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Oct 8, 2009 10:12 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
I have just had a rather nasty and upsetting night, due purely to the tenant we had renting a room in our house here.
Neither one of us (myself or Jesse)has had any sleep, due to a heated midnight argument that arose with our young tenant over noise levels and having overnight guests, DESPITE this subject having already been addressed with him on a couple of occasions. I’m very tired, and very angry and wanted to vent as much as share experiences and views from around the world on tenant/landlord rights, rules and regulations.

As regards our own situation here, it has become blatantly obvious that the tenant’s rights seem to FAR outway the landlords. The rules regarding notice periods, adherence to rules set out in contracts seem to JUST NOT STAND UP, when it comes to New York State, in this case. I have been told that the rules in this State are very lenient when it comes to welfare, which is why apparently many, many people are attracted to coming to this area to live when they are receiving benefits.
It’s utterly outrageous to me, that a contract that is signed by both landlord and tenant doesn’t seem to be worth the paper it’s written on when it comes down to it.

I am sure this stronger situation for the tenant has arisen from the usual story of “The Few Spoiling it for the Many”, as regards greedy and irresponsible landlords’ behavior in the past, but it certainly seems to have gone too far the other way – giving the tenant access to pretty much every loophole in the book, even despite a contract having been signed.
The rules and regulations here appear to be much more tenant orientated that what I have been used to in Great Britain and Ireland, where the onus is on the tenant MUCH MORE to fulfill THEIR obligations.

My own situation has been (apparently) smoothed over this morning and our tenant SHOULD be leaving on Saturday. However, it still resulted in a sleepless night for me, a lot of angst and unnecessary stress and two more days of having to put up with this person in our house.

What are your experiences of renting? Either as a landlord OR a tenant, in your own particular countries and/or states? And how do you think the current law could be improved or changed to make the whole process fairer, less stressful and more beneficial to both parties?

Comments welcome.
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Oct 8, 2009 10:20 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Usually the terms of the contract supersede the law in the US. So if you rent to anyone, you better make sure you have an airtight contract.

If you evict someone, it has to be for cause, esp. if he pays his rent on time. Without knowing the particulars, it's difficult to say something constructive.

I can tell you that the tenants rights in Germany are outrageous compared to any other place I've been in. It takes forever to get a bad and even non-paying tenant out of your house/apartment.

What you never want to do is take state money in the US for a tenant who's on welfare. That's a recipe for disaster.
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Oct 8, 2009 10:38 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
I always prefer young "ladies" as a tenant..grin
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Oct 8, 2009 10:39 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
i rented a house once while i had it up for sale, crooked real estate salesman told me she wanted to rent while saving her down payment... she had 12 dogs that ruined the yard , a light gray carpeting thru out the house was a a mud slick, kitchen cupboards which were new was destroyed, on and on... i would call saleaman to go check on what was going on and he would call and tell her he was coming over she would take dogs to neighbors.. long story short i drove 600 miles sat down the street when she let the dogs out i went to the door introduced my self made an inspection and and handed her an eviction notice, it cost me $16,000 when i sold due to damage, salesman forged my name on sales contract for the bank........ got caught, lost his license and i did not pay him his commission... it can take up to 3 months to evict but i was lucky i had a 30 rental agreement
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Oct 8, 2009 10:58 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Just remembered something. If you can, go to an upscale rental community and see if you can get your hands on one of their contracts. They are very well written, very inclusive and modify it to fit your situation.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:12 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
BrunoMcMahon
BrunoMcMahonBrunoMcMahonHardwick, Vermont USA20 Threads 3 Polls 733 Posts
The laws here in Vermont favor the tenant to an insane level. I'd suggest calling the police on the tenant for noise levels. if you have a video recorder make a recording of the noise, time and date. pan clock and the last news paper.

Sometimes it is even worth it to pay people to leave. Basicly that is what I did with unpaid rent. "If you are out and the apartment is broom clean by Monday morning I forgive past rent. If you are still there at 9:00 AM I hit you for everything including costs of eviction and collection. I'll garnish you wages the whole nine yards. YOUR CHOICE HOW THIS ENDS." They usually cut out to beat the owner and I out of a few hundred bucks.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:16 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
Virginia is quite different than NY state. Here you have to give a renter 30 days written notice to vacate, you need a valid reason. After 30 days you take your case to the magistrate for a hearing and in most cases assuming your reason to evict is reasonable, the court issues a vacate order and the renter is removed by the sheriffs dept bodily if necessary. In most cases the problem renter doesn't wait around for that.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:29 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Scubadiva: Usually the terms of the contract supersede the law in the US. So if you rent to anyone, you better make sure you have an airtight contract.

If you evict someone, it has to be for cause, esp. if he pays his rent on time. Without knowing the particulars, it's difficult to say something constructive.

I can tell you that the tenants rights in Germany are outrageous compared to any other place I've been in. It takes forever to get a bad and even non-paying tenant out of your house/apartment.

What you never want to do is take state money in the US for a tenant who's on welfare. That's a recipe for disaster.


Hi Scuba..

Well, we rented a ROOM on a WEEKLY basis. It was very clearly, and very strictly rented ONLY on this basis. This tenant has only been with us for two weeks, gave us a load of crap about having a job etc, and of course that was all rubbish. Soon became obvious that he was on welfare, and wanted us to take MONTHLY payment on a voucher basis. We refused, of course, as it would open us up to the 30-day notice period rule.

This is my beef. Our contract was clear, reasonable and signed by the tenant. Still, we received grief when we gave him a legal Eviction Notice. Still, he totally disregarded the rules of the Contract.frustrated
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Oct 8, 2009 11:31 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
caspatch: i rented a house once while i had it up for sale, crooked real estate salesman told me she wanted to rent while saving her down payment... she had 12 dogs that ruined the yard , a light gray carpeting thru out the house was a a mud slick, kitchen cupboards which were new was destroyed, on and on... i would call saleaman to go check on what was going on and he would call and tell her he was coming over she would take dogs to neighbors.. long story short i drove 600 miles sat down the street when she let the dogs out i went to the door introduced my self made an inspection and and handed her an eviction notice, it cost me $16,000 when i sold due to damage, salesman forged my name on sales contract for the bank........ got caught, lost his license and i did not pay him his commission... it can take up to 3 months to evict but i was lucky i had a 30 rental agreement


What a nightmare you had there, C..doh

This is my point. It seems in general that the tenant's rights FAR outway the landlord's. Its simply not fair, and I really think the law should be changed to even things up somewhat.dunno
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Oct 8, 2009 11:34 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Scubadiva: Just remembered something. If you can, go to an upscale rental community and see if you can get your hands on one of their contracts. They are very well written, very inclusive and modify it to fit your situation.


I downloaded a proper contract, pursuant to New York State Laws. I did everything I was supposed to. I am a law secretary, so I am pretty well up on these things, although of course the laws here are slightly different to what Ive been used to.

This is why I became very angry. This contract was legal, open and honest and was signed voluntarily by the tenant. He was screaming in my face, quite literally, at 2am this morning - saying that because he did not receive the contract until two days after moving in, despite us clearly saying that we WOULD be giving him a contract to sign, that "HE WAS FORCED BY US INTO SIGNING"..doh
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Oct 8, 2009 11:37 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
BrunoMcMahon: The laws here in Vermont favor the tenant to an insane level. I'd suggest calling the police on the tenant for noise levels. if you have a video recorder make a recording of the noise, time and date. pan clock and the last news paper.

Sometimes it is even worth it to pay people to leave. Basicly that is what I did with unpaid rent. "If you are out and the apartment is broom clean by Monday morning I forgive past rent. If you are still there at 9:00 AM I hit you for everything including costs of eviction and collection. I'll garnish you wages the whole nine yards. YOUR CHOICE HOW THIS ENDS." They usually cut out to beat the owner and I out of a few hundred bucks.


Hi Bruno..

After our argument early this morning, we DID in fact call the local police, asking for this person to be evicted due to the noise and threatening and abusive language that I especially was on the receiving end of.

We were told, quite catergorically, that "THERE WAS NOTHING THEY COULD DO". Our only option was to wait until today to go see the Judge. Even then, despite our weekly contract, this person could either be handed a 3 day eviction notice by the court, or a 30 DAY ONE. So, this is my point. What is the point of a weekly contract, with weekly notice, if it is simply not adhered to??

Basicially, the police didnt want to know.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:39 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
Never let a room mate use your address as his legal address. Make sure he gets a P O Box. Put that in a contract.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:39 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
ooby_dooby: Virginia is quite different than NY state. Here you have to give a renter 30 days written notice to vacate, you need a valid reason. After 30 days you take your case to the magistrate for a hearing and in most cases assuming your reason to evict is reasonable, the court issues a vacate order and the renter is removed by the sheriffs dept bodily if necessary. In most cases the problem renter doesn't wait around for that.


Hi Oopy..

Well, HOPEFULLY our own situation is sorted now. Jesse went up, while I was flaked out on the sofa earlier this morning, and had a "Man to Man" with this character. It seems that he has "promised" to leave peacefully on Saturday, according to the terms of our own eviction notice. We shall see....

It just seems in general, as your case also points to, that the rights are far too heavily on the side of the tenant.
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Oct 8, 2009 11:41 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Never let a room mate use your address as his legal address. Make sure he gets a P O Box. Put that in a contract.


Good point..thumbs up

This whole situation has put me off renting for life. Its a shame, because the extra money is always useful, and we do have a large house here.

However, after this carry on, never again..scold roll eyes
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Oct 8, 2009 11:48 AM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe: Good point..

This whole situation has put me off renting for life. Its a shame, because the extra money is always useful, and we do have a large house here.

However, after this carry on, never again..

Never say never. handshake
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Oct 8, 2009 12:00 PM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
Contracts have so much fluxuation. and nearly need to be an atty, to understand some of the terms, but then as you said the States have it for the tenant, so what scuba said about getting an uptown, high Falutin Contract , then altering it to your need , but being a Renter can really Suck.....

I went thru the renting and you dod peed on my tire, and your News paper is allover my yard, Bull, I didnt need that and bought my Own Property in the County, away from Peopl so i dont have much guidelines, Like County Regulations ect... But Renting to another is just going to ALLWAYS have You Flustered,very mad

I say Get Away from all those problems as renter, a new marriage dont need added , or built in problems, It is hard enough WITHOUT the OTHERS PROBLEMS,

so Myself, I GOT OUT out of town 15 yrs ago, and It was the best thing for me......... I dont worry about That kind of Problems, Because I dont want it anymore!!

You can play contract problems and renters for As long as it is allowed, I Moved out of that mess dunno mumbling

Because I had my fill.... Thats just how I fixed My Problem... and 15 yrs later, its still workingtyping uncertain

I cant even see a house, unless i go up to my observation tower, then I can see about 3-4 a Mile or two away...

But Scuba, you had a godd thery on a hi tec Contract worded Properlyteddybear
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Oct 8, 2009 12:02 PM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Contracts have so much fluxuation. and nearly need to be an atty, to understand some of the terms, but then as you said the States have it for the tenant, so what scuba said about getting an uptown, high Falutin Contract , then altering it to your need , but being a Renter can really Suck.....

I went thru the renting and you dod peed on my tire, and your News paper is allover my yard, Bull, I didnt need that and bought my Own Property in the County, away from Peopl so i dont have much guidelines, Like County Regulations ect... But Renting to another is just going to ALLWAYS have You Flustered,

I say Get Away from all those problems as renter, a new marriage dont need added , or built in problems, It is hard enough WITHOUT the OTHERS PROBLEMS,

so Myself, I GOT OUT out of town 15 yrs ago, and It was the best thing for me......... I dont worry about That kind of Problems, Because I dont want it anymore!!

You can play contract problems and renters for As long as it is allowed, I Moved out of that mess

Because I had my fill.... Thats just how I fixed My Problem... and 15 yrs later, its still working

I cant even see a house, unless i go up to my observation tower, then I can see about 3-4 a Mile or two away...

But Scuba, you had a godd thery on a hi tec Contract worded Properly


Hi Larry..wave bouquet

Thats for that; its good to share..

The ONLY reason we did it, to be honest, was for a little extra cash for all the immigration stuff. Neither of us really wanted it at all.

Its not worth it, and I thought I was going to have a breakdown earlier this morning due to all the stress..doh

Once this character is out, thats it.

From what I am hearing here, we all seem to be in general agreement for once! The tenant has far too many rights in current law..very mad
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Oct 8, 2009 12:04 PM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe: Good point..

This whole situation has put me off renting for life. Its a shame, because the extra money is always useful, and we do have a large house here.

However, after this carry on, never again..
If you do decide to rent again, do a background check on the potential tenant. Ask for references non-related to the potential--get references from their previous land lords. Follow through with contacting those references and ask all questions that concern you.

It's also a shame you had to suffer such a nightmare as you did with that person.
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Oct 8, 2009 12:06 PM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
YouMeUs: If you do decide to rent again, do a background check on the potential tenant. Ask for references non-related to the potential--get references from their previous land lords. Follow through with contacting those references and ask all questions that concern you.

It's also a shame you had to suffer such a nightmare as you did with that person.


Hi..wave

Yes, totally agree with that, and its the one BIG mistake we made here on this occasion. This was partly due to wanting to get it rented ASAP, and it was somewhat rushed.

I have rented out in the past myself, and always, always went down the route of references. This recent occurance just underlines how paramount that is..

Thanks for posting!thumbs up
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Oct 8, 2009 12:14 PM CST Renting - The Rights of Landlord and Tenant. Are they Currently Fair??
HotrodLarrys: Contracts have so much fluxuation. and nearly need to be an atty, to understand some of the terms, but then as you said the States have it for the tenant, so what scuba said about getting an uptown, high Falutin Contract , then altering it to your need , but being a Renter can really Suck.....

I went thru the renting and you dod peed on my tire, and your News paper is allover my yard, Bull, I didnt need that and bought my Own Property in the County, away from Peopl so i dont have much guidelines, Like County Regulations ect... But Renting to another is just going to ALLWAYS have You Flustered,

I say Get Away from all those problems as renter, a new marriage dont need added , or built in problems, It is hard enough WITHOUT the OTHERS PROBLEMS,

so Myself, I GOT OUT out of town 15 yrs ago, and It was the best thing for me......... I dont worry about That kind of Problems, Because I dont want it anymore!!

You can play contract problems and renters for As long as it is allowed, I Moved out of that mess

Because I had my fill.... Thats just how I fixed My Problem... and 15 yrs later, its still working

I cant even see a house, unless i go up to my observation tower, then I can see about 3-4 a Mile or two away...

But Scuba, you had a godd thery on a hi tec Contract worded Properly
You're the only guy I know with an observation tower. You made one mistake though, you should have built your house next to a womans college.
BTW petalbabe, ooby is with a B but you can call me Tom.lips
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