If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you? ( Archived) (47)

Oct 23, 2009 3:07 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
azdesperado72
azdesperado72azdesperado72Flagstaff, Arizona USA6 Threads 155 Posts
Nope. I had the opportunity to really talk about this with a friend of mine and realized that it just wouldn't be my cup of tea.
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Oct 23, 2009 3:20 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
ooby_dooby: Another what? Another woman or another man? There's a difference ya know.


Glad you asked, ooby...because this was exactly my thought! Polar didn't specify a gender in her question, and yet I think that the answers would be much different if men thought that she meant "with another man."
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Oct 23, 2009 3:48 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I have a weird sense of deja vu, PB, about your thread...

But you're right - this really is a different question. You're being given permission to enjoy the supposed ultimate male fantasy.

No, I wouldn't. And I would also end my relationship with my gf if she made the request seriously.sad flower
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Oct 23, 2009 3:49 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
jlb684: Glad you asked, ooby...because this was exactly my thought! Polar didn't specify a gender in her question, and yet I think that the answers would be much different if men thought that she meant "with another man."


I assumed, Jeffrey, that she meant another woman, because I couldn't see much point to her thought-experiment otherwise (as a contrast to the other parallel thread/thought-experiment on this page).hug head banger
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Oct 23, 2009 3:51 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Ambrose2007: I have a weird sense of deja vu, PB, about your thread...
But you're right - this really is a different question. You're being given permission to enjoy the supposed ultimate male fantasy.

No, I wouldn't. And I would also end my relationship with my gf if she made the request seriously.


You know,I do too.confused
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Oct 23, 2009 4:02 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Ladies,would you do it out of lust?conversing
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Oct 23, 2009 4:13 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
ooby_dooby: Well, my first priority is to make my woman happy so if this is what she wants I will surely oblige her and put my whole heart into the event.

Now if it was another man.....I doubt I could handle that.


What if you weren't required to handle him (are you assuming he might be so large you couldn't get a grip?confused)? smile
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Oct 23, 2009 4:15 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
That's a very good point.conversing
Ambrose2007: What if you weren't required to handle him (are you assuming he might be so large you couldn't get a grip?)?
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Oct 23, 2009 4:17 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Polarbutterfly: That's a very good point.


I suspect that's what Ooby's afraid he'd have to deal with...wow wink
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Oct 23, 2009 4:19 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Well,would you?

Come on,be honest!


Hell, it was my idea in the first place! (I only let her believe it was her idea... hehehe! devil)

rolling on the floor laughing

- Michael cowboy
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Oct 23, 2009 4:19 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
And maybe that's the reason why
we're not getting very many male posts.dunno
Ambrose2007: I suspect that's what Ooby's afraid he'd have to deal with...
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Oct 23, 2009 4:28 PM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
jlb684: Splitting in two??? So, are you saying that you want to be with 3 women???? Or, one and 2 halves? Oh, damn you, Ambrose...either way, I'm not digging the images you've implanted in my brain.


hmmm blushing

Then my work here is done, Athens.head banger
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Oct 24, 2009 6:41 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
jdc5558
jdc5558jdc5558Williamsburg, Indiana USA5 Threads 152 Posts
I is said that "all men have fantasies" about having two women in bed at the same time. It isn't true. I just can not imagine a situation where I would want to share my lover with someone else. I'm selfish in that respect. I want all of my lovers attention and she will have all of mine. If she asked this of me I would be questioning whether she really loved me.
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Oct 24, 2009 6:45 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Well,would you?

Come on,be honest!


Odd thing for a man to have to ask. I thought it is something that would happen naturally without requiring such a question.

I guess it depends on the type of relationship.dunno
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Oct 24, 2009 6:46 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
handsonesam
handsonesamhandsonesamgreenford, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 444 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Well,would you?

Come on,be honest!

100% I well do it directly
banana
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Oct 24, 2009 6:50 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
noooo,honestly i am selfish,i want just me and if he ask that i will run from him foreversuper shock
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Oct 24, 2009 6:52 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
krisha: noooo,honestly i am selfish,i want just me and if he ask that i will run from him forever


Me, him and another guy is oksuper
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Oct 24, 2009 6:59 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
scousedon
scousedonscousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK14 Threads 4 Polls 1,643 Posts
The idea of a second women might sound exciting and something I and many other men have thought about, but for me in reality, I think I would feel too self conscious to be involved.
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Oct 24, 2009 7:14 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
cristina: Me, him and another guy is ok



me and only himkiss uuuuhhhhhlaugh
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Oct 24, 2009 7:17 AM CST If your g/f asks you to sleep with her and another,would you?
pascado
pascadopascadodublin, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 20 Posts
In response to: Well,would you?

Come on,be honest!
IF IT IS HER MUM THAT IS THE SECOND GIRL I WILL
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