeping outside Jeremy's Store, a convenience store by a gas station near the I-80.
Oswalt reportedly declined to tell the officers his name, but he allowed them to scan his fingerprints, revealing he had a warrant out of Nevada under the misspelled name "Conner Jack Oswald." After suspecting there was more to his story and researching missing people that might fit his profile in National Center for Missing and Exploited Children database, the match was made.
Oswalt's family had moved from California to Idaho since his disappearance. "We searched all over California, we had the missing centers of America, we had the Polly Klaas Foundation and the DOJ," Oswalt's mom told CBS News. "We've had a lot of false hope over the last two-and-a-half years," added Oswalt's stepfather, Gerald Flint.
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In September 2019, then-16-year-old Oswalt was reported missing by the family in Clearlake, Calif.
The National Missing and Unidentified Persons System says that Oswalt, who was diagnosed with autism in 2014, had "a history of running away." Prior to his disappearance in September 2019, NamUs reported that he went missing in May of the same year after his mother took his phone away; he fled his home in Clearlake, taking only his cat.
He then reportedly went missing again on September 28, 2019.
Over recent weeks, reports came in to the Summit County Sheriff's Office of a man pushing a shopping cart in Summit Park in Park City. The last report sighted him sleeping outside Jeremy's Store, a convenience store by a gas station near the I-80.
Oswalt reportedly declined to tell the officers his name, but he allowed them to scan his fingerprints, revealing he had a warrant out of Nevada under the misspelled name "Conner Jack Oswald." After suspecting there was more to his story and researching missing people that might fit his profile in National Center for Missing and Exploited Children database, the match was made.
Oswalt's family had moved from California to Idaho since his disappearance. "We searched all over California, we had the missing centers of America, we had the Polly Klaas Foundation and the DOJ," Oswalt's mom told CBS News. "We've had a lot of false hope over the last two-and-a-half years," added Oswalt's stepfather, Gerald Flint.
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Build back better..
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...once again, with a great economy of English
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The career politician.
East of CA, sum where in Amerika, gasoline sold for $1.68 a gallon on Nov. 9, 2020.
Meanwhile, on that same day here in Fowler CA...
Gasoline was @ $4.20..( Chevron/ Texaco.
...$0, as eYe told Raph, Jim, anyone-- get on out here to Dem paradise...NO BLOCK R FINGERPRINTS ANYWHERE !
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Deut. 9:11...2 table covenant
Job 9 : 11....eYe see him NOT.
1 Sam 9:11 ..is the seer here ?
Numbers 9:11... Passover signage..
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Has one good eYe.
..the time & the situation & the music
Will collide into perfect whimzee..id est, let me
Show ya the way $he accents the color of her hair....
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4986. Pleasant discourse.
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..the energy is continuing...per law One.
( The system ) scroll is rolling up...and
...winding down...law 2, entropy.
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3523. a mattress..........1645. produce*[ tion.
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2426. Army x rampart
4872. Moshe. ) From the water...
...the doctrine shall fall as rain...
...( The full spectrum rainbow UN disclosure..)
Gen. 9:11.... rainbow covenant
Deut. 9:11...2 table covenant
Job 9 : 11....eYe see him NOT.
1 Sam 9:11 ..is the seer here ?
Numbers 9:11... Passover signage..
Enoch 9:11....Yah ] .knows Everything.
Mark 9:11...why do the Scribes say, Eliyah comes first?
McBob 11:9...) Just establishing the warp speed preface to 20 / 20 vision...
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Lavoris...
My family used to buy Lavoris mouthwash when I was a kid. I thought the company went out of business as I haven't seen the product in a generation. I went to the dollar store (where things are $1.25 now) and was surprised to see they still sell this nostalgia product.
I brought home a bottle!
It's cinnamon flavor with a bright red color. Wow... a blast from the past.
I brought home a bottle!
It's cinnamon flavor with a bright red color. Wow... a blast from the past.
When is a plane .} not a Plane.[ ?
Tag. | . Airport confidential...landing on Time.
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Headed for nowhere } jets Overhead...
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... heavens on Fire / the Radio Department
..radio surgery / new found glory...
In rainbows.. )..) radio head...
...radio free Europe $ucked. Look @ Evidence. From 1945 to 1960...communism spread around the world @ ( approx.) 44 sq. Miles per hour. Washington is ground zero.
...part 2. The super bowl came from Montana.
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Z. super Position / young the GIANT.
....y. GIGANTIC / P I X I E S.
X. .phone Power / they might be Giants.
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b.) Song that the studio heads wanted to cut from 1939's wiz.of Oz.) Sum where over the rainbow
Place where deals were made in L A... rainbow cafe, where also the deep purple morphed into the band
Rainbow..circa 74/75.
C.) .most popular Joe Rogan podcast f. Alex Jones in an inverse rainbow NASA shirt. Comment scroll is already Legendary.
D. ) The thread of maximum giving ( & 20 / 20 vision
Gen. 9:11. Rainbow covenant
...Deut. 9:11 . 2 table covenant
1 Sam. 9:11..is the seer here ?
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a.) An image.*.b. a globe plane T. . c. in masonry./ Geometry.. d. All the above..
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... heathens / 21 pilots
.....both sides now.} .Belle of Bel air.
Headed for nowhere } jets Overhead...
... eventually I will convince you of my bona fide.$..
... heavens on Fire / the Radio Department
..radio surgery / new found glory...
In rainbows.. )..) radio head...
...radio free Europe $ucked. Look @ Evidence. From 1945 to 1960...communism spread around the world @ ( approx.) 44 sq. Miles per hour. Washington is ground zero.
...part 2. The super bowl came from Montana.
..eYe don't presume to know what Joe Biden is saying here-- but it is cool.
Z. super Position / young the GIANT.
....y. GIGANTIC / P I X I E S.
X. .phone Power / they might be Giants.
..also ran.) Stargazer / rainbow
...just sayin, the new Age will feature GIANTS. LOOK, LOOK, LOOK at LP rainbow rising 1976.
...a few notes along this way...a.) code name for allied WW2 war plan; RAINBOW
b.) Song that the studio heads wanted to cut from 1939's wiz.of Oz.) Sum where over the rainbow
Place where deals were made in L A... rainbow cafe, where also the deep purple morphed into the band
Rainbow..circa 74/75.
C.) .most popular Joe Rogan podcast f. Alex Jones in an inverse rainbow NASA shirt. Comment scroll is already Legendary.
D. ) The thread of maximum giving ( & 20 / 20 vision
Gen. 9:11. Rainbow covenant
...Deut. 9:11 . 2 table covenant
1 Sam. 9:11..is the seer here ?
...A.nswer.) a plane is not a Plane when it is...
a.) An image.*.b. a globe plane T. . c. in masonry./ Geometry.. d. All the above..
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Life is unpredictable.
I lost my younger brother on 23rd December 2021. He was 37 years old. He died of a heart attack. I am not happy on new year, I miss him a lot. Now life seems depressing and boring.
How uncertain is life. Everything you did, everything you thought was over in an instant.
I have heard people say that sharing reduces sorrow. That's why I'm trying to share my grief here.
Hey... do you remember _____ ?
I received a text message yesterday from a school friend I've known more than 50 years. Her husband and I communicate a few times a year and it's usually about other friends good and bad situations. The message was about another friend who passed away a few months ago. He was a retired attorney living in California and only a few years younger than me. Another one gone.
I dropped off the website for class reunions and she gives me updates.
As long as I've known her, she's been a vegetarian. She returned to Miami 12 years ago for a reunion and it must be working as she's about 125 pounds and most of her girlfriends who attended the event were no less than 180 pounds.
I'm expecting family holiday photos of her 2 kids and their families, then I could send them to my friends and say "Hey... do you remember ______?"
I dropped off the website for class reunions and she gives me updates.
As long as I've known her, she's been a vegetarian. She returned to Miami 12 years ago for a reunion and it must be working as she's about 125 pounds and most of her girlfriends who attended the event were no less than 180 pounds.
I'm expecting family holiday photos of her 2 kids and their families, then I could send them to my friends and say "Hey... do you remember ______?"
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