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To be honest i think you are thinking about things that haven't happened yet.
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
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morgan5: To be honest i think you are thinking about things that haven't happened yet.
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
It is precisely what so many do..
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well yes you could if it happened but yes if there young children ... you have to see how the man is with them and if they how they get along with him jmo tho .. but if this isnt happening yet i feel your stressing over things that are not here . but it has been succesfully done a lot so good luck in the future 
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O2Kireiina: I am thinking...
If a day, a single man, who got divorced but has no kids, want to marry me, can I accept that? I have 3 kids and they are my first priority in world and it would be wonderful to share all of life's adventures with that one special person. I'm not looking for a father for the kids, rather someone who desires to share themselves as part of our family but I should be afraid, maybe he accept them while he can not alive without me at this moment. But...will he jealous my past or not love my kids?
Can I accept this kind of the man?
May I believe or doulbe in his loves???
Just a thinking at the day and look foward to hear from everyone's opinions...Thanks!!!
If a day, a single man, who got divorced but has no kids, want to marry me, can I accept that? I have 3 kids and they are my first priority in world and it would be wonderful to share all of life's adventures with that one special person. I'm not looking for a father for the kids, rather someone who desires to share themselves as part of our family but I should be afraid, maybe he accept them while he can not alive without me at this moment. But...will he jealous my past or not love my kids?
Can I accept this kind of the man?
May I believe or doulbe in his loves???
Just a thinking at the day and look foward to hear from everyone's opinions...Thanks!!!
holly macaroni...so what els do you like to do
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I wont say all men, but most of the ones I know would accept and love your children along with you. They would come to you knowing its a package deal. The best thing is to get to know a man, and see how he is with your kids. Thats the only way of knowing.
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just think positive not negative,it doesnt help u once u scared for something u didnt try yet,love is always there
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Just make sure he í a Vietnamese man because he understands your culture, your needs and your kids needs.
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USThumper: I wont say all men, but most of the ones I know would accept and love your children along with you. They would come to you knowing its a package deal. The best thing is to get to know a man, and see how he is with your kids. Thats the only way of knowing.
Thanks:) your words is so nice
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USThumper: I wont say all men, but most of the ones I know would accept and love your children along with you. They would come to you knowing its a package deal. The best thing is to get to know a man, and see how he is with your kids. Thats the only way of knowing.
I agre with Thumper, Tho You need to take a LIL X-Tra time here, as you are involving 4 people.....
So Your Decision needs to be a good one, and maybe this is why you would be a little Scared, I do Understand!!!!! Its not just you..... Its all....so be Careful, make solid decisions, is my advice
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FEAR of the UNKNOWN
FEAR of the FUTURE
False
Expectations
Appearing
Real
FEAR of the FUTURE
False
Expectations
Appearing
Real
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HJFinAZ: It is precisely what so many do..
Perceived complications even before anything has happened... I know that tune, reminds me of......OH well, let's forget HER
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Its happening
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HotrodLarrys: I agre with Thumper, Tho You need to take a LIL X-Tra time here, as you are involving 4 people.....So Your Decision needs to be a good one, and maybe this is why you would be a little Scared, I do Understand!!!!! Its not just you..... Its all....so be Careful, make solid decisions, is my advice
Thanks a lot :)
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Grandepensees: Perceived complications even before anything has happened... I know that tune, reminds me of......OH well, let's forget HER
Hi there,
Want to have a best life, need to think before it happen to ready for everything, you are wrong to put your opinion here about why do I worry for the thing which does not exits. I am always preparing for many case of the life before it happens and get the best thing when it comes
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twinself: FEAR of the UNKNOWN
FEAR of the FUTURE
False
Expectations
Appearing
Real
FEAR of the FUTURE
False
Expectations
Appearing
Real
Well, need to have more deep thinking before saying, I am worry for you, lol
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O2Kireiina: I am thinking...
If a day, a single man, who got divorced but has no kids, want to marry me, can I accept that? I have 3 kids and they are my first priority in world and it would be wonderful to share all of life's adventures with that one special person. I'm not looking for a father for the kids, rather someone who desires to share themselves as part of our family but I should be afraid, maybe he accept them while he can not alive without me at this moment. But...will he jealous my past or not love my kids?
Can I accept this kind of the man?
May I believe or doulbe in his loves???
Just a thinking at the day and look foward to hear from everyone's opinions...Thanks!!!
If a day, a single man, who got divorced but has no kids, want to marry me, can I accept that? I have 3 kids and they are my first priority in world and it would be wonderful to share all of life's adventures with that one special person. I'm not looking for a father for the kids, rather someone who desires to share themselves as part of our family but I should be afraid, maybe he accept them while he can not alive without me at this moment. But...will he jealous my past or not love my kids?
Can I accept this kind of the man?
May I believe or doulbe in his loves???
Just a thinking at the day and look foward to hear from everyone's opinions...Thanks!!!
I love kids but not ALL kids.
I'd have to really like the kids of a woman I loved and THEY (the kids) would also have to like me for the relationship to work.
I met a woman once who had two boys whom I disliked - so I ended the relationship...... I met another woman whose kids I really liked and it worked and we almost got married.
A family is so important - to have a relationship where there is conflict before it even gets serious is unacceptable; a woman generally loves her children far more than any prospective partner and the man must respect this fact.
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morgan5: To be honest i think you are thinking about things that haven't happened yet.
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
Before you can start thinking like that, you need to meet someone first, and take it from there.
Why make problems for youself that do not yet exist
I didn't knew that have many people doesn't worry for your future and only waiting, what will you do if you did not know prepare for anything?
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O2Kireiina: I didn't knew that have many people doesn't worry for your future and only waiting, what will you do if you did not know prepare for anything?
I didn't knew that have many people doesn't worry for their future and only waiting eveything happens, what will you do if you did not know prepare for anything?
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RobertC2: I love kids but not ALL kids.
I'd have to really like the kids of a woman I loved and THEY (the kids) would also have to like me for the relationship to work.
I met a woman once who had two boys whom I disliked - so I ended the relationship...... I met another woman whose kids I really liked and it worked and we almost got married.
A family is so important - to have a relationship where there is conflict before it even gets serious is unacceptable; a woman generally loves her children far more than any prospective partner and the man must respect this fact.
I'd have to really like the kids of a woman I loved and THEY (the kids) would also have to like me for the relationship to work.
I met a woman once who had two boys whom I disliked - so I ended the relationship...... I met another woman whose kids I really liked and it worked and we almost got married.
A family is so important - to have a relationship where there is conflict before it even gets serious is unacceptable; a woman generally loves her children far more than any prospective partner and the man must respect this fact.
Thanks for your nice opinion, Robert
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If a day, a single man, who got divorced but has no kids, want to marry me, can I accept that? I have 3 kids and they are my first priority in world and it would be wonderful to share all of life's adventures with that one special person. I'm not looking for a father for the kids, rather someone who desires to share themselves as part of our family but I should be afraid, maybe he accept them while he can not alive without me at this moment. But...will he jealous my past or not love my kids?
Can I accept this kind of the man?
May I believe or doulbe in his loves???
Just a thinking at the day and look foward to hear from everyone's opinions...Thanks!!!