Mid Life Crisis??? (31)

Feb 15, 2011 6:13 PM CST Mid Life Crisis???
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
Mid life crisis is a Fallacy... and possibly a banana --- just another excuse for not having been to You! or for that matter not knowing you! - sometimes liking or not liking same... in other words
..Da Buzz" won't do it - re capturing lost years
Feb 15, 2011 6:37 PM CST Mid Life Crisis???
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
CuspofMagic: Mid life crisis is a Fallacy... and possibly a --- just another excuse for not having been to You! or for that matter not knowing you! - sometimes liking or not liking same... in other words
..Da Buzz" won't do it - re capturing lost years

In other words, good excuse to leave your OH, family and take off into the blue yonder to do what you could have with them, but didn't realize it was that easy if you had just expressed your true feelings.
Feb 15, 2011 6:44 PM CST Mid Life Crisis???
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
normalguy68: In other words, good excuse to leave your OH, family and take off into the blue yonder to do what you could have with them, but didn't realize it was that easy if you had just expressed your true feelings.


there are many causes of the effect you have listed just a few ...mmmh true feelings how do you know if you have mixed feelings borne from not knowing?
Feb 15, 2011 7:30 PM CST Mid Life Crisis???
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
normalguy68: In other words, good excuse to leave your OH, family and take off into the blue yonder to do what you could have with them, but didn't realize it was that easy if you had just expressed your true feelings.



Sometimes it's not that easy conversing

It can be a matter of having been together for a long, long time and your needs and interests change..

Classic example, which has always stuck in my mind ...

Husband and I relaxing in the backyard, chatting away (he was being nice lol), kids were getting a little older by this stage .. and he asked me what I would like to do, as in for me not just "us".

I spoke from the heart and said I would love to travel and pursue my art ..

He laughed and scoffed at the idea, cos that's not normal, suburban and average .. as he was sigh

In time, as the relationship deteriorated I made the decision to leave, so that at least one of us could be happy (I think he's basically an unhappy man)

Since then, over the years, I have travelled all over the world, and indeed pursued my art.

And I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that I made the right decision back then.
Feb 15, 2011 8:56 PM CST Mid Life Crisis???
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Serene good post bouquet

Funny enough, my mother in law told me I am just going through a mid life crisis when I told it I was splitting with her son and never ever going back and that I was getting a life for myself rolling on the floor laughing

Best decision I ever made with NO regrets whatsoever wine grin
Feb 16, 2011 12:26 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
tarnsnz: Serene good post

Funny enough, my mother in law told me I am just going through a mid life crisis when I told it I was splitting with her son and never ever going back and that I was getting a life for myself

Best decision I ever made with NO regrets whatsoever



Yes it's interesting the reactions you get huh conversing

My mother thought I would go back to him confused and the first thing my mother-in-law said was "He'll lose the house you know, he'll never be able to make the repayments on his own"

Whatever doh

laugh
Feb 16, 2011 5:04 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
bonsai
bonsaibonsaiseymour, Victoria Australia18 Threads 510 Posts
bonsai: Apart from the spelling mistakes it sort or makes sense.
Of...........doh laugh
Feb 16, 2011 5:10 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
psuedonym: and if a mid life crisis is determined by the interest you have in sports cars, fast bikes, boats , fast women, and music ............i've been having one since i was 14



laugh laugh laugh
Feb 16, 2011 5:14 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
blondeozichick
blondeozichickblondeozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia19 Threads 1 Polls 1,355 Posts
wave hi bon grin
Feb 19, 2011 4:58 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
misdemeanour
misdemeanourmisdemeanourMelbourne, Victoria Australia1 Posts
Go for it. The only thing that shakes up a mid-life crises is a near death experience. It's like breaking your arm so you can't feel your head.
Feb 19, 2011 10:00 AM CST Mid Life Crisis???
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
misdemeanour: Go for it. The only thing that shakes up a mid-life crises is a near death experience. It's like breaking your arm so you can't feel your head.


I must be having a mid life crises then? I had my arm ripped out of its socket, three years ago, but I already had the fast car and the boat by then?
grin
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