Why do you have turned off your IM? ( Archived) (35)

Dec 28, 2009 6:38 PM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
leonardo5
leonardo5leonardo5Central region, Santa Fe Argentina33 Threads 8 Polls 284 Posts
I understand why a hot girl does it. But why for other women that do not classify in this category?
And overall…why men? I always keep it on and nobody called so far (maybe is it because I’m too ugly??? crying )
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Dec 28, 2009 6:48 PM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
simplicio
simpliciosimplicioSkopje, Macedonia17 Threads 244 Posts
lol mine is always on too and i got like few calls in day so keep it up comfort
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Dec 28, 2009 8:36 PM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
leonardo5: I understand why a hot girl does it. But why for other women that do not classify in this category?
And overall…why men? I always keep it on and nobody called so far (maybe is it because I’m too ugly??? )


Ever have someone IM you when you are in the middle of typing a post and it gets deleted? Its a royal pain as you have to start all over again. Experienced that last night as someone kept typing to im me - I don't mind iming ... but at least ask me before.
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Dec 28, 2009 8:49 PM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
I have my turned off, but I would turn it on if someone requested to chat with me. Then I started getting these messages from Norton stating that my firewall was blocking intrusions. Kinda scared me, so I don't use it at all anymore.
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Dec 29, 2009 3:30 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
leonardo5: I understand why a hot girl does it. But why for other women that do not classify in this category?
And overall…why men? I always keep it on and nobody called so far (maybe is it because I’m too ugly??? )
Because it is a Pain in the Neck,and lower down too!laugh
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Dec 29, 2009 3:35 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
Just because i can..handshake
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Dec 29, 2009 3:36 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
IM is a pain in the butt .. I have mined turned off (and Ive stated that on my profile) but still heaps of guys keep giving it a shot roll eyes

I check my filterbox now and then in case there's someone who has mailed me who doesnt exactly fit my search criteria .. but I might want to respond.

It's all about being in control of your cyber life laugh

wine
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Dec 29, 2009 3:43 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
I turned mine off because I was fed up with all the men who never bothered to read my profile try and chat to me...

profile used to say... no photo-no chat...but hey, they could not read!!!

plus got sick of the pervs...
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Dec 29, 2009 3:43 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
Cause I will...........grin
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Dec 29, 2009 3:44 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
I turned mine off because I was fed up with all the men who never bothered to read my profile try and chat to me...

profile used to say... no photo-no chat...but hey, they could not read!!!

plus got sick of the pervs...
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Dec 29, 2009 3:45 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
leonardo5: I understand why a hot girl does it. But why for other women that do not classify in this category?
And overall…why men? I always keep it on and nobody called so far (maybe is it because I’m too ugly??? )
Who can define a 'hot girl' I turned mine off because i was sick of getting IM's from guys the same age and younger than my Son
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Dec 29, 2009 3:54 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
virgosingle
virgosinglevirgosinglegreymouth, West Coast New Zealand10 Threads 347 Posts
I turned mine off too ! not into seeing women play with their private parts on cam ,sorry I'm just not into it!! get your kicks some place else!
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Dec 29, 2009 3:55 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
virgosingle: I turned mine off too ! not into seeing women play with their private parts on cam ,sorry I'm just not into it!! get your kicks some place else!
Sicko!!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 29, 2009 4:03 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
jeepers: Oh, I'm a little slow upstairs this early in the morning.
Thats ok.........his t*ts are wide awake now!!!uh oh rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 29, 2009 4:06 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
911gypsy: Thats ok.........his t*ts are wide awake now!!!
You want to see mine ?? wow

rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Dec 29, 2009 4:17 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
virgosingle
virgosinglevirgosinglegreymouth, West Coast New Zealand10 Threads 347 Posts
Angelo9: I'm with you , Venere it isnt a very nice thing to say, Whatever the OP's definition of a 'hot girl' may be, all women are beautiful and to put them into categories of 'hot' and not'is simply shallow and shows his priorities.

I keep my off fot the same reasons as you, one IM cancelling another, plus I have no idea who the IM'er may be. I think as a first contact an IM is a little cheeky where a nice mail might be more successful.
It's not rocket science, just manners



wow thumbs up
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Dec 29, 2009 4:23 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
jeepers: You want to see mine ??
Yaaaaaaaaaaaa baby yaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!devil laugh
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Dec 29, 2009 4:43 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Angelo9: I'm with you , Venere it isnt a very nice thing to say, Whatever the OP's definition of a 'hot girl' may be, all women are beautiful and to put them into categories of 'hot' and not'is simply shallow and shows his priorities.

I keep my off fot the same reasons as you, one IM cancelling another, plus I have no idea who the IM'er may be. I think as a first contact an IM is a little cheeky where a nice mail might be more successful.
It's not rocket science, just manners


Hi Angel,
So you would think! There was one guy who must have appeared about 50 times on my WVM list over many months. So I would have assumed he had plenty of opportunity to read my profile, particularly as it is not very long, and not difficult to understand. It is written in English!roll eyes

So, what does he do? IM me!!!frustrated

Then when I turned it off without responding, and politely sent him a flower to remind him of why I had, he replied saying all he wanted to do was chat, and that he didn't bit! I haven't bothered to respond!doh doh doh
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Dec 29, 2009 4:50 AM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
xxfrecklesxx: I turned mine off because I was fed up with all the men who never bothered to read my profile try and chat to me...

profile used to say... no photo-no chat...but hey, they could not read!!!

plus got sick of the pervs...
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Dec 29, 2009 6:24 PM CST Why do you have turned off your IM?
leonardo5
leonardo5leonardo5Central region, Santa Fe Argentina33 Threads 8 Polls 284 Posts
venere08: Not a very nice thing to say.

Don't worry you classify into that category
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