Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat? ( Archived) (85)

Mar 28, 2009 10:27 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
USThumper: Mornin Sass. I enjoy these forams but truly would like to find the right one for me. It may take a while though, and in the meantime we can have fun here.




Good Morning Thump, A cup of hot coffee headed your way in these glass mugs so don't let it head you in the head wink
I do have fun here also but am still looking. Have a great
week-end. cheers
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Mar 28, 2009 10:29 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
sassy49senior: Good Morning Thump, A cup of hot coffee headed your way in these glass mugs so don't let it head you in the head
I do have fun here also but am still looking. Have a great
week-end.
Thanks for the coffee. Same to you lady.
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Mar 28, 2009 10:30 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Chavsmustdie: I would in an instance :)


You'd be the one exception then. Most people genuinely cannot do it because they have obligations at home (job, mortgage, kids, etc).
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Mar 28, 2009 10:33 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
USThumper: You could always take me along as a toyboy


Dammit, I can't afford a toyboy right now. Just my luck, eh wink laugh
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Mar 28, 2009 10:35 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
Scubadiva: Dammit, I can't afford a toyboy right now. Just my luck, eh
Rats, thought I had a free trip to europe. Oh well keep trying
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Mar 28, 2009 10:37 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Scubadiva: Hi
Well, connecting singles doesn't exclude connecting on a friendship basis. I'm one of those people for whom looking for a relationship is absolutely pointless. I'm flying out of the US next week, I'll be in Europe for a year or two and then it's back over to the US. There is no way anyone could seriously put up with that, let alone come along. It'd be nothing short of a miracle to establish anything serious given the circumstances. So I think it's actually fair to say to people up front: hey, friendship only. At least that's how I see it, you know.



Good Morning Scubadiva, I certainly do not mean to imply you should not be here if you only want firends. I have several from here and they are great and yes hun, with your hectic schedule I understand. Me, I am still looking for that missing piece to my puzzle. wave
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Mar 28, 2009 10:39 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Chavsmustdie: Thats the express reason for my signing up here, i WANT a partner from another country. Someone a little different and endearing.



And I think that is wonderful!!handshake
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Mar 28, 2009 10:41 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
azdesperado72: Personally I'm looking for that someone special. I have been through hell in past relationships so I am a bit particular and expect to get to know someone a bit before letting my heart get attached.

Sadly, the few women I have emailed that have similar interestes haven't so much as read the emails, so I don't know exactly what to think of the site at this point.



Welcome to CS azdesperado, Just keep the flowers and mails going and hopefully you will get some replies. I sent out a few flowers this AM to some I never see in the forums and see if that makes a difference. Take Care wave
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Mar 28, 2009 10:41 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Good morning Sassy -- great thread -- got any coffee left? I have enjoyed my time here - making some friends and chatting in the forums.

At first, I came on in search of a SO, but the longer I'm here - I'm grateful for the wonderfully kind and friendly people I've encountered here -- it's addictive! rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 28, 2009 10:45 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
HJFinAZ: ME???? Stir the pot on occasion?? NEVER!!!!



You just stick around HJ and give that pot a stir every chance you get. You are one more friend that I am glad to have met on here. Glad you have a date you rascal wink Does she have any brothersmumbling How is your Mom? hug
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Mar 28, 2009 10:46 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Charli15695: Good morning Sassy -- great thread -- got any coffee left? I have enjoyed my time here - making some friends and chatting in the forums.

At first, I came on in search of a SO, but the longer I'm here - I'm grateful for the wonderfully kind and friendly people I've encountered here -- it's addictive!


here to chat..met my loving husband right here on the site
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Mar 28, 2009 10:46 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Chavsmustdie
ChavsmustdieChavsmustdieRomsey, Hampshire, England UK1 Threads 88 Posts
pretzelman: And I think that is wonderful!!



beer

Thanks Pretzelman, and nice to meet you :)
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Mar 28, 2009 10:48 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
sassy49senior: Good Morning Scubadiva, I certainly do not mean to imply you should not be here if you only want firends. I have several from here and they are great and yes hun, with your hectic schedule I understand. Me, I am still looking for that missing piece to my puzzle.


wave Good morning,
Oh goodness, I know you're not implying anything. I just thought I'd mention that there are people on here who, like myself, have good reason to not look for a relationship. Of course then there are those who state in their profile that they want one and then suddenly claim they're on for friendship only. That's a bit fishy, imo. If I were in your shoes, my pro would definitely read differently. In fact, I think it's cool that you're so outspoken about what you're looking for, rather than sit around and wait to be "discovered". thumbs up
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Mar 28, 2009 10:51 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
kissmedeeply: here to chat..met my loving husband right here on the site


And we're glad you're still here dear -- you are one of the truly lovely people - always nice to see you around the forums.
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Mar 28, 2009 10:52 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Charli15695: And we're glad you're still here dear -- you are one of the truly lovely people - always nice to see you around the forums.


aww thank you dear...

Nice to see you againhug
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Mar 28, 2009 10:57 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
kissmedeeply: here to chat..met my loving husband right here on the site



You and Eric and the other couples that have found each other on CS are a blessing and wonderful to keep in touch and see how your lives are going. hug
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Mar 28, 2009 10:59 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Charli15695: Good morning Sassy -- great thread -- got any coffee left? I have enjoyed my time here - making some friends and chatting in the forums.

At first, I came on in search of a SO, but the longer I'm here - I'm grateful for the wonderfully kind and friendly people I've encountered here -- it's addictive!



Good Morning g/f, Coffee always on in my place, sending you a mug but like I told Thumper, be careful that it does not hit you in the head as it is glass cheers Have a gret week-end hug
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Mar 28, 2009 11:06 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
In response to: I came back to CS after my break-up because I truly was
hoping to find a gentleman that would have some of my
same interests, but willing to step out of his comfort
zone, as I would also and try something new. Would like
to find someone who is here to try the dating scene and
see if it may lead to wanting to be together.

But it seems most are here mainly for friendship or just
to be in the forums to see how many people they can rile
up. I enjoy the forums but seems we tend to forget this is
connecting singles. (JMO)


Sassy there are quite a few men out there who are not on the forums. Just a small percentage of us come here just to be friends. At least we are upfront about it.
I just got an IM from a man on another site where I make it very clear that is what I am looking for. Good friends to hang out and enjoy. He has IM'd me three or four times asking me if I want a Boyfriend finally I asked him if he read my profile. He has been rude and very aggressive to me every time he has IM'd me lol.
So as long as people are upfront with what they want from the sites there should be plenty of peeps to go around to hook up with for those of you who do want someone.
No matter what someone is online for friendship is always a blessing from men or women and you never know who you might meet. I have heard some of the people say that they have been on here for a couple of years before they met someone.
Sorry for the rambling. I just think there is a place for all of us no matter what our motivation to be online interconnecting with others.teddybear hug hug
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Mar 28, 2009 11:08 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
lady93
lady93lady93Houston, Texas USA5 Threads 5 Polls 75 Posts
pretzelman: I confess...I am here for the chat! I think it is redundant to sign on to an international dating site, if you are looking for a partner! But that's just me! Unless you are wealthy, why would you look for a partner halfway around the world? You are not likely to ever meet.

The fact that most(if not all) of the states forums go unused is evidence that people are not serious about finding a partner. The last post in the Nevada room, was by me in early February! Not a single post since then!



If I may say it is not impossible. Wealth doesnt have anything to do with it. Unless you are just dirt poor it does not cost a lot to buy a plane ticket. And if you educated and have a career relocating is not a problem. I have meet people in UK someone visited me here before so its not impossible :)
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Mar 28, 2009 11:11 AM CST Do We Truly Want To Date Or Just Chat?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
sassy49senior: Good Morning g/f, Coffee always on in my place, sending you a mug but like I told Thumper, be careful that it does not hit you in the head as it is glass Have a gret week-end


Thanks sweety -- got it! I'm stayin in for a bit this morn -- as it's freezin here! LOL...brrrrrr -- nice, hot coffee helps chase the chill away! Hope you have a good one too!teddybear
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