I3estman4u: I don't understand your comment "every one is talking in defense just to be doing it;For the mere hell of it".
Dude, I sense you like to help others, now allow them to return the favor. I have said the same about myself more times than I care to remember lol. One thing I have learned is that all things come to pass...this will also.
sweety I think he is talking to me because I have taken exception to some of his comments, and I am trying to explain the difference between disagreement and dislike. I really think part of the problem is that he just doesn't understand what I mean - he & I just aren't on the same wavelength, but that's not meant to be hateful
felixis99: you are perceptive. We gotta find him a gal!!!!
I cant speak for every one on here;but in realavence to you guy's finding me a gal on cs.Not hardly a chance in Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!There may be one out there;but if so then she is more exceptional than who i have met so far!
you know what else - I have done dumm stuff too, I bet everyone on here has at one time or another. I am the QEEN of putting my foot in my mouth. I also sometimes tease people too much when they are trying to be serious (Icdo cos I'm nervous...). I mean I have lots of faults
felixis99: sweety I think he is talking to me because I have taken exception to some of his comments, and I am trying to explain the difference between disagreement and dislike. I really think part of the problem is that he just doesn't understand what I mean - he & I just aren't on the same wavelength, but that's not meant to be hateful
Ah ok. I just couldn't connect the dots to the post lol. I suspect a lot of you have known each other on here for quite sometime. Myself, I have just started to check these forums out. I do see your point and agree with you. Almost like seeing something bad that someone is doing and if you mention about the bad things someone is doing, it's like you are attacking them...like people can't separate the deed from the doer.
conjor: I cant speak for every one on here;but in realavence to you guy's finding me a gal on cs.Not hardly a chance in Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!There may be one out there;but if so then she is more exceptional than who i have met so far!
Conjor..I know your hurt but I believe one bad seed doesn't make the rest of us on here unexceptional the woman who gets to love you will be very lucky..you are a gentle soul.
I3estman4u: Hey conjor, you seem like a good person and a decent guy. We all do or say and even believe things and then find out later we couldn't have been more wrong. Unfortunately, it sometimes comes with a price tag and the price is being hurt or seemingly foolish.
You know that you were wrong now so no more dmg can be done, my friend. Just don't cont. the beating up of yourself.
Hope things work out for ya.
Well put my friend must always remember, when life stalls, 2 things, re charge, or move on to gather another battery. But Its you physically that has to turn the ignition on, in order for you to keep moving, and guess what, you have any direction you want to go... All will be well..
I3estman4u: Ah ok. I just couldn't connect the dots to the post lol. I suspect a lot of you have known each other on here for quite sometime. Myself, I have just started to check these forums out. I do see your point and agree with you. Almost like seeing something bad that someone is doing and if you mention about the bad things someone is doing, it's like you are attacking them...like people can't separate the deed from the doer.
nanners2863: Conjor..I know your hurt but I believe one bad seed doesn't make the rest of us on here unexceptional the woman who gets to love you will be very lucky..you are a gentle soul.
I am sorry nanners ;I did not mean that there was no good ones....I just meant that so far I an surely not all that impressed with the inner part of people,and they allways misunderstand what i write!!!!!!
I3estman4u: Ah ok. I just couldn't connect the dots to the post lol. I suspect a lot of you have known each other on here for quite sometime. Myself, I have just started to check these forums out. I do see your point and agree with you. Almost like seeing something bad that someone is doing and if you mention about the bad things someone is doing, it's like you are attacking them...like people can't separate the deed from the doer.
Exactly. I think you get exactly what I mean. I could love someone completely, but if I thought he was being rude to the waitress - I'd say something (the waitress thing was just hypothetical) It's not that I love him any less, but I might not agree with his actions or words.
sophiasummer: Well put my friend must always remember, when life stalls, 2 things, re charge, or move on to gather another battery. But Its you physically that has to turn the ignition on, in order for you to keep moving, and guess what, you have any direction you want to go... All will be well..
That is true. And I think that's the hard part...physically getting things back on track. Well, for me it was.
felixis99: Exactly. I think you get exactly what I mean. I could love someone completely, but if I thought he was being rude to the waitress - I'd say something (the waitress thing was just hypothetical) It's not that I love him any less, but I might not agree with his actions or words.
Yes some of us have been here awhile. Welcome.
Thanks for the welcome. And I do agree with you once more.
conjor...dude, so many times I have been taken the wrong way...even earlier tonight on here. I have stopped being as vocal as I once was because I grew tired of it. You're right, not all see eye to eye, but we can all still see the person. Isn't the person more important than the eye?
I'm taking off for the night prolly but I will catch yas tomorrow.
conjor: I am a complete FOOL! PERIOD I am a damm FOOL. Never again!
Oh please....put on your big boy britches and get over it....
besides you still owe me some answers.....you never sent anything back....they were important questions...you can't give good advice and then stop all of a sudden....
conjor: You are a good person polarbutterfly!Dont ever change that about yourself.And yes it is ok to admit it.It is how we learn,and grow....I just thought my learning was finished'sill me.
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give us a hug silly billy I know its virtual but it still has the same sentiment behind it... its from a realy person....ME