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Mar 23, 2009 9:38 PM CST Give people a chance
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Ok everyone guys and ladies.If your looking for love what are you looking for?Perfetion/love/just chatting making friends?I don't know but I see alot of people look at age 10/20 years differance as wrong or not sutible for them.



I recromend get to know them talk about stuff to see where things lead.The worst thing that can happen is you make great friends as I know I have a few and they know who they are.
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Mar 23, 2009 9:43 PM CST Give people a chance
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
I'm all for being friendly to anyone at any age...but would never even consider a relationship with a younger woman
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Mar 23, 2009 9:45 PM CST Give people a chance
kellydenise
kellydenisekellydenisecleveland, Ohio USA7 Threads 519 Posts
pretzelman: I'm all for being friendly to anyone at any age...but would never even consider a relationship with a younger woman


I have had relationships with younger men. I did not find it satifying. My personal experience.
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Mar 23, 2009 9:46 PM CST Give people a chance
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
kellydenise: I have had relationships with younger men. I did not find it satifying. My personal experience.
head banger head banger
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Mar 23, 2009 9:48 PM CST Give people a chance
loverboy690: Ok everyone guys and ladies.If your looking for love what are you looking for?Perfetion/love/just chatting making friends?I don't know but I see alot of people look at age 10/20 years differance as wrong or not sutible for them.
I recromend get to know them talk about stuff to see where things lead.The worst thing that can happen is you make great friends as I know I have a few and they know who they are.



LB I'm not looking for perfection ...and friednship is fine with me.We can never have enough friends in our lives.I believe that people who enter into a relationship with someone should become friends with that person that they're interested in first and foremost and then take their time to see what developes from that friendship.

As for the age difference I just don't want someone younger then me is all. I've seen some pretty handsome young men on this site and have recieved emails from them but I tell them sorry not interested.
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Mar 23, 2009 10:05 PM CST Give people a chance
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I gave someone a chance. We're meeting in May. grin cool dancing
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Mar 23, 2009 10:12 PM CST Give people a chance
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
I'm willing and open to giving anyone a chance. I respond to all emails and flowers...problem is...rolling on the floor laughing ya gotta get em to respond to em....rolling on the floor laughing Age is not the big problem... 5 years + or - is fine with me. I just don't think beyond that they'd have much in common with me as far as a romantic relationship goes. teddybear But who knows...I'm open to trying!
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Mar 23, 2009 10:15 PM CST Give people a chance
waiting4u
waiting4uwaiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA3 Threads 1,869 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: I gave someone a chance. We're meeting in May.


heart beating bouquet
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Mar 23, 2009 10:17 PM CST Give people a chance
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Love found me.I have friends here,one's I'm hoping to keep."


In response to: Ok everyone guys and ladies.If your looking for love what are you looking for?Perfetion/love/just chatting making friends?I don't know but I see alot of people look at age 10/20 years differance as wrong or not sutible for them.
I recromend get to know them talk about stuff to see where things lead.The worst thing that can happen is you make great friends as I know I have a few and they know who they are.
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Mar 23, 2009 10:25 PM CST Give people a chance
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
I gave enough chances. Give one more and I'll just get burned again.
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Mar 23, 2009 10:58 PM CST Give people a chance
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
RicoWest: I gave enough chances. Give one more and I'll just get burned again.


I understand...I'm beginning to think that men don't like it when a woman makes initial contact .... cuz the last 2 I flirted with ... zilched me...moping oh well!
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Mar 23, 2009 11:07 PM CST Give people a chance
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Charli15695: I understand...I'm beginning to think that men don't like it when a woman makes initial contact .... cuz the last 2 I flirted with ... zilched me... oh well!




Hi G/F Don't give up and try again. Sometimes it takes
them awhile to realize, hey, I think this lady is truly
interested in me. hug
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Mar 23, 2009 11:08 PM CST Give people a chance
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Screw me once,,,,shame on you.

Screw me twice,,,,,shame on me.
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Mar 23, 2009 11:11 PM CST Give people a chance
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
sassy49senior: Hi G/F Don't give up and try again. Sometimes it takes them awhile to realize, hey, I think this lady is truly interested in me.


Thanks sweetie...but I don't see how it could have been more obvious...but, guess it's their loss! doh You're the best GF!hug
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Mar 23, 2009 11:31 PM CST Give people a chance
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Charli15695: Thanks sweetie...but I don't see how it could have been more obvious...but, guess it's their loss! You're the best GF!



Awww geez, Now why can't I get a guy to say that to me
(JK) wink You take care and I will try to get a mail
off to you tomorrow. wave
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Mar 23, 2009 11:33 PM CST Give people a chance
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
sassy49senior: Awww geez, Now why can't I get a guy to say that to me (JK) You take care and I will try to get a mail
off to you tomorrow.


Okie dokie...have a good night! hug
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Mar 23, 2009 11:51 PM CST Give people a chance
The13thWarrior
The13thWarriorThe13thWarriorMelksham, Wiltshire, England UK15 Threads 1,707 Posts
pretzelman: I'm all for being friendly to anyone at any age...but would never even consider a relationship with a younger woman


I seriously considered a younger partner. But my experiences of incompatability were (sadly) not related to the age difference. But the fact they were all scammers preying on the vulnerability of an older, lonely male.

I think the older one becomes.. The less relevant is the issue of age difference. Since both partners have more "life experience". And a clearer understanding of what they're looking for.

As it turns out (much to my surprise, and delight) my new partner is older than "me". And i can honesty say i've never been happier or more fulfilled. grin
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Mar 24, 2009 12:33 AM CST Give people a chance
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
The13thWarrior: I seriously considered a younger partner. But my experiences of incompatability were (sadly) not related to the age difference. But the fact they were all scammers preying on the vulnerability of an older, lonely male.

I think the older one becomes.. The less relevant is the issue of age difference. Since both partners have more "life experience". And a clearer understanding of what they're looking for.

As it turns out (much to my surprise, and delight) my new partner is older than "me". And i can honesty say i've never been happier or more fulfilled.


Would you mind posting that in CAPS, underlined and in quotes????

I'm glad that you are happy.wave
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Mar 24, 2009 12:36 AM CST Give people a chance
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
.....Very Wise words...L.B....and Yes sometimes We all need to do that...and that includes 'Me' as well ...

thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

J.B
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Mar 24, 2009 12:41 AM CST Give people a chance
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Charli15695: I understand...I'm beginning to think that men don't like it when a woman makes initial contact .... cuz the last 2 I flirted with ... zilched me... oh well!



Hmmm......No...I really beg to differ on that one....its really great from my point of view that a 'Lady' makes the first contact...To me, it shows that they have strength, on who they are in themselves, and know what they want.....respect and admiration to you Ladies.......thumbs up handshake

J.D

wine
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