Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life? ( Archived) (57)

Mar 28, 2010 7:20 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
Morning Pat....have a lovely day.
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Mar 28, 2010 7:25 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
grin Im the same in real life as i am on here.cheers
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Mar 28, 2010 7:27 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Christmas1: Morning Ladies and Gents

I agree ignoring someone is rude..
On here though someone can get ignored too easily...because conversation can be so fast..and with many people posting at the same time..well you get left behind..if I have ignored anyone I am sorry.


kiss we all do it sometimes.......teddybear
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Mar 28, 2010 7:32 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
sweetlyscented1: we all do it sometimes.......
Hav'nt done it for ages.........Lost my gorrila suitblues blues grin cheers
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Mar 28, 2010 7:36 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Christmas1: Morning Ladies and Gents

I agree ignoring someone is rude..
On here though someone can get ignored too easily...because conversation can be so fast..and with many people posting at the same time..well you get left behind..if I have ignored anyone I am sorry.


Morningwave I know it is hard to keep up sometimes. I try to check every now and then and I find someone I have skippeduh oh It just happens. But somedays I feel totally invisiabledunno Oh well that is lifebouquet
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Mar 28, 2010 7:36 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Roxy76
Roxy76Roxy76Plainfield, Illinois USA3 Posts
With me probably not.I tend to be really shy.It takes me a bit to get over the shy factor but hey once I get to know someone its like I have known them for years.
Rejection sucks but hey its part of life.grin
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Mar 28, 2010 7:53 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
patmac: Hav'nt done it for ages.........Lost my gorrila suit


Hi Pat you darling one liner man.....you steve RDM are a few that crack me with your witty one liners...

thumbs up keep it up this place would not be the same without you guys....laugh
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Mar 28, 2010 7:54 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Morning I know it is hard to keep up sometimes. I try to check every now and then and I find someone I have skipped It just happens. But somedays I feel totally invisiable Oh well that is life



Happy Happy Happy I see you darlin.... you ain invisible to me bouquet
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Mar 28, 2010 7:57 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
DynamiteLuv: The person that you send that first message to on CS, if you saw them first in the real world instead of the virtual world...

Would you still be as comfortable going up to them and showing interest like you were online?

And if you were rejected, will your reaction be the same as online?


yes i dont have a problem with that at all.

and if i was rejected i accept the other persons wishes. It does work both ways.


cheering yay
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Mar 28, 2010 7:58 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I don't exist in real life. I am only your imagination and really a computer generated response program. I can be anything you desire online! Off line I am like a vampire and only go out in the darkness.
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Mar 28, 2010 8:00 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Really depends in what kind of mood im...I can flirt or i will totally ignore him...second one is more possible...hole
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Mar 28, 2010 8:05 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Happy Happy Happy I see you darlin.... you ain invisible to me


Ahhh thankyou you so sweetbouquet
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Mar 28, 2010 8:55 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Pocoloco44
Pocoloco44Pocoloco44Saint Paul, Minnesota USA7 Threads 236 Posts
Personally I'm no different in day to day life then I am online, I find it much easier this way, I don't approach in real life, nor do I approach online, however I'm happy to respond to those who send me emails or approach me in day to day life. Being kind and friendly cost nothing, some people are just more warm and inviting them others. being friendly is just that, certain people are attracted to people who are simular in nature to them. I respond to all emails, unless it's obviously a scammer, but I'm not rude nor do I ignore someone, merely because I wouldn't date them, nor do I assume because they contacted me, that they want to date me. I have many friends I wouldn't date,and or they wouldn't date me, but they/we make very good friends.

In answering your questions...yes and yes, I treat and talk to people the same way as I do online.
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Mar 28, 2010 9:14 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think flirting is the spice of life online or in the real world ...its just so fun!
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Mar 28, 2010 9:17 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
DynamiteLuv: The person that you send that first message to on CS, if you saw them first in the real world instead of the virtual world...

Would you still be as comfortable going up to them and showing interest like you were online?

And if you were rejected, will your reaction be the same as online?


Great question Dynamite! I have often wondered if I would even recognize someone from here (CS) IRL if I saw them???!!! - not knowing ahead of time - you know, not as a planned meetingdunno

And, no, I think part of ITT dating is that we have the opportunity to make that approach - knowing that the other person is alos here for dating, where IRL we would have no idea if the other person was open or interested in dating.heart beating
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Mar 28, 2010 9:19 AM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
markizamkd25: Really depends in what kind of mood im...I can flirt or i will totally ignore him...second one is more possible...


do you sometiems find yourself ignoring the one you are interested in the most? Sometimes I think I do that because I am afraid he'll see right through me & be able to read my feelings - not sure I want to be that vulnerableshock
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Mar 28, 2010 8:25 PM CST Would you be as comfortable to flirt with her/him in real life?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
RayfromUSA: To be honest, I'm more comfortable in real life than online.

Eye contact is such a big part of the process.

Without it, we're pretty much flying blind until we've had a good deal of conversation and get to know each other's personality.



So true it is hard to have eye contact with a picturelaugh Also body language can say alot. conversing
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