Why Italian Women Need Therapy (62)

Oct 31, 2009 9:25 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
venere08: gussi darrrrlink, what is it that you mean?

It's kinda got lost in translation!


I think he may be referring to that One time mama put too mucha garlic in da salsa laugh
Oct 31, 2009 10:52 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
CuspofMagic: I think he may be referring to that One time mama put too mucha garlic in da salsa


Oh, I see. I think.confused

Thanks Cuspo, you are our resident interpreter from now on!laugh
Nov 1, 2009 4:38 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
venere08: gussi darrrrlink, what is it that you mean?

It's kinda got lost in translation!


Ven, sweetness, there is no translation to get lost in.

what i am saying is that the generation of mothers like yours or mine has gone. today they read packets of food, mix with water and throw it on the table and let the offspring get on with it.

The generation of yours and my mothers are alas no more.


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Nov 1, 2009 4:46 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
gussi: Ven, sweetness, there is no translation to get lost in.

what i am saying is that the generation of mothers like yours or mine has gone. today they read packets of food, mix with water and throw it on the table and let the offspring get on with it.

The generation of yours and my mothers are alas no more.


Oh, gussi...NEVER in this household. Well, not never, apart from the rare noodles in a cup as last resort snack.

But alas, there are many out there who are as you say, as well as the fast food industry. No wonder the obesity problems.

Thank you for clarifying for me. Sometimes, I am a bit slow, sorry about that.wine
Nov 1, 2009 4:50 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
venere08: Oh, gussi...NEVER in this household. Well, not never, apart from the rare noodles in a cup as last resort snack.

But alas, there are many out there who are as you say, as well as the fast food industry. No wonder the obesity problems.

Thank you for clarifying for me. Sometimes, I am a bit slow, sorry about that.


no youre not, its to do withthe time zone.

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Nov 1, 2009 6:35 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
gussi: no youre not, its to do withthe time zone.


No, I meant being 'slow' as in not being too quick to comprehend what is written sometimes.laugh

wine
Nov 1, 2009 1:42 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
Hi Ven...Okay, I have found the solution to one of my mama problems. I can clean the kitchen to absolute perfection, sparkling clean, immaculate, tidy, like a picture postcard. My mother will still come in after I have left, pick up the J-cloth and wipe the counter. It is like she has an uncontrollable urge to leave her mark before she is happy. It drives me mad. So, I know that I will never ever be able to clean it to her standard, so my solution
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I will hide all the J-cloths from now on....That'll learn her good!!!!
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God bless mamas!!!
Nov 2, 2009 2:51 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
venere08: No, I meant being 'slow' as in not being too quick to comprehend what is written sometimes.


Aww Ven dont worry, i have the same problem and i write it.

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Nov 2, 2009 5:08 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
venere08: And so he should. You're there for Christmas lunch, for goodness sake!


Hmmm...not sure what happened here.confused

The above was meant as a reply to Elley's post above!doh
Nov 2, 2009 6:45 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
I dropped by my parents' a short while ago on my way home, at my mother's invitation. She'd made some yumming cooked apples stuffed with sultanas. Nice on such a cool night.

I had printed off info from the internet, about a property for my father to look at, as we had been talking about that region in Italy earlier in the day.

My mother cannot bear any mention, not even a whiff, of the slightest possibility of my going to Italy even for a holiday, at the best of times, let alone the thought of my ever spending some lengthier time. So on hearing the lively conversastion between my father and myself, she decided to interpret the matter as me planning to go live in Italy tomorrow. Next thing you know, she is saying that if I went to live there, then it would mean an early death for her!

Oh, boy, here come the guilt sessions all over again.laugh

She finished off the conversations telling me I could take my father with me. And that we could both spend our time digging the acreage on the property! (The land has olive trees and sundry other trees. No digging involved.)

doh
Nov 2, 2009 12:21 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
We were ALL enjoying the latest Bond movie and the old swine turned it off at a crucial moment.He was lucky to escape the ire of all present.wave
Nov 2, 2009 12:30 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
Poor thing...rolling on the floor laughing This bloody lunatic used to get up in the middle of the night to go into her adult son,s bedroom to make sure that he was sleeping in a nice tidy straight line,an that was before she,d lost her tiny little mind.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I kid you not. I could regale you with lots of stories of this particular individuals madness,but I,d die laughing and I,m not quite ready to go yet.laugh
Nov 2, 2009 6:00 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Elley: We were ALL enjoying the latest Bond movie and the old swine turned it off at a crucial moment.He was lucky to escape the ire of all present.


Now that is a no no. I understand your wrath!laugh
Nov 2, 2009 6:01 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Elley: Poor thing... This bloody lunatic used to get up in the middle of the night to go into her adult son,s bedroom to make sure that he was sleeping in a nice tidy straight line,an that was before she,d lost her tiny little mind. I kid you not. I could regale you with lots of stories of this particular individuals madness,but I,d die laughing and I,m not quite ready to go yet.


Good heavens. No wonder she did lose it in the end. She was on the verge for years, it seem!doh

And no, we don't want to to leave us yet, either!hug
Nov 5, 2009 3:50 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
Well if the object was to get rid of me they did.If its who has the last laff I did. I think that meansI did.grin
Nov 5, 2009 4:34 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Elley: Well if the object was to get rid of me they did.If its who has the last laff I did. I think that meansI did.


Woo hoo. cheering

You certainly did win, then.

But don't let it be your last laugh though!wave
Nov 5, 2009 8:46 PM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
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Nov 6, 2009 12:04 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
I'm driving myself completely silly. HELP!

Do I sell my 20 acres here (I rarely get to enjoy it as it's in the country), and buy in Italy???

I am really obsessing over the thought of buying over there, and even contacted 2 agents, and might make an offer on one...

But suddenly, a sense of mild panic is looming. It's such a big step.

Who has done this, and can offer some words of advice.

So...to buy or not to buy, that is the question!doh crying
Nov 6, 2009 6:20 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
Oh no,got5 lots more laffin to do yet.laugh laugh laugh

Ok,decision time,to buy or not to buy......

all decisions will have consequences both good,bad and indifferent,nothing is ever totally one way or another,tho on balance,as long as the good outweighs the bad its a good decision.

Also,there will be consequences that you had never even thought of....whatever you do be positive,just try to see the good side and you,ll be fine.wave
Nov 6, 2009 7:45 AM CST Why Italian Women Need Therapy
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Elley: Oh no,got5 lots more laffin to do yet.

Ok,decision time,to buy or not to buy......

all decisions will have consequences both good,bad and indifferent,nothing is ever totally one way or another,tho on balance,as long as the good outweighs the bad its a good decision.

Also,there will be consequences that you had never even thought of....whatever you do be positive,just try to see the good side and you,ll be fine.


These are some particularly wise words, Elley. Learning to ride the wave so you can withstand however and wherever the tide leads you, is the challenge.

Thank you.wine
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