ooby_dooby: Another what? Another woman or another man? There's a difference ya know.
Glad you asked, ooby...because this was exactly my thought! Polar didn't specify a gender in her question, and yet I think that the answers would be much different if men thought that she meant "with another man."
jlb684: Glad you asked, ooby...because this was exactly my thought! Polar didn't specify a gender in her question, and yet I think that the answers would be much different if men thought that she meant "with another man."
I assumed, Jeffrey, that she meant another woman, because I couldn't see much point to her thought-experiment otherwise (as a contrast to the other parallel thread/thought-experiment on this page).
Ambrose2007: I have a weird sense of deja vu, PB, about your thread... But you're right - this really is a different question. You're being given permission to enjoy the supposed ultimate male fantasy.
No, I wouldn't. And I would also end my relationship with my gf if she made the request seriously.
ooby_dooby: Well, my first priority is to make my woman happy so if this is what she wants I will surely oblige her and put my whole heart into the event.
Now if it was another man.....I doubt I could handle that.
What if you weren't required to handle him (are you assuming he might be so large you couldn't get a grip?)?
jlb684: Splitting in two??? So, are you saying that you want to be with 3 women???? Or, one and 2 halves? Oh, damn you, Ambrose...either way, I'm not digging the images you've implanted in my brain.
I is said that "all men have fantasies" about having two women in bed at the same time. It isn't true. I just can not imagine a situation where I would want to share my lover with someone else. I'm selfish in that respect. I want all of my lovers attention and she will have all of mine. If she asked this of me I would be questioning whether she really loved me.
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
The idea of a second women might sound exciting and something I and many other men have thought about, but for me in reality, I think I would feel too self conscious to be involved.
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