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Mar 22, 2009 2:09 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Mercedes1: Im praying he dont want desert


He will know the answer to that question if you shaved your legs or not! Did you?
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Mar 22, 2009 2:15 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
I simply go with the flow and act naturally.....

You will soon know if there is chemistry...

I have even been introduced to a guy and we have looked at each other and knew there was an instant spark...
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Mar 22, 2009 2:17 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Big_John: He will know the answer to that question if you shaved your legs or not! Did you?


Yep legs are always shaved even in Winterangel
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Mar 22, 2009 2:21 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
The world is such a small place - won't shave my legs for a first date!


blushing
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Mar 22, 2009 2:36 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Tamarin: I simply go with the flow and act naturally.....

You will soon know if there is chemistry...

I have even been introduced to a guy and we have looked at each other and knew there was an instant spark...


This is what I am looking for in a women; that I look at her the first time and wow is the first thing I think. Oh to have the instant chemistry and spark to work from.... Everything else probably can be worked out.
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Mar 22, 2009 2:38 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
Apostophe: The world is such a small place - won't shave my legs for a first date!


LOL, that would definitely keep you from doing something stupid.. just in case things got super heated eh?! rose Not that you would do something stupid.. jus' sayin!
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Mar 22, 2009 2:47 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Big_John: This is what I am looking for in a women; that I look at her the first time and wow is the first thing I think. Oh to have the instant chemistry and spark to work from.... Everything else probably can be worked out.


Yep but I did not act on it and nearly lost the chance...

Just so happens that person hung around and we both have now admitted that instant chemistry and spark...so this time we will act upon it....applause
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Mar 22, 2009 2:55 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Tamarin: Yep but I did not act on it and nearly lost the chance...

Just so happens that person hung around and we both have now admitted that instant chemistry and spark...so this time we will act upon it....


Well go for it girl... I hope it works out for you two.
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Mar 22, 2009 3:30 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
takeit4granted: most of my initial questions are already asked,,,hers too,I would think,,most importantly to me is the flow of conversation,,is it easy flowing?,,,,when curiousitys are answered without questions thats very appealing to me


If there were some silence on the date would that bother you?
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Mar 23, 2009 2:27 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
if its a date with someone i havent got to know first i ask about what hobbies he has , music ,movies he likes etc but if its say internet dating where youve none him a while first just see how it goes and just keep the conversations goingconversing
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Mar 23, 2009 2:40 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?

What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?

What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

What do you like to do for fun?

or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.

What are your 1st date questions?
one time on a first date she had pliars in her purse i said what are those for she said their good for grabbing and squeezing things just in case you try any of the out of gas are backseat tricksrolling on the floor laughing just jokinglaugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2009 2:48 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
but being serious overcoming the first date nervousness is very hard sometimes you just dont know what to say are ask
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Mar 23, 2009 3:15 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?

What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?

What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

What do you like to do for fun?

or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.

What are your 1st date questions?


Well lets see here...

to terrify every woman who reads my posting, or NOT to terrify...That is the question...

Not to terrify will be the answer this time...

Mostly I ask them if there is anything they wish to know about me, that usually fills the entire date. I find out about them by the questions they ask me. It shows where their priorities TEND to be by what they ask so for me it has worked amazingly well... but you should also know I have only had 8 "first dates" dunno
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Mar 23, 2009 3:59 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
I have met many men who say in their profile that they are single and eventually I find out that they aren't.

I usually ask the question if their married in phone calls before the first date. If he says he isn't I'll ask it again when we meet.

The thing I hope for is that he can make me laugh. That is the thing that is missing in my life.

So to answer your question, my big concern is if he's married.
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Mar 23, 2009 5:07 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?

What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?

What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

What do you like to do for fun?

or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.

What are your 1st date questions?



Usually my only question is...You don't mind if we call it an early night, do you??
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Mar 23, 2009 5:30 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
pretzelman: Usually my only question is...You don't mind if we call it an early night, do you??


wow What, together or alone? rolling on the floor laughing
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