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I couldn't cope looking after her.
I honestly believe I lost relationships because of the stress of looking after her 21/24 even with a short break every couple of months.
After my 'incident' I put her in a nursing home.
Now I have no personal life. Should I bring her home - however long it takes for her to die and give up any chance of my having a life of my own?
Would you be selfish and let her die in a nursing home - paralysed and unhappy - or would you bring her home and give up the freedom you finally got after 5.5 years?