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Mar 6, 2009 6:54 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
I very recently tried to IM with somebody. She answered only to tell me she was too busy. Well, I understand too busy. My question then is why even bother answering if you can't talk. Why would somebody too busy even be on. If we were that busy wouldn't we wait and come on to CS later? I don't get this.

dunno confused
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Mar 6, 2009 6:56 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I'm too busy to answer your Thread. rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2009 6:56 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
She was possibly too busy in a chat room or forums, or on IM with someone else? Just thinking of possible explanations as to why she was on here, but too busy to IM with you. dunno
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Mar 6, 2009 6:58 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
kimi_girl
kimi_girlkimi_girlCincinnati, Ohio USA2 Threads 39 Posts
maybe she's simply not interested . . .
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Mar 6, 2009 6:59 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
I dont know the woman mate to be able to help youwave
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Mar 6, 2009 7:05 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
Dreamer82: I very recently tried to IM with somebody. She answered only to tell me she was too busy. Well, I understand too busy. My question then is why even bother answering if you can't talk. Why would somebody too busy even be on. If we were that busy wouldn't we wait and come on to CS later? I don't get this.



drinking You answer because it fills your whole screen AND if you don't answer, and just pop it off, they come back within a few minutes. Maybe she just uses her im for the people that she feels more comfortable with. Why don't you just email her and introduce yourself. Then see what happens. Good luck to youteddybear
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Mar 6, 2009 7:05 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
That couldn't be the problem because we've talked before. If she wasn't interested she would've told me that already.

dunno dunno
kimi_girl: maybe she's simply not interested . . .
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Mar 6, 2009 7:07 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
I think she was having a small crisis,,try again wink
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Mar 6, 2009 7:08 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Dreamer82: That couldn't be the problem because we've talked before. If she wasn't interested she would've told me that already.


Then try again later. Or email her and ask her to IM you when she gets a chance.
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Mar 6, 2009 7:09 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Maybe she's a "player"."


dunno
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Mar 6, 2009 7:10 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Or maybe her settings are stuffed up like mine aresigh
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Mar 6, 2009 7:11 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
lets face it m8 why bother asking who knows what a woman thinksrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2009 7:13 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
There´s nowt so strange as folk (old English expression) particularly CS folk (Jan expression!)

Never mind, she obviously wasn´t as interested as you. Move on, plenty more ladies looking for love.
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Mar 6, 2009 7:17 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Could it have been that she was already talking to someone on IM at the moment. dunno

I wouldn't take it to personal myself, maybe she had other things going on at the time. At least she didn't refuse to talk to you by not answering at all.
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Mar 6, 2009 7:21 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Dreamer82: I very recently tried to IM with somebody. She answered only to tell me she was too busy. Well, I understand too busy. My question then is why even bother answering if you can't talk. Why would somebody too busy even be on. If we were that busy wouldn't we wait and come on to CS later? I don't get this.


Because, and I do this myself often......

You can open more than one window at a time, my friend. From my point of view, I have work I need to do and yet I log onto CS at the same time. I work in one window and check in at times to CS in another window. I flit between the two.... when I am able, of course. It may often appear that I am constantly on CS for a long period of time and yet I am doing other things also.....

Its only one explanation of course..... dunno

wave
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Mar 6, 2009 7:22 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
roseofsharon: Because, and I do this myself often......

You can open more than one window at a time, my friend. From my point of view, I have work I need to do and yet I log onto CS at the same time. I work in one window and check in at times to CS in another window. I flit between the two.... when I am able, of course. It may often appear that I am constantly on CS for a long period of time and yet I am doing other things also.....

Its only one explanation of course.....


Never mind this ya old bat...where's my bloody risotto reciperolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2009 7:23 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
I agree with some of the others. She was probably already IMing with someone else. At least she responded instead of just ignoring your request. wink
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Mar 6, 2009 7:23 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
Even though I leave a CS screen open (which shows I am online in CS) it does not always indicate that I am in CS. I could be in the bedroom making whoopie and you would not know it. So yes she could have been busy and just happened to have left her CS screen open, was walking by and noticed your IM. Happens to me all the time, and I also politely tell the gentleman that I am busy.
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Mar 6, 2009 7:29 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
RobbieM: Never mind this ya old bat...where's my bloody risotto recipe


You obviously haven't checked your Frog Blancmange thread recently.....

Ohhhh, please... do keep up!! roll eyes doh

tongue

rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2009 7:33 PM CST Ok, What's going on here?
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Noo, that is so yesterday! Jump from thread to thread causing chaos is the new black.
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