sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Christmas1: Morning Ladies and Gents
I agree ignoring someone is rude.. On here though someone can get ignored too easily...because conversation can be so fast..and with many people posting at the same time..well you get left behind..if I have ignored anyone I am sorry.
I agree ignoring someone is rude.. On here though someone can get ignored too easily...because conversation can be so fast..and with many people posting at the same time..well you get left behind..if I have ignored anyone I am sorry.
Morning I know it is hard to keep up sometimes. I try to check every now and then and I find someone I have skipped It just happens. But somedays I feel totally invisiable Oh well that is life
With me probably not.I tend to be really shy.It takes me a bit to get over the shy factor but hey once I get to know someone its like I have known them for years. Rejection sucks but hey its part of life.
sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia3,060 posts
Happygolucky4u: Morning I know it is hard to keep up sometimes. I try to check every now and then and I find someone I have skipped It just happens. But somedays I feel totally invisiable Oh well that is life
Happy Happy Happy I see you darlin.... you ain invisible to me
I don't exist in real life. I am only your imagination and really a computer generated response program. I can be anything you desire online! Off line I am like a vampire and only go out in the darkness.
Personally I'm no different in day to day life then I am online, I find it much easier this way, I don't approach in real life, nor do I approach online, however I'm happy to respond to those who send me emails or approach me in day to day life. Being kind and friendly cost nothing, some people are just more warm and inviting them others. being friendly is just that, certain people are attracted to people who are simular in nature to them. I respond to all emails, unless it's obviously a scammer, but I'm not rude nor do I ignore someone, merely because I wouldn't date them, nor do I assume because they contacted me, that they want to date me. I have many friends I wouldn't date,and or they wouldn't date me, but they/we make very good friends.
In answering your questions...yes and yes, I treat and talk to people the same way as I do online.
DynamiteLuv: The person that you send that first message to on CS, if you saw them first in the real world instead of the virtual world...
Would you still be as comfortable going up to them and showing interest like you were online?
And if you were rejected, will your reaction be the same as online?
Great question Dynamite! I have often wondered if I would even recognize someone from here (CS) IRL if I saw them???!!! - not knowing ahead of time - you know, not as a planned meeting
And, no, I think part of ITT dating is that we have the opportunity to make that approach - knowing that the other person is alos here for dating, where IRL we would have no idea if the other person was open or interested in dating.
markizamkd25: Really depends in what kind of mood im...I can flirt or i will totally ignore him...second one is more possible...
do you sometiems find yourself ignoring the one you are interested in the most? Sometimes I think I do that because I am afraid he'll see right through me & be able to read my feelings - not sure I want to be that vulnerable
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