What makes a man fall in love? ( Archived) (106)

Apr 6, 2010 11:36 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
it goes for Man and Women......i think
we fall for someone because:
he smells good
he smiles wonderfull
he gives you Butterfly in your belly without realising it
he has sparkling Eyes

and even so I m not Miss universe, i say when it does make *klick* it never has anything to do with how we look, more than how we acted that very moment we meet that person
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Apr 6, 2010 11:40 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
jimmyl: nee probs riz, just cant be arsed!
as for taking two!
how bout prince charles?
how bout pete andre?
how bout oj simpsons wife?
how bout any of henry the 8th wives?

aye, it always takes two long as your not the loser!

Well I can't really comment as I don't know both sides of these couples, but we were talking about wives being faithful,not murders, my point was that someone is unfaithful because something is not right within their own marriage. In both my marriages my wives cheated on me, now, after giving much thought, I can see that we had a problem, sadly, I didn't or couldn't see it at the time, or else maybe I would still be married to my first wifedunno But, I have at least learnt to try in the future to spot when things are going wrong and hopefully bring back on trackcheers
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Apr 8, 2010 6:24 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sassysuzy
sassysuzysassysuzyLarnaca, Cyprus5 Threads 41 Posts
Thanks for your interesting answer Jeraxle, some good points, but what I really want to know is there a 'trigger' something she does or says that makes you men think, OMG I'm in LOVE with this woman, rather than lust, like, etc.
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Apr 8, 2010 6:25 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Pixels1
Pixels1Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 755 Posts
sassysuzy: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?


a smile apparently laugh
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Apr 8, 2010 6:49 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sassysuzy
sassysuzysassysuzyLarnaca, Cyprus5 Threads 41 Posts
Pixels1: a smile apparently


I think you're right actually
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Apr 8, 2010 7:32 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I truly believe the first thing that draws a man towards any given woman is physical attraction. Many other factors such as personality, sense of humor and intelligence are much more important in the long run than looks in determining whether or not a relationship grows between 'her' and I. But that initial phase, the first step that I takes towards falling in love, is based on a feeling of lustful attraction towards the woman. To me it is the initial chemistry and whether I feel the 'spark' when I see her.

So I fall in lust first; fall in like second; and, finally I fall in love some time later.
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Apr 8, 2010 7:38 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
nevica: lagoona is secretly back?
whomever he is, I believe him the only male to be telling the truth so far. But I 'm not paying for the beer....my "assests" warrant HIM payinglaugh roll eyes
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Apr 8, 2010 7:41 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
sassysuzy: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?

It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.
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Apr 8, 2010 7:42 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
jimmyl: or they know her!
or not - perhaps take her for granted.....no one around here really knows me at all but because I am not from around here I find it difficult to meet people, but I am naturally very shy. And, I am also a little guilty of not giving the guys from around here half a chance.......that is something I need to work on.
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Apr 8, 2010 7:46 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket: well he was having a dig at me


well heck, I'll jump in- you both know what we say about the King's men in the colonies don't you?cool

























devil
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Apr 8, 2010 7:48 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.
wave

should have known you'd have the best answerhug
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Apr 8, 2010 7:50 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
jimmyl: sorry riz but now your playing to the crowd!
costa may not be everyones cup of tea, but trying to be mr itellectual isnt helping your cause! the guy may have been hurt and who are you to tell him which way to handle it?
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Apr 8, 2010 7:51 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
felixis99: should have known you'd have the best answer

Thankyou Felix wave

It's hard to describe the feeling in so few words, but I just know when I am in love when I get that feeling. blushing
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Apr 8, 2010 7:51 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.
professor And don't forget that everyone looks at you funny because you have this silly looking ear to ear grin on your face all the time ! And sometimes just busting out laughing when now one is around... grin

uh oh help
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Apr 8, 2010 7:54 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
felixis99: well heck, I'll jump in- you both know what we say about the King's men in the colonies don't you?


No I dont enlighten me.
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Apr 8, 2010 7:57 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
sassysuzy: When I speak to my males friends about women, sometimes they say 'oh I was in love with her...', so what made this woman different? Why her and not the others? What is the 'trigger' that makes a man fall in 'love' with a certain woman and be able to just casually date others?


Not in love, I would say.angel
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Apr 8, 2010 7:59 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
jeepers: And don't forget that everyone looks at you funny because you have this silly looking ear to ear grin on your face all the time ! And sometimes just busting out laughing when now one is around...

That's so true grin
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Apr 8, 2010 8:02 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Englishman55: It's that warm glow of a feeling you get when you are in her company.
It's wanting to be with her all the time.
Wanting be be close, to pull her into your chest and hold her tight, never to let go.

When you are not in her company you just can't stop thinking of her....... You see her smile, hear her voice, smell her perfume and feel her touch and that warm glow comes back again.


smitten heart beating I think I may faint.....
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Apr 8, 2010 8:03 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
Englishman55: Thankyou Felix

It's hard to describe the feeling in so few words, but I just know when I am in love when I get that feeling.
yes, I believe it is not so different for a woman,

And it is hard to describe exactly why you fall for one woman and not another. I've seen men fall for a woman who the less attractive of the two he's interested in. I've also been cast asidecrying for local hoodiesmoping So I think there is something to be said for having a bit of background or history together - I think the men I was seeing at those times..............well one was worried that I wouldn't stay put (here in the area), the other got a local girl pregnant.

Neither had much of a backbone - so I'm probably better off the loser^there

What I want to know is when is my turn going to be!!!!!????applause applause
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Apr 8, 2010 8:05 AM CST What makes a man fall in love?
jeepers: And don't forget that everyone looks at you funny because you have this silly looking ear to ear grin on your face all the time ! And sometimes just busting out laughing when now one is around...


uh oh I'm in trouble then - I'm like that all the time anyway.....laugh
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