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Jun 10, 2009 4:27 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
This is a dating site. A site to meet people. True, scammers are crawling around like fleas on a homeless dog.

I have been around for the best part of 3 years, give or take. I have made very good friendships and nice acquaintances.

I check my "Who's viewed me" list and I usually thank people for viewing, specially if they seem interesting.

I respond to most of my flowers and definitely to ALL of my mails, even those that are so blatantly screaming scam...and then I block them. It is called COURTESY.

What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?

Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face dunno

Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?

PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.

Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.

It really pisses me off to be ignored... very mad Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me... frustrated
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Jun 10, 2009 4:32 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: This is a dating site. A site to meet people. True, scammers are crawling around like fleas on a homeless dog.

I have been around for the best part of 3 years, give or take. I have made very good friendships and nice acquaintances.

I check my "Who's viewed me" list and I usually thank people for viewing, specially if they seem interesting.

I respond to most of my flowers and definitely to ALL of my mails, even those that are so blatantly screaming scam...and then I block them. It is called COURTESY.

What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?

Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face

Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?

PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.

Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.

It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...


well maybe they don't like you or think you are ugly ????dunno

everyone has different reasons, and I don't think of ignoring an email as rude, it simply means, they probably checked me out and didn't like what they read or the way I looked so by not responding it is basically telling me... That they are not interested....I don't see a problem, and I can take a hint...
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Jun 10, 2009 4:41 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
I wish I could change the name of the thread to:
"YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED (EVERYONE'S BUT TATER'S)"

I so dislike you, but yet you keep on popping on my threads...

Why oh, why?

EVERYTHING has to do with looks with you, huh? Maybe you are bitter because you weren't nominated to King Hunk.

The thread is not about LOOKS, but about a modicum of Education and Courtesy, about not being RUDE.

You keep on masking your rudeness with that so called "honesty", "I speak my mind", "I have a right to my opinion"...

Guess what? I can care less about what you think so why don't you do me a favor and STAY AWAY FROM MY THREADS.

Thank you.
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Jun 10, 2009 4:43 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
Arealguy69
Arealguy69Arealguy69Auckland, New Zealand47 Threads 2 Polls 1,822 Posts
Eeeek!..*quickly runs off to check flowerthingy and email* I try to reply as best as i can and if i havent replied to you its an oversight on my part and i do apologise...bouquet but youre right, common courtesy goes a long way...
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Jun 10, 2009 4:43 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
There is a woman on the local end of the site who hos everything blocked and ignores requests.Iwas puzzled until i realized she was using the forums for a bulletin board.
Probably works in Tourism
cool
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Jun 10, 2009 4:44 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: I wish I could change the name of the thread to:
"YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED (EVERYONE'S BUT TATER'S)"

I so dislike you, but yet you keep on popping on my threads...

Why oh, why?

EVERYTHING has to do with looks with you, huh? Maybe you are bitter because you weren't nominated to King Hunk.

The thread is not about LOOKS, but about a modicum of Education and Courtesy, about not being RUDE.

You keep on masking your rudeness with that so called "honesty", "I speak my mind", "I have a right to my opinion"...

Guess what? I can care less about what you think so why don't you do me a favor and STAY AWAY FROM MY THREADS.

Thank you.


maybe it is your attitude people don't like...call me crazylaugh all I did was give you an honest opinion, I give the same opinion to everyone that asks the question...
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Jun 10, 2009 4:49 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: What I would like to know is: Do I come across as a scammer? or, does the fact that I live in Panama, immediately raises red flags of "green card seeker"?

Why are so many members so RUDE? They receive a rose or a present or even a nice email, but they don't bother to respond or past the first line of the profile. I admit, I don't pay attention to mail from people without a face

Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel? Do these WOMEN think that they are so above and beyond anyone here?

PLEASE...We are supposed to be meeting people. Being nice to each other... I am really at my witt's end. Give people the chance, empower their self-steem.

Most mails are not proposals, are genuine offers of friendship.

It really pisses me off to be ignored... Specially when I notice men I have written too, and just decide to read it and ignore me...


You had a bad day dear? You can just guess what i did today, dealt with the "dreaded Hong Kong Export Order"laugh

Just so if anyone else tries to use a international company with a worldwide reputation for excellence tries to use the online version to arrange shipping, and then they hit a brick wall when moronic staff cant even work their own system when you to try to tell them Hong Kong does not use a Zip Code or Post code system.

Hell you would think this dumb a**hole thought the country in Question was a third world country when in fact it's been at the hub of trade with the far east before say the Inventor of this Company or their descendants even took their first steps out of Europe before escaping to the "new world".

Anyway today i found someone who wasn't a "computer says no" and found the magic code it's 0000.

With people like this in the world well you know what they do at night, cant even be arsed to answer their mail!!!

I wouldn't worry about it, besides "I don't want to find any blasphemous rumours but i think god has a sick sense of humour, and when i die i expect to find him laughing".

Whats the bet tomorrow the courier company's collection c*ck up and his van crashes into my car bursting into flames?

I'm watching you God, i'm onto your game nowdoh
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Jun 10, 2009 4:59 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
RobbieM: I have to say it made me gulp my tea and

Pretty ugly thing to say,at best.


Mine or his or both?
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Jun 10, 2009 4:59 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
Tater: maybe it is your attitude people don't like...call me crazy all I did was give you an honest opinion, I give the same opinion to everyone that asks the question...


See? I raise my case...Hopeless!


MESSAGE FROM TATERS, TO MY INBOX:

Message you're replying to:
hell you could of just wrote that in the thread but then that would mean that you only wanted favorable opinions,..... not all opinions.are welcome..

Subject: KEEPING TRUE TO MY STATEMENT

Message:
I respond to all my mails.

I despise rude people. And you are extremely rude and callous. You could have a disfavorable opinion, I would respect that, but you are mainly offensive and rude to people when you voice that opinion. I have responded to many, many conflicting threads, being contrary to the OP's opinion, or to other posters. But I have never been rude, like you are.

And everytime you go into one of my threads it feels like you go out of your way to offend me with your remarks... I don't appreciate that.

If you have a disfavorable opinion, be my guest...just be respectful and watch how you treat others.
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Jun 10, 2009 5:01 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
Oh, this is no good, don't go post private emails in a thread.
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Jun 10, 2009 5:03 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Oh, this is no good, don't go post private emails in a thread.


oops! well...it's done.
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Jun 10, 2009 5:04 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Oh, this is no good, don't go post private emails in a thread.



pandoras box. bad idea
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Jun 10, 2009 5:08 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
This thread is now damned like me, which one will get deleted first, me or the thread?

Maybe i better not stand in the bath holding an electric fire tonight?
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Jun 10, 2009 5:15 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Hi Outrageous...wave

Unfortunately, manners is becoming the exception rather than the norm. If someone doesn't respond, I wouldn't take it personally.

It is their loss because you are very attractive and a fun person with so much to offer.

So I hope you will adopt the attitude that people who do respond are people who you want to get to know instead of the rude ones.
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Jun 10, 2009 5:15 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Oh, this is no good, don't go post private emails in a thread.
anyone can open post anything I write to them, I give my approval for them to do so... I have nothing to hide.. I just wrote her back again so lets see it too..
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Jun 10, 2009 5:22 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS:

Waht is it? These MEN think that they are GOD gift to women, the best invention after the wheel?


My dear young lady....scold "MAN", invented the wheel, we did not come after it!professor

I think you should pay a visit to the Phoenix, Arizona area for a while.grin Only for educational purposes though..devil

MAybe I am a homeless dog..tongue
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Jun 10, 2009 5:25 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
OUTRAGEOUS: I wish I could change the name of the thread to:
"YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED (EVERYONE'S BUT TATER'S)"


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hug
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Jun 10, 2009 5:26 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
It's obvious isn't it? Virgo and aquarius are not a compatible match.
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Jun 10, 2009 5:27 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
HJFinAZ: My dear young lady.... "MAN", invented the wheel, we did not come after it!

I think you should pay a visit to the Phoenix, Arizona area for a while. Only for educational purposes though..

MAybe I am a homeless dog..


I apologize... I stand corrected. I know, if I go to Phoenix, Az, you will educate me on the issue of manners, from a gentleman... Aren't you afraid that I might be looking for a "green-card" doh

hug
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Jun 10, 2009 5:27 PM CST YOUR OPINION IS APPRECIATED
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
come on now, we all know what opinions are like, and everyone likes to hear their own and not always someone elses, especially in an enclosed area.

i really do appreciate it when people respond to me. who wouldnt. especially if i ask a direct question. but if for whatever reason they don't, it is what it is. i don't expect someone to get locked into an endless correspondence with me if they just don't have anything to say to me.
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