Would change who you are just to please someone else? Why/why not? (32)
rob4u777Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)94 Threads 195 Postsconversational.
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rob4u777: conversational.
\I would never change who i am people have to love you for who you are if you change you loose yourself so this is me take it or leave it you always have to be true to yourself .
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no, because that's impossible. You can agree with another on some aspects but you will never change the basics. Attraction on another must be based on the basics...
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It depends on what she wanted. If she just wanted me to loose a little weight, shure, but to change who I am? Never.
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to thine ownself be true; I'm always wanting to improve myself and be a better person but I'm not going to change just to get someone if its not right,
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Tori71: \
I would never change who i am people have to love you for who you are if you change you loose yourself so this is me take it or leave it you always have to be true to yourself .
I would never change who i am people have to love you for who you are if you change you loose yourself so this is me take it or leave it you always have to be true to yourself .
thanks for your answer and i agree you have to be true to yourself.
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No I wouldn't.They would have to accept me for who I was or not at all.
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Two people must adjust in any relationship or it will never work. These are minor things because one should never want another to be untrue to theirself. Each should change for their own best interest.
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I would only change as far as the compromises that are needed to make a relationship work.
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Change is often a good thing, be it in the work place, or from a personal perspective.
But it has to be welcomed and embraced in order to enrich one´s life, not simply to please another.
But it has to be welcomed and embraced in order to enrich one´s life, not simply to please another.
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I'll love u when ur hair turnz gray and....I'll still love u if u gain a little weight and...da way I feel 4 u will alwayz be da same just as long as ur love don't change.
I'm not impressed, more or less, with them girlz in da TV and magazinez, cuse honestly I believe, that, ur beauty is way more than skin deep, don't u know u'll alwayz be da most beautiful woman I know, and even though....(4got da rest of da wordz...)
I'm not impressed, more or less, with them girlz in da TV and magazinez, cuse honestly I believe, that, ur beauty is way more than skin deep, don't u know u'll alwayz be da most beautiful woman I know, and even though....(4got da rest of da wordz...)
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i tried that when i was younger. he still didnt like me. now i like me and figure that my personality and essence will attract who its supposed to and repel some thank god lol.
who we are light and shadow always leaks out anyway lol
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rob4u777: conversational.
Sometimes to make some changes is beneficiary both to you and your partner. For instance I know one of my friends was motivated with his girlfriend that he stopped smoking cigarette and started doing work out at gym, in return his girlfriend stopped drinking a lot of alcohol as she used to. So to me these kinds of changes are good in a friendships and relationships.
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ya_shawty89: I didn't even understand what da dude above just said...sounded like this...
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He was speaking of breaking a bad and destructive habit. A change more for the self paving the way for one to attain his/her true self---happiness. And yes, it does please other around him/her---most importantly---it pleases oneself.
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I do think that the other should accept me for who I am. I mean, they wouldn't have gotten with me if they didn't like me in the first place.
Though there are things that develop, such as habits. The chains of habit are to light to feel until they are too heavy to be broken alone.
If I started to do something, I wouldn't mind if I was made aware, and the other would help me stop it.
But such things like looks or basic personality, hells no.
Though there are things that develop, such as habits. The chains of habit are to light to feel until they are too heavy to be broken alone.
If I started to do something, I wouldn't mind if I was made aware, and the other would help me stop it.
But such things like looks or basic personality, hells no.
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No,I'd never change who I am
to please another.
to please another.
In response to: conversational.
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Don't think I could change myself... No-ne could benefit from it.
But fro the other side - I have so much love in my heart and it would be great to get it out for my beloved ...
Of course I'm not speaking here about spending more time at home or preparing home-made meals for my love. These just details...
But fro the other side - I have so much love in my heart and it would be great to get it out for my beloved ...
Of course I'm not speaking here about spending more time at home or preparing home-made meals for my love. These just details...
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