I never have any luck on here, am i that ulgly or something? plus all the ppl are not in to 21 yo, any advice on how i can actually find someone...and dont tell me it takes time i been a member for like a year and a half
aj8819: I never have any luck on here, am i that ulgly or something? plus all the ppl are not in to 21 yo, any advice on how i can actually find someone...and dont tell me it takes time i been a member for like a year and a half
Boy, read what you have just written.
With such negative thinking, that is all that you will attract.
Self-fulfilling prophecy.
Change your thinking and attitude, and you will attract what you want in your life.
ever spend time looking everywhere for your keys and never finding them, but then when you aren't look poof there they are. same applies here. don't feel bad i have been here for a while myself and still have yet to connect with someone. actually started talking to someone then they just stopped talking to me without even a sorry i am no longer interested or anything. i believe it will happen when it is time for it to happen so don't give up yet!!!
yep hun wright some more about yourself,on your profile other things you like, what your looking for ,hay I am still looking as well with no luck but I hang in there , you can do it just have some fun and put that loverly smile in your face Carol
aj8819: I never have any luck on here, am i that ulgly or something? plus all the ppl are not in to 21 yo, any advice on how i can actually find someone...and dont tell me it takes time i been a member for like a year and a half
I know EXACTLY how you feel, nobody "LUVZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ" us really old guys either..
aj8819: I never have any luck on here, am i that ulgly or something? plus all the ppl are not in to 21 yo, any advice on how i can actually find someone...and dont tell me it takes time i been a member for like a year and a half
I guess from most people that have tried to talk with me on here that are closer is that none of the guys take the time to read someone's profile. They ask questions like, are you married or single? How many kids do you have? Key indicators they dont read. Or.... They may be too shy to e-mail you, atleast the really sweet ones. Not sure. Sometimes, its the flipside of the saying "a picture is worth a thousand words". I'd rather spend more time reading a profile over looking at a thousand pictures. But that's just me. Dont get me wrong though. A picture is handy to have on the profile.
In response to: I never have any luck on here, am i that ulgly or something? plus all the ppl are not in to 21 yo, any advice on how i can actually find someone...and dont tell me it takes time i been a member for like a year and a half
Just keep trying and for sure more positivity,don't second guess your looks, can you just love yourself? that will help alot,keep on trucking,all the best
I have a great attitude and also been on for about a year with very little activity so maybe attitude isn't the only aspect that contributes here. Perhaps it's location or whatever but the gent who made this post sure isn't alone (well I guess technically he is but he's not the only one!) Carry on our wayward sun...
venere08: Boy, read what you have just written.
With such negative thinking, that is all that you will attract.
Self-fulfilling prophecy.
Change your thinking and attitude, and you will attract what you want in your life.
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