Married men pretend to be single... (193)
nottoo2525: Single in their heart? I guess you have a point but you know what I meant. Did say though that living separate and apart or have made some type of formal declaration publicly that their marriage is well and truly over not just a thought in their mind that it is.
I am single in my heart
I live seperately to my wife
She would not want a reconcilliation
I certainly DO NOT want a reconcilliation.
I want a divorce..... she isn't bothered.
My marriage is well and truly over.
I have no desire to EVER get back with my wife.
So why should I need to prove to anyone by way of a formal public declaration that this is the case.
Do you want me to take out an add in the local and national press.
Maybe get an advertising slot on TV to declare it, or set up my own web-site to splatter it all over the internet.
If women are too dumb to figure these things out by themselves, or will not open up their minds to the fact that the guy might actually be telling the truth and take each case on it's merits, then it's not me that can change their mind.
Ladies...... Please stay away from this "Seperated" male if you can't handle that expression or feel that I am lying.....
I really don't want you in my life.
Thankyou
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Englishman55: I am single in my heart
I live seperately to my wife
She would not want a reconcilliation
I certainly DO NOT want a reconcilliation.
I want a divorce..... she isn't bothered.
My marriage is well and truly over.
I have no desire to EVER get back with my wife.
So why should I need to prove to anyone by way of a formal public declaration that this is the case.
Do you want me to take out an add in the local and national press.
Maybe get an advertising slot on TV to declare it, or set up my own web-site to splatter it all over the internet.
If women are too dumb to figure these things out by themselves, or will not open up their minds to the fact that the guy might actually be telling the truth and take each case on it's merits, then it's not me that can change their mind.
Ladies...... Please stay away from this "Seperated" male if you can't handle that expression or feel that I am lying.....
I really don't want you in my life.
Thankyou
I live seperately to my wife
She would not want a reconcilliation
I certainly DO NOT want a reconcilliation.
I want a divorce..... she isn't bothered.
My marriage is well and truly over.
I have no desire to EVER get back with my wife.
So why should I need to prove to anyone by way of a formal public declaration that this is the case.
Do you want me to take out an add in the local and national press.
Maybe get an advertising slot on TV to declare it, or set up my own web-site to splatter it all over the internet.
If women are too dumb to figure these things out by themselves, or will not open up their minds to the fact that the guy might actually be telling the truth and take each case on it's merits, then it's not me that can change their mind.
Ladies...... Please stay away from this "Seperated" male if you can't handle that expression or feel that I am lying.....
I really don't want you in my life.
Thankyou
Don't be so touchy. Wasn't arguing with you just asking a question. To me the fact that you are no longer living under the same roof is a public declaration. An ad slot is taking it a bit too far don't you think? Not what I meant at all.
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morgan5: Women do it to
Hi Morgan, Yes you are right. A man told me last year how he met one woman and he did not know she was married. Her husband had her followed and then turned up at the man's house. A very awkward situation.......
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nottoo2525: Oh don't get me wrong. I am by no means perfect and I know it.
I don't think the op sounded like she was one of these women but yes, you are absolutely right. There are a lot of women like that out there. Maybe on CS, maybe not but have seen plenty in my lifetime. I find usually when they encourage it and allow it to happen they are usually doing it for a: money b: stability (perceived lol) more than for love. They are in love with the "idea" of being with a man who can protect and provide and are willing to do almost anything to acheivethis end at times.
A tiger can't change in his stripes. If he lied and cheated on his wife chances are he will be able to do it again only this time it will be with you.
I don't think the op sounded like she was one of these women but yes, you are absolutely right. There are a lot of women like that out there. Maybe on CS, maybe not but have seen plenty in my lifetime. I find usually when they encourage it and allow it to happen they are usually doing it for a: money b: stability (perceived lol) more than for love. They are in love with the "idea" of being with a man who can protect and provide and are willing to do almost anything to acheivethis end at times.
A tiger can't change in his stripes. If he lied and cheated on his wife chances are he will be able to do it again only this time it will be with you.
Sure, there is agreement about this simple point. My other point is that not all men are liars (many just want to get laid, as humbly as that) and not all women are stupid.... When someone complans of the other gender to belong to one of these categories is because she/he belong to the other one... True, the OP did not mean anything beyond asking for similar experiences...
Hasta la vista baby
From a single at the bottom of his heart.
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kongreece: 2 of the men I met through this site, were "very" married though they declared to be single. Absolutely unacceptable!! Has this ever happened to you?
Hasn't happened to me yet.....hopefully it will stay this way. But, I've seen someone on this site who is saying he is separated, who as far as I know, is married.
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Hasta la vista baby
En un mientras cocodrilo!!
En un mientras cocodrilo!!
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nottoo2525: Hasta la vista baby
En un mientras cocodrilo!!
En un mientras cocodrilo!!
Oop quoting didn't work.
That was in reponse to Antjo39 sorry guys!!!
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markizamkd25: Happened to me
Me too. Didn't find out until it was "too late".
I felt so used and humiliated, although it explained a few things.
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kongreece: 2 of the men I met through this site, were "very" married though they declared to be single. Absolutely unacceptable!! Has this ever happened to you?
Yep!
I tell em not nice and bu bye, permenantly!
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kongreece: 2 of the men I met through this site, were "very" married though they declared to be single. Absolutely unacceptable!! Has this ever happened to you?
Just about every other email I get is a married guy. Some men just don't have any class.
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When i was younger and would date men
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
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When i was younger and would date men
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
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spunkey272: When i was younger and would date men
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
who were married but seperated. (quote
unquote) i found out most of them after
i had fell in love with them, usually
went back to their wives and i was left
to grieve the loss of my loved one. so
now if it says on a guys profile seperated
i wont even reply any mor. is safe that way
I can't help but feel the same...what a dramatic moment it your love goes back to his wife, how tragic!!
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I dated a guy years and years ago who acted so sneaky that I finally just assumed he had a wife. He didn't want me to stay at his bachelor pad and I never saw the place. He told me he just broke up with a girl and she was moving out. Then, he only wanted to meet at hotels. Etc. Etc.
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Witchaywoman: I dated a guy years and years ago who acted so sneaky that I finally just assumed he had a wife. He didn't want me to stay at his bachelor pad and I never saw the place. He told me he just broke up with a girl and she was moving out. Then, he only wanted to meet at hotels. Etc. Etc.
Yep, meeting at the hotels is a sure sign he is married.
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Interestingly, I have found that many Greek men will freely admit that they are married or have girlfriends. I have absolutely no interest in being someone's mistress or "side dish" and I want all cards on the table from the beginning. I'm not saying that I've never been lied to in this regard, but I can say that I have never been lied to in a way that would have me suspicious or doubtful. If I've been lied to, they did it well, for I'm not blind to the typical signs.
I once asked a man (a Greek man at work who flirts with me frequently) if he was married. I wasn't going to date him no matter what his answer was, but I was curious about his open flirtation. When I asked him if he was married, he said "No.....but my wife is."
I once asked a man (a Greek man at work who flirts with me frequently) if he was married. I wasn't going to date him no matter what his answer was, but I was curious about his open flirtation. When I asked him if he was married, he said "No.....but my wife is."
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As far as I can tell, I am the only single man on here pretending to be married..
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kongreece: 2 of the men I met through this site, were "very" married though they declared to be single. Absolutely unacceptable!! Has this ever happened to you?
happens all the time; this is so not rare; also many that are in a relationship do it. That's why you take your time, get phone numbers and meet up and get to know eachother; so many fall in lust at the drop of a hat. Internet dating isn't easy
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I must also add that both of them at their profile they are stated as "never married" !!!! And furthermore, the second one I met gave me different name (his real name was Stergios and he changed it to Stelios), different job (he said he was working for Siemens though military) and he was very married for "never married"!!!
UNACCEPTABLE!!!
No excuses for such lies.
Take care!
Well, never married could still mean living with someone.
Really the only way to weed out the liars is to meet them and then figure out they're wrong a lot of times.
By then you could already be setting yourself up to be hurt but