What makes a man fall in love? ( Archived) (106)

Apr 8, 2010 8:11 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket: No I dont enlighten me.


well it's an out dated notion of my mother's really but she passed on to me that the English are stuffy, and the French arrogant.

So far I've found neither case to be true.....people everywhere are pretty similar. But if I had to answer to my mom's descriptions, I'd say that the British are incredibly friendly, and the French charming and genuine - has been my experience.

To me, IMO - Europeans are wonderful as they live life on a smaller scale than most Americans. My European friends are fine with an afternoon of tea, toast & conversations while in America one must always be "doing something."

teddybear wave blushing
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Apr 8, 2010 8:12 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
felixis99: uh oh I'm in trouble then - I'm like that all the time anyway.....
giggle That's nice...
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Apr 8, 2010 8:13 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sxynite69
sxynite69sxynite69Greensboro, North Carolina USA4 Threads 259 Posts
In response to: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?


Just feed him. That's all it takes. (at first) Home cooked meals are the way to his heart.......(and stomach) At least that's what mine says
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Apr 8, 2010 8:14 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
felixis99: yes, I believe it is not so different for a woman,

And it is hard to describe exactly why you fall for one woman and not another. I've seen men fall for a woman who the less attractive of the two he's interested in. I've also been cast aside for local hoodies So I think there is something to be said for having a bit of background or history together - I think the men I was seeing at those times..............well one was worried that I wouldn't stay put (here in the area), the other got a local girl pregnant.

Neither had much of a backbone - so I'm probably better off the loser^there

What I want to know is when is my turn going to be!!!!!????

I hope your "turn" comes around very soon sad flower
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Apr 8, 2010 8:16 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
MovinFWD
MovinFWDMovinFWDDaytona Beach, Florida USA36 Threads 3,234 Posts
In response to: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?
It's that tight feeling I get in my pants that let's me know I'm falling in lovebanana head banger
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Apr 8, 2010 8:18 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.
oh wow !! so fantastic..blushing thumbs up lips and so true grin
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Apr 8, 2010 8:18 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
felixis99: well it's an out dated notion of my mother's really but she passed on to me that the English are stuffy, and the French arrogant.

So far I've found neither case to be true.....people everywhere are pretty similar. But if I had to answer to my mom's descriptions, I'd say that the British are incredibly friendly, and the French charming and genuine - has been my experience.

To me, IMO - Europeans are wonderful as they live life on a smaller scale than most Americans. My European friends are fine with an afternoon of tea, toast & conversations while in America one must always be "doing something."


Well im not sure that answered the question but what the hell I got the jist.

We Brits often think of Americans as loud and brash but that not true of all, maybe some Texans.

Unfortunately there a history of this person pretending to be cleverer than everybody else and I bit on the day.

lips
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Apr 8, 2010 8:20 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
It is said that the way to a mans heart is through his stomuch.......that means that the starting point is below the stomuch. blushing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 8, 2010 8:22 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket: Well im not sure that answered the question but what the hell I got the jist.

We Brits often think of Americans as loud and brash but that not true of all, maybe some Texans.

Unfortunately there a history of this person pretending to be cleverer than everybody else and I bit on the day.


whatever - let it go

I get alng pretty well by remembering that as soon as we generalze , we find exceptions, and as soon as we accuse , we often do the same thing- for example- Americans, Loud & Brash? Yes, that is the "ugly American" reputation we got as post WW2 tourists - but then I think of a bunch of Europeans at a Rugby match - don't come much more brash than thatcheers
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Apr 8, 2010 8:27 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
felixis99: whatever - let it go

I get alng pretty well by remembering that as soon as we generalze , we find exceptions, and as soon as we accuse , we often do the same thing- for example- Americans, Loud & Brash? Yes, that is the "ugly American" reputation we got as post WW2 tourists - but then I think of a bunch of Europeans at a Rugby match - don't come much more brash than that


"touché"

Though not rugby, its football that a little loud shall we say.

ps i wasnt having a pop at you.

sad flower
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Apr 8, 2010 8:32 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
asianlady
asianladyasianladypagadian, Zamboanga Peninsula Philippines5 Threads 53 Posts
Costapacket: The main things I would look for, she must be a good conversationalist, educated and faithful (if there is such an animal)

Im asking too much I think.


angel ouyyyy ask me please so u know me too lol ... yea and its nice to communicate someone with good character, habit and good attitudes with respect and genuine.handshake kiss
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Apr 8, 2010 9:45 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.


Awwwwww lips lips lips
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Apr 8, 2010 9:53 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
sassysuzy: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?


You...bouquet
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Apr 9, 2010 1:18 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.

lovely
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Apr 9, 2010 1:22 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sunny_1986
sunny_1986sunny_1986chonburi, Central Thailand Thailand7 Posts
You Heart!
It's Importance
more any thingsmitten
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Apr 9, 2010 1:31 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
lee001
lee001lee001manahawkin, New Jersey USA10 Threads 682 Posts
MovinFWD: It's that tight feeling I get in my pants that let's me know I'm falling in love



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wallet?grin
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Apr 9, 2010 1:38 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Costapacket: The main things I would look for, she must be a good conversationalist, educated and faithful (if there is such an animal)

Im asking too much I think.


Is that before or after you take her looks into consideration?confused teddybear
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Apr 9, 2010 1:51 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
GingerBe: Is that before or after you take her looks into consideration?


I said the main things, of course we all look 1st.
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Apr 9, 2010 2:01 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Costapacket: I said the main things, of course we all look 1st.


Just clarifying.thumbs up teddybear
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Apr 9, 2010 2:13 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
You just cant contain love, how it falls and how it presents its self, attraction, nice trigger, and of dating other people?, no no.
i want to be be the one ....if, not, be my friend...
tongue cool angel
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