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Mar 7, 2010 11:50 AM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?



blues
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Mar 7, 2010 12:04 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?


realizing is the first step ... the second would be do you feel comfortable with your self... if not... am I willing to learn and eventually change
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Mar 7, 2010 12:21 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
Un-attached dunno

Without knowing more about your personal life I cannot really give a definitive reason as to why, but I would follow Boban's sound advice, though don't turn your back on him, if its Top Secret he may have to kill you!! uh oh wine
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Mar 7, 2010 12:45 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?


Screwed up I think...because how are they feelings? They appear to be statements of facts and not feelings.
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Mar 7, 2010 1:25 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
K_rational
K_rationalK_rationalTaipei, Taiwan10 Threads 257 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?


"True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."
- David Tyson Gentry
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Mar 7, 2010 1:31 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
K_rational: "True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."
- David Tyson Gentry

thumbs up
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Mar 7, 2010 1:38 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
ReikiAngel
ReikiAngelReikiAngelIbri, Az Zahirah Oman4 Threads 1 Polls 159 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?



It is difficult to describe feelings to someone who professes to be emotionally detached. In order to feel, we have to open ourselves up to allow the feelings to enter. If we are too afraid of getting hurt, or we suppress feeligs, we may end up not being able to feel anything at all.

But I'll try to describe how I feel....

Friendship (IMHO) means being able to share everything with a person, to be able to trust them not to judge you, and to know they will be there in the good times and the bad.

Love (IMHO) is friendship, plus added bonuses.heart beating
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Mar 7, 2010 1:39 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
K_rational: "True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."
- David Tyson Gentry
Ahhhhh, I love it.applause handshake
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Mar 7, 2010 1:57 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?


That would certainly explain a few things (re your virginity)... hmmm
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Mar 7, 2010 2:31 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.
Not really at least.
Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....
How do you describe these feelings ?


In your profile you said you "like to listen to some good music (it could happens that I sing when I listen to some really good songs)".
I guess you have some feelings when you listen to that music. Now you have to learn to apply the same kind of feelings to people. It could take some time but it's not the first you are successfull in beating a heavy problem.
cheers
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Mar 7, 2010 4:51 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?
Well, I can understand you not bothering to waste any emotion or time on people But, can't understand how you've never cared about animals uh oh
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Mar 7, 2010 11:38 PM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
EliteOne
EliteOneEliteOneBrisbane, Queensland Australia38 Threads 1,590 Posts
WhovianGeneva: I think I have understood my problem, I don't remember to have cared about people or animals.

Not really at least.

Even if I pray it's more *mechanical* than emotional....

How do you describe these feelings ?


I don’t love all animals only the ones that taste good! laugh

You are what is called within the norm- you cannot go through your life being attached to every disaster on personal level or you yourself would never experience happiness. I don’t pray at all, however I do donate money to emergency relief funds. wave
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Mar 8, 2010 12:07 AM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
A friend is someone who believes in you when you fail to believe in yourself.
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Mar 8, 2010 12:09 AM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Love cannot be described...UNLOVE can..

Drop negative feelings...
Drop Unhappiness...
Drop UNLOVE..

and ...

You will know.
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Mar 8, 2010 12:13 AM CST Help asked : what is love and friendship ??????
dragonprince
dragonprincedragonprinceTablelands, Queensland Australia7 Threads 60 Posts
K_rational: "True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."
- David Tyson Gentry

What a true statment, you are so correct
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