This is a dating site. A site to meet people. True, scammers are crawling around like fleas on a homeless dog.
I have been around for the best part of 3 years, give or take. I have made very good friendships and nice acquaintances.
I check my "Who's viewed me" list and I usually thank people for viewing, specially if they seem interesting.
I respond to most of my flowers and definitely to ALL of my mails, even those that are so blatantly screaming scam...and then I block them. It is called COURTESY.
What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?
Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face
Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?
PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.
Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.
It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...
OUTRAGEOUS: This is a dating site. A site to meet people. True, scammers are crawling around like fleas on a homeless dog.
I have been around for the best part of 3 years, give or take. I have made very good friendships and nice acquaintances.
I check my "Who's viewed me" list and I usually thank people for viewing, specially if they seem interesting.
I respond to most of my flowers and definitely to ALL of my mails, even those that are so blatantly screaming scam...and then I block them. It is called COURTESY.
What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?
Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face
Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?
PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.
Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.
It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...
well maybe they don't like you or think you are ugly ????
everyone has different reasons, and I don't think of ignoring an email as rude, it simply means, they probably checked me out and didn't like what they read or the way I looked so by not responding it is basically telling me... That they are not interested....I don't see a problem, and I can take a hint...
Eeeek!..*quickly runs off to check flowerthingy and email* I try to reply as best as i can and if i havent replied to you its an oversight on my part and i do apologise... but youre right, common courtesy goes a long way...
There is a woman on the local end of the site who hos everything blocked and ignores requests.Iwas puzzled until i realized she was using the forums for a bulletin board. Probably works in Tourism
OUTRAGEOUS: I wish I could change the name of the thread to: "YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED (EVERYONE'S BUT TATER'S)"
I so dislike you, but yet you keep on popping on my threads...
Why oh, why?
EVERYTHING has to do with looks with you, huh? Maybe you are bitter because you weren't nominated to King Hunk.
The thread is not about LOOKS, but about a modicum of Education and Courtesy, about not being RUDE.
You keep on masking your rudeness with that so called "honesty", "I speak my mind", "I have a right to my opinion"...
Guess what? I can care less about what you think so why don't you do me a favor and STAY AWAY FROM MY THREADS.
Thank you.
maybe it is your attitude people don't like...call me crazy all I did was give you an honest opinion, I give the same opinion to everyone that asks the question...
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
OUTRAGEOUS: What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?
Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face
Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?
PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.
Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.
It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...
You had a bad day dear? You can just guess what i did today, dealt with the "dreaded Hong Kong Export Order"
Just so if anyone else tries to use a international company with a worldwide reputation for excellence tries to use the online version to arrange shipping, and then they hit a brick wall when moronic staff cant even work their own system when you to try to tell them Hong Kong does not use a Zip Code or Post code system.
Hell you would think this dumb a**hole thought the country in Question was a third world country when in fact it's been at the hub of trade with the far east before say the Inventor of this Company or their descendants even took their first steps out of Europe before escaping to the "new world".
Anyway today i found someone who wasn't a "computer says no" and found the magic code it's 0000.
With people like this in the world well you know what they do at night, cant even be arsed to answer their mail!!!
I wouldn't worry about it, besides "I don't want to find any blasphemous rumours but i think god has a sick sense of humour, and when i die i expect to find him laughing".
Whats the bet tomorrow the courier company's collection c*ck up and his van crashes into my car bursting into flames?
Tater: maybe it is your attitude people don't like...call me crazy all I did was give you an honest opinion, I give the same opinion to everyone that asks the question...
See? I raise my case...Hopeless!
MESSAGE FROM TATERS, TO MY INBOX:
Message you're replying to: hell you could of just wrote that in the thread but then that would mean that you only wanted favorable opinions,..... not all opinions.are welcome..
Subject: KEEPING TRUE TO MY STATEMENT
Message: I respond to all my mails.
I despise rude people. And you are extremely rude and callous. You could have a disfavorable opinion, I would respect that, but you are mainly offensive and rude to people when you voice that opinion. I have responded to many, many conflicting threads, being contrary to the OP's opinion, or to other posters. But I have never been rude, like you are.
And everytime you go into one of my threads it feels like you go out of your way to offend me with your remarks... I don't appreciate that.
If you have a disfavorable opinion, be my guest...just be respectful and watch how you treat others.
CaptainBeirutIII: Oh, this is no good, don't go post private emails in a thread.
anyone can open post anything I write to them, I give my approval for them to do so... I have nothing to hide.. I just wrote her back again so lets see it too..
HJFinAZ: My dear young lady.... "MAN", invented the wheel, we did not come after it!
I think you should pay a visit to the Phoenix, Arizona area for a while. Only for educational purposes though..
MAybe I am a homeless dog..
I apologize... I stand corrected. I know, if I go to Phoenix, Az, you will educate me on the issue of manners, from a gentleman... Aren't you afraid that I might be looking for a "green-card"
come on now, we all know what opinions are like, and everyone likes to hear their own and not always someone elses, especially in an enclosed area.
i really do appreciate it when people respond to me. who wouldnt. especially if i ask a direct question. but if for whatever reason they don't, it is what it is. i don't expect someone to get locked into an endless correspondence with me if they just don't have anything to say to me.
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I have been around for the best part of 3 years, give or take. I have made very good friendships and nice acquaintances.
I check my "Who's viewed me" list and I usually thank people for viewing, specially if they seem interesting.
I respond to most of my flowers and definitely to ALL of my mails, even those that are so blatantly screaming scam...and then I block them. It is called COURTESY.
What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?
Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face
Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?
PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.
Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.
It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...