Should you watch how you act in the forums! ( Archived) (162)

Apr 20, 2010 11:13 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
cgedvr: Know me??? You don't know me...the biggest A..hole on CS...always the smart/dumba** remarks....Act...its just fun...if ya don't like it, go hang out on the women over 40 thread
Act....you wanna talk about an act...its the puko loco show
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Apr 20, 2010 11:14 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Ambrose2007: Agreed, L.

But how one acts is of course a reflection on oneself - doubtless the most important "reflection," no?

I mean that the ultimate person we want to be loyal to is ourselves. But I admit that my conduct on CS, even in the beginning, was aimed at attracting a certain kind of person, so in a sense I was already in that "loyalty mode."


I think it's very easy to come across in many ways online, J. But you can sometimes notice differences or adjustments when one starts to 'get closer' to someone on here, don't you think? Yes, you're correct... "This above all others ~ to thine own self be true." But there are times we feel a bit safer or more at ease to act differently/sillier because we are behind this shield called a computer, don't you think?
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Apr 20, 2010 11:21 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
12fox
12fox12foxWindsor, Ontario Canada24 Posts
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Apr 20, 2010 11:44 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
sweetowen: I think it's very easy to come across in many ways online, J. But you can sometimes notice differences or adjustments when one starts to 'get closer' to someone on here, don't you think? Yes, you're correct... "This above all others ~ to thine own self be true." But there are times we feel a bit safer or more at ease to act differently/sillier because we are behind this shield called a computer, don't you think?


I don't know. I don't think I've ever misbehaved or acted silly online. snooty

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Apr 20, 2010 11:48 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Ambrose2007: I don't know. I don't think I've ever misbehaved or acted silly online.


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Let's ask GG wink
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Apr 20, 2010 11:51 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
demonfairy: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.


Yes, and that's why we all should always be on our best behavior ! innocent
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Apr 20, 2010 11:54 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
jvaski: Yes, and that's why we all should always be on our best behavior !

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Apr 20, 2010 11:57 AM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
dannie2010
dannie2010dannie2010vizag, Andhra Pradesh India3 Threads 43 Posts
Remember Newton!
Every action has a reaction
and every word.....
when you open your mouth
people will know who you are.
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Apr 20, 2010 12:02 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
dannie2010
dannie2010dannie2010vizag, Andhra Pradesh India3 Threads 43 Posts
...and know what a boomerang is!!!
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Apr 20, 2010 12:04 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
This forum was not about anyone person,it was made so people would think about what could happen in the future when they met someone they cared about!wine teddybear
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Apr 20, 2010 8:44 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
sweetowen: I agree. But isn't that the same as in RL, J? If you're unattached, how you act is only your business. But if you're connected to someone else, how you come across is, in a way, also a reflection of them, no?

you didnt ask me but i disagree

we are individuals and our behavior, if there is discomfort among partners, will be hopefully discussed between partners-

as i mentioned- its other people here and their judgements and their forum comments on what is not their business (my behavior/flirting on forums) that is indeed a reflection on them but absolutely not (in my world of what i care about)
is mickeys behavior a reflection on me, or mine on him

what are we? in high school?doh


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Apr 20, 2010 8:57 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
I'll let others watch how I act in the forums, if it causes a problem, then that would be someone elses problem, not mine. handshake
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Apr 20, 2010 9:00 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
AngelinBali
AngelinBaliAngelinBaliBali, Indonesia270 Posts
My personal facit of this Blog..

Some are true themselves and
some fake it until they make it professor
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Apr 20, 2010 9:14 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
demonfairy: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.
lets say you go to a party...you're having a good time...laughing and "cutting up", as you say...and during that time of joking you do a little harmless flirting....you meet someone at the party, and later, they become irate over the flirting....who's the one with the bigger problem ???professor


{i guess it would be me, 'cause i just hooked up with a nut case...uh oh rolling on the floor laughing }
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Apr 20, 2010 9:24 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
jlw45: yes dear...
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Apr 20, 2010 9:29 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
jlw45: yes dear...
i see you came here to agry morelaugh
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Apr 20, 2010 9:49 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Abram: I'll let others watch how I act in the forums, if it causes a problem, then that would be someone elses problem, not mine.
um yeah
thats what i meant all alonggrin
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Apr 20, 2010 9:52 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
No,I don't think it'll be a problem.
Being someone who loves to flirt sometimes grin
I wouldn't want it any other way.
In response to: Do you thinking flirting and cutting up in the forums will cause problems later if you fine someone you like on here.
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Apr 20, 2010 9:54 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
Polarbutterfly: No,I don't think it'll be a problem.
Being someone who loves to flirt sometimes
I wouldn't want it any other way.
agreed.wave
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Apr 20, 2010 10:27 PM CST Should you watch how you act in the forums!
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
I don't know about any of you, but I for one, am not about to tell a potential employer that I am on CS as HealthyLiving for them to go and check me out!!!

I am smarter than that! I do not use my real name anywhere on the net and I ain't telling anyone anything that will incrimidate me!!
doh
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