I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views??? ( Archived) (128)

May 26, 2009 5:53 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Bentlee: I feel there is an over reaction of the term scammer, however it's best to keep an awareness for self preservation. In 2 months on here, i've been approached 3 times on here with scam oriented mail.
Only 3 what is your secret? laugh laugh laugh
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May 26, 2009 5:56 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
sxc666: Like I said there could be a variety of reasons. Children problems, house burnt down, Lost his job and feeling down, gutless and couldn't face her and tell her he didnt want anything to become of it. Father had a heart attack.

Who bloody knows.............but scammer is excessive.Now if he said I need $5,000 for an operation and it was given, then yes you have been scammed.......................who's fault is that?
thumbs up agreed We are responsible for our own actions, They are what i consider Scammers in the true sense.

Not someone who bails out of the so called relationship.
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May 26, 2009 5:56 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
FOR MORGAN ONLY
I cannot stop myself to write that Morgan is realy a very nice girl on the CS ,wth positive attitude and open mind mindcomfort comfort
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May 26, 2009 5:58 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Bentlee: I feel there is an over reaction of the term scammer, however it's best to keep an awareness for self preservation. In 2 months on here, i've been approached 3 times on here with scam oriented mail.
wave Awareness yes, but i have seen when a relationship has not worked out people are labelled as a Scammer, to me thats crazy.
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May 26, 2009 5:58 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I do not think any guy that stops communicating with me is a scammer. Scammers do not have no cut cards. And you can recognize them easily. You have never heard me complain about a scammer. Because I am not going to give away anything, to nobody that refuses to let me meet them. Not even my time.
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May 26, 2009 5:59 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
ali110: FOR MORGAN ONLY
I cannot stop myself to write that Morgan is realy a very nice girl on the CS ,wth positive attitude and open mind mind
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wine
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May 26, 2009 5:59 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
ali110: FOR MORGAN ONLY
I cannot stop myself to write that Morgan is realy a very nice girl on the CS ,wth positive attitude and open mind mind
That's sweet. The majority of us all know that.wine
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May 26, 2009 5:59 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
thumbs up drinking drinking peace
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May 26, 2009 5:59 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
pubwrite08: I do not think any guy that stops communicating with me is a scammer. Scammers do not have no cut cards. And you can recognize them easily. You have never heard me complain about a scammer. Because I am not going to give away anything, to nobody that refuses to let me meet them. Not even my time.
thumbs up wine
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May 26, 2009 6:00 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
pubwrite08: I do not think any guy that stops communicating with me is a scammer. Scammers do not have no cut cards. And you can recognize them easily. You have never heard me complain about a scammer. Because I am not going to give away anything, to nobody that refuses to let me meet them. Not even my time.
thumbs up
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May 26, 2009 6:00 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
pubwrite08: I do not think any guy that stops communicating with me is a scammer. Scammers do not have no cut cards. And you can recognize them easily. You have never heard me complain about a scammer. Because I am not going to give away anything, to nobody that refuses to let me meet them. Not even my time.
Good observationthumbs up
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May 26, 2009 6:01 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
morgan5: Hi claudya i agree it is better to be honest about what you want and not make people think you want more
Correct Morgan,hiwave and u thread is interesting.
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May 26, 2009 6:01 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
morgan5: Please bear in mind, we only hear one side of the story


There is always his/her side of the story and some where in between is the truth.dunno

People cannot handle the truth most days..wink
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May 26, 2009 6:02 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
morgan5: Awareness yes, but i have seen when a relationship has not worked out people are labelled as a Scammer, to me thats crazy.
Indeed it is Morgan.
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May 26, 2009 6:03 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
Bentlee
BentleeBentleeSmith Falls, Ontario Canada44 Threads 4 Polls 874 Posts
morgan5: Awareness yes, but i have seen when a relationship has not worked out people are labelled as a Scammer, to me thats crazy.
perhaps it's easier to accept a crutch for them then the possible feel of a rejection!
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May 26, 2009 6:04 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Bentlee: I feel there is an over reaction of the term scammer, however it's best to keep an awareness for self preservation. In 2 months on here, i've been approached 3 times on here with scam oriented mail.
Even though I am not as gun shy as most people. I still understand the need for self preservation. I have to agree with you.thumbs up
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May 26, 2009 6:04 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
claudya: Correct Morgan,hi and u thread is interesting.
Thank you claudya, i think it must be down to what people actually think a scammer is doh dunno

It's so easy to hear one side of a story and we instantly believe it, part of human nature but if we have a failed relationship in real life, we don't call the person a scammer, lots of other things maybe laugh
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May 26, 2009 6:05 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Bentlee: perhaps it's easier to accept a crutch for them then the possible feel of a rejection!
Yes I believe this is the case a lot of the time.
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May 26, 2009 6:06 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Bentlee: perhaps it's easier to accept a crutch for them then the possible feel of a rejection!
I think thats a good point, and over the internet it is easy to misunderstand you do not have eye contact, body language as in RL wine
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May 26, 2009 6:07 AM CST I Really Struggle With This, What Are Your Views???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Not cynic Ginger I totally agree.wine
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