Big_JohnOPOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
Tamarin: I simply go with the flow and act naturally.....
You will soon know if there is chemistry...
I have even been introduced to a guy and we have looked at each other and knew there was an instant spark...
This is what I am looking for in a women; that I look at her the first time and wow is the first thing I think. Oh to have the instant chemistry and spark to work from.... Everything else probably can be worked out.
Apostophe: The world is such a small place - won't shave my legs for a first date!
LOL, that would definitely keep you from doing something stupid.. just in case things got super heated eh?! Not that you would do something stupid.. jus' sayin!
Big_John: This is what I am looking for in a women; that I look at her the first time and wow is the first thing I think. Oh to have the instant chemistry and spark to work from.... Everything else probably can be worked out.
Yep but I did not act on it and nearly lost the chance...
Just so happens that person hung around and we both have now admitted that instant chemistry and spark...so this time we will act upon it....
Big_JohnOPOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
takeit4granted: most of my initial questions are already asked,,,hers too,I would think,,most importantly to me is the flow of conversation,,is it easy flowing?,,,,when curiousitys are answered without questions thats very appealing to me
If there were some silence on the date would that bother you?
Mar 23, 2009 2:27 PM CST When you go on that first date what do you...
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 posts
if its a date with someone i havent got to know first i ask about what hobbies he has , music ,movies he likes etc but if its say internet dating where youve none him a while first just see how it goes and just keep the conversations going
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?
What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?
What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?
What do you like to do for fun?
or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.
What are your 1st date questions?
one time on a first date she had pliars in her purse i said what are those for she said their good for grabbing and squeezing things just in case you try any of the out of gas are backseat tricks just joking
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?
What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?
What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?
What do you like to do for fun?
or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.
What are your 1st date questions?
Well lets see here...
to terrify every woman who reads my posting, or NOT to terrify...That is the question...
Not to terrify will be the answer this time...
Mostly I ask them if there is anything they wish to know about me, that usually fills the entire date. I find out about them by the questions they ask me. It shows where their priorities TEND to be by what they ask so for me it has worked amazingly well... but you should also know I have only had 8 "first dates"
Big_John: think about asking? Do you have question you want to know the answers?
What is the sort of relationship you are looking for and why?
What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?
What do you like to do for fun?
or are you so overcome with fears and insecurities. You may be afraid of rejection, failure, saying the wrong things and coming across like a loser in front of your date.
What are your 1st date questions?
Usually my only question is...You don't mind if we call it an early night, do you??
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He will know the answer to that question if you shaved your legs or not! Did you?