Dating Internationally (85)
kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Hello Kizzy, dating internationaly is very hard, expensive and painfull but there is a plus side, before you get to spend a lot of money in flights hotels visas etc etc you want to get to know that person verry well, be nearly 99% sure she/he is the one for you, get to spend a lot of time knowing him/her over the net talking about even the stupidiest things like flavourit water lol
But tell you one thing, It might be hard but it is worth it totally......
Where you been looking into? italy?
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kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Im just saying Hello Kizzy
I couldnt go for the long distance thing myself but have seen it work out fine for many here
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whitesoul: Hello Kizzy, dating internationaly is very hard, expensive and painfull but there is a plus side, before you get to spend a lot of money in flights hotels visas etc etc you want to get to know that person verry well, be nearly 99% sure she/he is the one for you, get to spend a lot of time knowing him/her over the net talking about even the stupidiest things like flavourit water lol
But tell you one thing, It might be hard but it is worth it totally......
Where you been looking into? italy?
But tell you one thing, It might be hard but it is worth it totally......
Where you been looking into? italy?
I like what he had to say.
Makes sense.
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kizzy27: ....
1) how is it going for you ,
2) what are the hurdles faced ,
3) when do you plan to actually meet
4) do the logistics deter you at all .
5) Finnacial constraints?
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1) how is it going for you ,
2) what are the hurdles faced ,
3) when do you plan to actually meet
4) do the logistics deter you at all .
5) Finnacial constraints?
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1) I am still way above
2) A few, but all have been discussed, but will be easy to 'jump' as we come to them.
3) When the time is right.
4) Not in the least.
5) I will not let money keep me from going as far as I can, if I sell everything I own it will not matter to me as long as it gets me there. I can always make money no matter where I go, Have to love the internet!
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kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
One might even go as far and state that it's "safer", chances at succes can even be higher, cause you are forced not to rush into "something" and thus have the time to do your homework without any pressure...
And the day you meet face to face and the sparks fly(in a good sense) ...it's so much more special than the ordinary dating game...------ This thread is Archived ------
X_REBEL: One might even go as far and state that it's "safer", chances at succes can even be higher, cause you are forced not to rush into "something" and thus have the time to do your homework without any pressure... And the day you meet face to face and the sparks fly(in a good sense) ...it's so much more special than the ordinary dating game...
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whitesoul: Hello Kizzy, dating internationaly is very hard, expensive and painfull but there is a plus side, before you get to spend a lot of money in flights hotels visas etc etc you want to get to know that person verry well, be nearly 99% sure she/he is the one for you, get to spend a lot of time knowing him/her over the net talking about even the stupidiest things like flavourit water lol
But tell you one thing, It might be hard but it is worth it totally......
Where you been looking into? italy?
But tell you one thing, It might be hard but it is worth it totally......
Where you been looking into? italy?
I get the whole concept of deep feelings Ive experianced that myself although when the actual meet has happened there was simply no spark admittidly we were talking for only 2 months but it felt very real we had indepth phone conversations almost daily
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
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Shedman01: 1) I am still way above
2) A few, but all have been discussed, but will be easy to 'jump' as we come to them.
3) When the time is right.
4) Not in the least.
5) I will not let money keep me from going as far as I can, if I sell everything I own it will not matter to me as long as it gets me there. I can always make money no matter where I go, Have to love the internet!
2) A few, but all have been discussed, but will be easy to 'jump' as we come to them.
3) When the time is right.
4) Not in the least.
5) I will not let money keep me from going as far as I can, if I sell everything I own it will not matter to me as long as it gets me there. I can always make money no matter where I go, Have to love the internet!
awww I have everything crossed for you & mercedes1
well not everything entirley
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In response to: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Being the romantic woman that i am i have to say..Love can build a bridge..
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I dated a woman from Perth at one time. We met physically a few times and it fizzled. But as a previous poster said, it's a great way for a pair to truely get to know one another without rushing into things, however as he said as well, it can be difficult.
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kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
BTW, welcome to the insane asylum. Straight jackets to the right, meds & room assignments to the left. Feel free to join the fellow inmates...err..patients in the forums!
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X_REBEL: One might even go as far and state that it's "safer", chances at succes can even be higher, cause you are forced not to rush into "something" and thus have the time to do your homework without any pressure... And the day you meet face to face and the sparks fly(in a good sense) ...it's so much more special than the ordinary dating game...
I suppose you can get to know the real person the longer you chat but wow it would be sad if the chemistry was missing when you arrived
If nothing else you would be friends i suppose
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kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all .
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
The biggest hurdle is this huge freaking lake.
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kizzy27: I get the whole concept of deep feelings Ive experianced that myself although when the actual meet has happened there was simply no spark admittidly we were talking for only 2 months but it felt very real we had indepth phone conversations almost daily
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
yes it did, but with 9 h flight....no smoking for 9 h almost killed me
But it happens often you do get to know somebody and when you arrange to meet up you expect it to be all perfect, that you will fall deeply in love with each other...etc etc....
I allways suggest to think you have found a friend even if in your heart you want love...its hard to do but the chemistry between internet and real life are to very different things...
BTW if it was me you were meeting I would of never made you have a 7 h flight to come and visit me, I would of visited you....that explains a lot fo things....does it not? just tell me and I will be very down to earth with you...
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kizzy27: I get the whole concept of deep feelings Ive experianced that myself although when the actual meet has happened there was simply no spark admittidly we were talking for only 2 months but it felt very real we had indepth phone conversations almost daily
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
Yeah yeah it's not to say that it will always work out...but i look at the positive side of things and tell myself that even if things doen't work out...i had a nice holiday in another country and with maybe a new "friend". One has to realise that even if things doesn't work out now...it might well work out later perhaps...who knows??
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kizzy27: I get the whole concept of deep feelings Ive experianced that myself although when the actual meet has happened there was simply no spark admittidly we were talking for only 2 months but it felt very real we had indepth phone conversations almost daily
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
but the zing just wasnt there on meeting has this happend to you?
I mean to arrange a weekend 7 hrs away was tricky enough not to mention disapointing when we both realised it wasnt gonna happen, more than dissapointing heartbreaking, gut renching even tho we both just knew ,
To travel half way around the world would hurt even more .
I met someone from here after we had been emailing for 2.5mths. But only because I was in that part of the world, and we had kept it low key up 'til then. But we did get on as well as online. But 7 days and then me leaving made continuity of a new relationship difficult and the challenges it posed, not recommended. It left too much 'unfinished business'.
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Da10th: BTW, welcome to the insane asylum. Straight jackets to the right, meds & room assignments to the left. Feel free to join the fellow inmates...err..patients in the forums!
Thx da10th ill keep it in mind by the way which ways the emergency exit just in case
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kizzy27: Thx da10th ill keep it in mind by the way which ways the emergency exit just in case
No such thing, you are now stuck here like the rest of us
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venere08: I met someone from here after we had been emailing for 2.5mths. But only because I was in that part of the world, and we had kept it low key up 'til then. But we did get on as well as online. But 7 days and then me leaving made continuity of a new relationship difficult and the challenges it posed, not recommended. It left too much 'unfinished business'.
Is that the story of the married guy ??
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Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema?
Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy