pretty79: Fake halo,they portray themselves as good persons to get stuff how can we avoid their drama Advice please
first of all I'm so sick of the wimp generation. "I want to break up with people, stop being friends with someone, but I just want to wish it into the cornfield without any confrontation or drama." well for children that may be ok but this is the adult world.
You confront them and tell them they hurt you and that you wish them the best but that being friends isn't something you want to do or pursue anymore.
They will either tell you to get bent, fine or yell at you. After they do those things you walk away.
amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia327 posts
pretty79: we work together or like went 2 the same school,some how they have your mobile phone or know your home,i have showed them true feelings about their action and they can,t fade away
Only return their calls every so often, if at all. Don't go out with them if they ask. Be busy doing things with other people, even if you aren't. They'll get the message eventually IMO.
No more jokes for me on the subject;Do not get rid of them,and be a friend to them anyway.It is up to all of us with the knowledge of what true friendship is to teach other people the true meaning of love.......
pretty79: Fake halo,they portray themselves as good persons to get stuff how can we avoid their drama Advice please
I just went through this with my ex-'best friend'. We were closer than siamese twins. People said we were connected at the hip. She knew all my thoughts & secrets, & I knew hers. Another so-called 'friend' came in the middle of us, started putting a bug in her ear, & she never trusted me after that. She flipped out on me one night, over a guy... that she liked & I had no desire for. She hit me, I hit her back & the rest is history. I'd NEVER hit ANYONE before in my LIFE! But I won't just stand there & take it either. We haven't spoken since.
I call them "disposable friendships" & I, for one, have no time or patience for them anymore. I have real true friends who've been there for me through good & bad, thick & thin. When times got rough, they were offering a shoulder to lean on or an ear to scream into. Those are my REAL friends.
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Send me one,
then will run over them
the Fake friends