Couples and CS (59)

Jul 7, 2009 7:21 AM CST Couples and CS
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Fallingman: ....or in some places ride on a cow!



Ride on a cow? How dare you?!!



Signed: Touchy cow

elephant
Jul 7, 2009 7:25 AM CST Couples and CS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
...or in some places, ride on a large dog...!! angel
Jul 7, 2009 7:35 AM CST Couples and CS
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: I have read the question once more, given it some thought, and I truly fail to se a point with it, other than it being a leading question. It's basically a "why are you still here?" query, with a slight hint at "it's wrong"



Yes, it’s a leading question with a certain air about it. As I’ve admitted before, I was used to ask the same question myself some time ago. Don’t do it anymore.

The other month I showed my direct boss what I’ve written and he was frankly impressed. He wasn’t the only to praise me, but he’s the only who really could understand it’s costs, value and elegance, as he was the main gold-digger at our salt mine before me. The more his approval was worth for me.

I think it’s the same with CS and couples. It’s not easy to find someone, and when you’ve managed you want to show your achievement for those who understand it’s costs and value.

And why, the hell, not?

elephant
Jul 7, 2009 8:27 AM CST Couples and CS
breezee
breezeebreezeeathens, Attica Greece20 Threads 1,136 Posts
Lagoona22: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??
Hello Lagoona wave

It's the reason I don't post or read much anymore. I keep meaning to announce it somehow but often when I post it's like noone remembers me, noone says hi, makes me feel kinda awkward, so I don't. I thought I should start a 'success story' thread but then I was seriously worried noone would even acknowledge it.

Marti always says hi and she didn't know me as well as some of you. She must truly be a lovely person. Hi Marti! teddybear
And Guiri who I totally love, of course. Hey Guiri!! teddybear teddybear teddybear

Anyway......
The reason I stopped writing was that I met someone right here on CS last year and we got married about 2 weeks ago.
I thought I was pretty much hooked on CS too and I even sort of felt bad not having the time to write in the beginning but there it is - I wasn't hooked and if I wasn't crashing in my room with my ac, I probably wouldn't even be writing now. angel
Jul 7, 2009 8:29 AM CST Couples and CS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Captain, just spotted this...if you "truly failed to see the point with it" then read the question again...it's crystal clear...everyone else seemed to understand it, ...

...to repeat the last line of my intro:

When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here?: if you find your soulmate, would you still stay on CS?

Not that difficult, is it?...you read too much between the lines, methinks...

angel

CaptainBeirutIII: I have read the question once more, given it some thought, and I truly fail to se a point with it, other than it being a leading question. It's basically a "why are you still here?" query, with a slight hint at "it's wrong"
Jul 7, 2009 9:03 AM CST Couples and CS
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
breezee: Hello Lagoona

It's the reason I don't post or read much anymore. I keep meaning to announce it somehow but often when I post it's like noone remembers me, noone says hi, makes me feel kinda awkward, so I don't. I thought I should start a 'success story' thread but then I was seriously worried noone would even acknowledge it.

Marti always says hi and she didn't know me as well as some of you. She must truly be a lovely person. Hi Marti!
And Guiri who I totally love, of course. Hey Guiri!!

Anyway......
The reason I stopped writing was that I met someone right here on CS last year and we got married about 2 weeks ago.
I thought I was pretty much hooked on CS too and I even sort of felt bad not having the time to write in the beginning but there it is - I wasn't hooked and if I wasn't crashing in my room with my ac, I probably wouldn't even be writing now.


BREEZEE!!! I dont believe it! You got married, without even telling us?!!!!
Hey, of course everyone remembers you! You were just one of the sisters here, and your regularity was irregular so of course folk weren`t going to go "Hi" everytime you made a posting ...... Hey.....cheering

BREEZEE GOT MARRIED!!!rose party rose flirty pointing rose
Jul 7, 2009 9:58 AM CST Couples and CS
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
Lagoona22: Captain, just spotted this...if you "truly failed to see the point with it" then read the question again...it's crystal clear...everyone else seemed to understand it, ...

...to repeat the last line of my intro:

When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here?: if you find your soulmate, would you still stay on CS?

Not that difficult, is it?...you read too much between the lines, methinks...


I did read it. 75% of it is about what you'd not do.
Jul 7, 2009 10:05 AM CST Couples and CS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Yes, true..I stated that if I found a partner here, I probably wouldn't spend much time here....anything wrong with that??...

CaptainBeirutIII: I did read it. 75% of it is about what you'd not do.
Jul 7, 2009 10:07 AM CST Couples and CS
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
sleep
Jul 7, 2009 11:59 AM CST Couples and CS
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
Breezee got married ..



dancing dancing dancing
Jul 7, 2009 1:34 PM CST Couples and CS
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
guiriman: Breezee got married ..
I dunno ......daydream ... she`s tooooo quiet about it ....confused .... maybe she`s just having us on here? Making us get all excited ... for some reason? .. Like as though with Roberto here we need any more excitement....rolling on the floor laughing

Geez, I just lurve CS on a rainy day!grin Mayhem and slaughtercheers
Jul 7, 2009 1:35 PM CST Couples and CS
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Ooooh, congratualtions Breezee, how exciting... Wonderful news.
Jul 7, 2009 5:13 PM CST Couples and CS
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Lagoona22: When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


Now you know... laugh
Jul 7, 2009 5:27 PM CST Couples and CS
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing wave
Jul 8, 2009 5:48 AM CST Couples and CS
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
Lagoona22: Yes, true..I stated that if I found a partner here, I probably wouldn't spend much time here....anything wrong with that??...


No, sorry, it simply read like a leading one. I take your word for it not being so.
Jul 8, 2009 11:04 AM CST Couples and CS
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
smoky: I dunno ...... ... she`s tooooo quiet about it .... .... maybe she`s just having us on here? Making us get all excited ... for some reason? .. Like as though with Roberto here we need any more excitement....

Geez, I just lurve CS on a rainy day! Mayhem and slaughter


Darling, you look lovely in pink......... like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered! heart wings laugh
Jul 8, 2009 11:29 AM CST Couples and CS
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
RobertC2: Darling, you look lovely in pink......... like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered!
Oh ta muchly darlink .... Believe me, the night I wore that top - I did get slaughtered!!!drinking
Jul 8, 2009 11:36 AM CST Couples and CS
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
smoky: I dunno ...... ... she`s tooooo quiet about it .... .... maybe she`s just having us on here? Making us get all excited ... for some reason? .. Like as though with Roberto here we need any more excitement....

Geez, I just lurve CS on a rainy day! Mayhem and slaughter


nope .. I can confirm .. ain't no fooling .. it's real ..and fantastic .. cheers
Jul 10, 2009 2:23 PM CST Couples and CS
Amaryllis
AmaryllisAmaryllisBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium5 Threads 421 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Of course it's not serious. Not until they invent that thing they call aeroplane so that people can get to one another with at least a day. Not like now, where we have to get on a steamship, or ride on a horse.

There is no need to get sarcastic, Captain. You know I approve highly of your union (not that you need anybody's approval), as I know you love her a lot and she does care a lot about you, too. Those are the main ingredients of a successful relationship.

I was only referring to what is applicable to me. Naturally in the beginning, you have to see how it goes between the two of you and later on decide if you are ready to commit yourselves to a really serious relationship, which for me means living and sharing your life together with that someone special from day to day, together in a lovenest of your own.

But there has to be a point when that decision is made; otherwise, for me, and I repeat FOR ME, which means in my own opinion, I can never really be sure yet if he is THE ONE for me.
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