vincent1957: any advise on what to say when contacting for the first time
You are on right place (Forums)so people can know you,but must attach ur recent pic U have done that u introduced ur self that is enough at first meeting
Read the complete profile before emailing. If you are not a match, don't email. If it looks like you are a possible match, comment on what you you think you have in common. If they are wordy and you are not and you can't get thru the full profile...move on to the next one as we would drive you bonkers in real life.
Don't try to fake an interest in something. We do figure it out eventually and some of us will crucify liars. Don't listen to most men's advice. Many consider you competition.
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