venere08: Good heavens no! But I think I know where you have developed your little story
I do recall me joking about a guy who contacted me from interstate from another site of which I wasn't a paid member. I posted here that a man who lived in Melbourne (interstate) and Sommer was seriously wanting me to pay my subs and open up his email to see what he had written. And all bets were on that he was married. Is that the one? I'd forgotten about that. You had the basics, 'cept you made up the rest!
Sommerauer71: It was a response to your post, I knew you meant you were confusing me with Ven but you worded it that you were confused with me.
Just a little joke darling.
What red wine are you drinking?
I think it's called "Black Label/Mcguire's winery"....its an Aussie wine and kinda pinotage/cabernet...does that make sense? Its very smooooothhhhhh...just as i like it...
Sommerauer71: I am in an international relationship.
It works for us, for now.
It has never bothered me climbing on planes.
Not the ideal situation but work keeps us apart at the moment.
Never enough, calls and emails, it can not replace being close to the person you love.
We see each other once a month at the very least.
Ok so you are in love both obviously have your own lives families friends etc & yet youve fallen in love so this monthly contact will continue until when? who moves ? Do you think down the track thoughts or is it just me ? Dont get me wrong i think its womnderful youve met someone to love I justy want some feed back on how it works.
X_REBEL: Yeah thats it!...at least i remebered bits and pieces...not like other "involved" parties... How did that story end again??/ Did you open "it"...???
Yes, you did well in remembering. You really did have me stumped, but you seemed to be serious so I got to casting my mind back, knowing there must be some shred of truth in what you were saying.
Yes I did, after about 2 mths, because he had written me more emails. Essentially, he wanted to meet, surprise, surprise. So in the end, I wrote back giving him a piece of my mind. He didn't take too kindly to my communication. No idea why. So that was that
venere08: Yes, you did well in remembering. You really did have me stumped, but you seemed to be serious so I got to casting my mind back, knowing there must be some shred of truth in what you were saying.
Yes I did, after about 2 mths, because he had written me more emails. Essentially, he wanted to meet, surprise, surprise. So in the end, I wrote back giving him a piece of my mind. He didn't take too kindly to my communication. No idea why. So that was that
...yes well he could've been your prince standing underneath the palmtree on the Cook islands...but now we'll never know...
kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all . Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema? Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
international dating is good and we are learning here many goog things but find someone is very difficult due to a long distnace and many of users are not intrested to meet someone abroad and few do that
I had a short lived international"romance" with someone. He came here first after 6 weeks of emails/phone calls and then webcam communication. I went to vist him 2 months later. It was Italy (for the Italian young man who asked OP about his country). The unfortunate thing is he thought himself the classic Italian playboy, and I don't share very well. At least not that sort of 'sharing'.
ali110: international dating is good and we are learning here many goog things but find someone is very difficult due to a long distnace and many of users are not intrested to meet someone abroad and few do that
There also is alot of scammers so its hard to know if the person your speaking with is legitimate. Initially withoutbeing able to meet face to face its a concern, I think thats whats thrown me off a bit i mean ive met guys here who are soooo nothing like their photos , profile just liars its sad really
kizzy27: There also is alot of scammers so its hard to know if the person your speaking with is legitimate. Initially withoutbeing able to meet face to face its a concern, I think thats whats thrown me off a bit i mean ive met guys here who are soooo nothing like their photos , profile just liars its sad really
You are absloutly right that there are many scammers but scammers are easy to guess and thier way to make relation is very diffrent,
Mercedes1: Alls good except I wish the world would spin backwards just for once so I dont have to get up for work in the morn
lol I can relate so yeah on that subject hows the time difference in communicating does it get to you after a while or is that the least of the problems
kizzy27: Hi all ,having not long ventured into the international forums Ive noticed alot here seem to be having relationships with others overseas how is it going for you , what are the hurdles faced , when do you plan to actually meet or have you already & do the logistics deter you at all . Finnacial constraints would be difficult to overcome is anyone here facing that dilema? Just wondering how it all comes together
Kizzy
hi kizzy,well just have luck but still facing in dilema just kidding....i hope its luck
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
kizzy27: lol I can relate so yeah on that subject hows the time difference in communicating does it get to you after a while or is that the least of the problems
Its as if he lives here in Aus as we must chat about 6 to 10 times a day on our phones.. He will walk me to the bus stop as I wait for my bus to work and he walks me all the way to work when I get off the bus actually as we chat..
He sends me numerous texts while Im at work and he sings to me on the phone.. He takes pics of different flowers and he emails them to me as a way of me receiving them forever.. Oh and he made the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and he had them in front of my pics on cs that he mailed me which ive turned into my main screen pic on my pc..
He writes me poetry and he is always wanting to know about me and he always has a knack of lifting me when I have a blue day. We also have a blast here with our mates who are right behind us with much support
kizzy27: Ok so you are in love both obviously have your own lives families friends etc & yet youve fallen in love so this monthly contact will continue until when? who moves ? Do you think down the track thoughts or is it just me ? Dont get me wrong i think its womnderful youve met someone to love I justy want some feed back on how it works.
Hi Kitty
During the summer, when we have the good fortune to have more time together, then we will look at where we are going.
We speak each day, hate being apart, but we cope and accept the situation. We are not unhappy and miserable when apart, because that would be allowing the situation to get us both down and we are not that sort of people. I am in education so I have the luxury of only working 34 weeks of the year. I have the time to travel.
When you say 'down the track' thoughts, could you explain please?
Mercedes1: Its as if he lives here in Aus as we must chat about 6 to 10 times a day on our phones.. He will walk me to the bus stop as I wait for my bus to work and he walks me all the way to work when I get off the bus actually as we chat..
He sends me numerous texts while Im at work and he sings to me on the phone.. He takes pics of different flowers and he emails them to me as a way of me receiving them forever.. Oh and he made the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and he had them in front of my pics on cs that he mailed me which ive turned into my main screen pic on my pc..
He writes me poetry and he is always wanting to know about me and he always has a knack of lifting me when I have a blue day. We also have a blast here with our mates who are right behind us with much support
Mercedes1: Its as if he lives here in Aus as we must chat about 6 to 10 times a day on our phones.. He will walk me to the bus stop as I wait for my bus to work and he walks me all the way to work when I get off the bus actually as we chat..
He sends me numerous texts while Im at work and he sings to me on the phone.. He takes pics of different flowers and he emails them to me as a way of me receiving them forever.. Oh and he made the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and he had them in front of my pics on cs that he mailed me which ive turned into my main screen pic on my pc..
He writes me poetry and he is always wanting to know about me and he always has a knack of lifting me when I have a blue day. We also have a blast here with our mates who are right behind us with much support
well youve both got my support also that is so sweet merc congrats your shedman sounds like the man for you you & others here have madfe me realise that even tho there are issues retaing to a distance relationship they can be overcome when a leap of faith is made ..
During the summer, when we have the good fortune to have more time together, then we will look at where we are going.
We speak each day, hate being apart, but we cope and accept the situation. We are not unhappy and miserable when apart, because that would be allowing the situation to get us both down and we are not that sort of people. I am in education so I have the luxury of only working 34 weeks of the year. I have the time to travel.
When you say 'down the track' thoughts, could you explain please?
Sorry aussie Lingo down the track mean whats ahead for you whats the future hold do you think about & plan the future
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
kizzy27: well youve both got my support also that is so sweet merc congrats your shedman sounds like the man for you you & others here have madfe me realise that even tho there are issues retaing to a distance relationship they can be overcome when a leap of faith is made ..
cheers to you both kizzy
So much more but I type slow
If it is a two way street I can guarantee success
I truly beleive if its a one way street then its doomed but that JMO
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I do recall me joking about a guy who contacted me from interstate from another site of which I wasn't a paid member. I posted here that a man who lived in Melbourne (interstate) and Sommer was seriously wanting me to pay my subs and open up his email to see what he had written. And all bets were on that he was married. Is that the one? I'd forgotten about that. You had the basics, 'cept you made up the rest!
Darn that Sommer. She never lets up does she?