Would you leave your disfigured husband/wife? (82)
No I wouldnt, my ex had MS, ok she wasnt disfigured but she left me, and I would have done anything to keep her.
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steve140266: No I wouldnt, my ex had MS, ok she wasnt disfigured but she left me, and I would have done anything to keep her.
Thats the point Steve, people change with these dreadful things and it is sad to see, my sister has bad MS and it is awful to see her go downhill, she fights it but it is a terrible strain on their lifes!. We may wish to stay with them but they sometimes change as well.------ This thread is Archived ------
trurorob: Thats my point exactly, No is just too simple an answer!
NOT an easy question to answer, but I would not walk away easily. As for staying I'd hope so but thankfully I have never had this problem in life as yet.
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sindhiboy: Good heart and honest ..
I am not handsome ,wanna date ..?
I am not handsome ,wanna date ..?
Interesting Mr Ali I thought you were betrothed to another CS member and yet you still chase ................just like a man
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This is an interseting question from the OP. In truth we all say No, but in reality most of the people will walk away depending on the disfiguration of the person as most lead to pain and suffering and yet none of us like pain and suffering and we cannot cope, so in truth we will run and hide away from it feeling guilty.
I guess the Op is talking about burns loss of limbs which is a turn off for most people.
my opinion for what its worth
I guess the Op is talking about burns loss of limbs which is a turn off for most people.
my opinion for what its worth
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lushguy4you: Interesting Mr Ali I thought you were betrothed to another CS member and yet you still chase ................just like a man
actually many peoples are crazy wthour brain so cannot understand the diffrence between serious and jok .. may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
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lushguy4you: This is an interseting question from the OP. In truth we all say No, but in reality most of the people will walk away depending on the disfiguration of the person as most lead to pain and suffering and yet none of us like pain and suffering and we cannot cope, so in truth we will run and hide away from it feeling guilty.
I guess the Op is talking about burns loss of limbs which is a turn off for most people.
my opinion for what its worth
I guess the Op is talking about burns loss of limbs which is a turn off for most people.
my opinion for what its worth
I have my limbs, but have burns, over 170 stitches and four major head injuries.
My body looks better than most and my pheromones will attract most men.
Are they worthy of me is the question?
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I have my limbs, but have burns, over 170 stitches and four major head injuries.
My body looks better than most and my pheromones will attract most men.
Are they worthy of me is the question?
My body looks better than most and my pheromones will attract most men.
Are they worthy of me is the question?
that is a good question
like you i dont have burns but lost limbs as in fingers in an accident and yet live a normal life joking about my loss and yet it turns some people off.
I always look at the same question
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sindhiboy: actually many peoples are crazy wthour brain so cannot understand the diffrence between serious and jok ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
Even with out brains we know your truth. small ali
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lushguy4you: Interesting Mr Ali I thought you were betrothed to another CS member and yet you still chase ................just like a man
He is a joke and a small ali.
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sindhiboy: actually many peoples are crazy wthour brain so cannot understand the diffrence between serious and jok ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
people never forget with age or not, some can flirt really well and some are using the site as a means to whatever
defo not lost my brain
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lushguy4you: people never forget with age or not, some can flirt really well and some are using the site as a means to whatever
defo not lost my brain
Nope you wipe it on a daily basisdefo not lost my brain
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patmac: Nope you wipe it on a daily basis
Thats a bit arsey! Pat!------ This thread is Archived ------
DynamiteLuv: What if they were once beautiful/handsome when you marry them but was disfigured very badly in a horrible accident that will leave them that way for life?
My honest answer would be No.
What about you?
My honest answer would be No.
What about you?
Of-course not. Never.
Unless they threw me out.
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trurorob: Thats a bit arsey! Pat!
MOI
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I have my limbs, but have burns, over 170 stitches and four major head injuries.
My body looks better than most and my pheromones will attract most men.
Are they worthy of me is the question?
My body looks better than most and my pheromones will attract most men.
Are they worthy of me is the question?
I understand what you're saying but it is a completly different situation that doesn't involve the other considerations we've talked about... You are who you are...burns scars and all...so you're not going to change.
I dated a man who had burn scars and skingrafts over 80% of his body and had no problem with it but he also told me what he had gone through with years of surgery and pain...and anger lots and lots of anger. So while I could be with him after the fact, I don't know that I could have stayed with him during everything he went through.
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jbibiza: I understand what you're saying but it is a completely different situation that doesn't involve the other considerations we've talked about... You are who you are...burns scars and all...so you're not going to change.
I dated a man who had burn scars and skingrafts over 80% of his body and had no problem with it but he also told me what he had gone through with years of surgery and pain...and anger lots and lots of anger. So while I could be with him after the fact, I don't know that I could have stayed with him during everything he went through.
I dated a man who had burn scars and skingrafts over 80% of his body and had no problem with it but he also told me what he had gone through with years of surgery and pain...and anger lots and lots of anger. So while I could be with him after the fact, I don't know that I could have stayed with him during everything he went through.
I understand. The pain someone has to go through to be with someone like this is so costly. It is wonderful to know that someone is able for only a short time can stand the pain someone else is feeling.
This is a journey in life and you have shared yours.
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sindhiboy: actually many peoples are crazy wthour brain so cannot understand the diffrence between serious and jok ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
may be they lost thier brain wth age ..
there is a time and a place for a joke.... and its NOT just after someone has talked about their partner that they lost...
And deffiantly NOT with a chat up line.
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xxfrecklesxx: there is a time and a place for a joke.... and its NOT just after someone has talked about their partner that they lost...
And deffiantly NOT with a chat up line.
And deffiantly NOT with a chat up line.
Hi frecks
just ignore the idoit, writes a load of crap on other threads as well.
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I used to work with kids that were both deaf and blind...in the end I had to quit because I just couldn't deal with it...
So for me it's not a simple unqualified no.