FEELINGS OF LONELINESS ( Archived) (53)

Apr 25, 2010 12:42 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
wave Hi Friends,

How do you deal and how do you feel with these feelings?

When does loneliness get to you the most and when is the worst time for you?.

I know not everyone feels these feelings.

But would be interested to hear comments etc.

sad flower
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Apr 25, 2010 12:45 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
katt1017
katt1017katt1017Southern, New Hampshire USA67 Threads 10 Polls 1,384 Posts
Insomnia nights can be bad.

I'll hang out here or watch an old movie with my cat curled up in my lap.
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Apr 25, 2010 12:47 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
katt1017: Insomnia nights can be bad.

I'll hang out here or watch an old movie with my cat curled up in my lap.


Hi Kattwave

Yes not being able to sleep can have you laying awake in the middle of the night, feelingblues really alone....

teddybear
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Apr 25, 2010 12:53 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1: Hi Friends,

How do you deal and how do you feel with these feelings?

When does loneliness get to you the most and when is the worst time for you?.

I know not everyone feels these feelings.

But would be interested to hear comments etc.


I have always been kind of a loner anyway ~ and not unhappy that way

but sometimes it does get to me ~ not often~ but now & then I overhear people planning to do something I would enjoy, but have no one to do it with


and I justsigh and c'mon home................dunno
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Apr 25, 2010 12:56 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
swedenbound
swedenboundswedenboundCleveland, Ohio USA42 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Hi Friends,

How do you deal and how do you feel with these feelings?

When does loneliness get to you the most and when is the worst time for you?.

I know not everyone feels these feelings.

But would be interested to hear comments etc.


Loneliness is a state of mind that I know will pass with positive thoughts. I know that I am the one responsible for my thoughts. I refuse to play a victim!!!!



To deal with I hit the gym, Go on line, yard work, I am self employed so there is always something to do to.

Get out and become active.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:00 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
I add things to my life, knowledge, humor, music....etc.


There's no real substitute for ya'll,


but some things help for a bit.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:00 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
swedenbound: Loneliness is a state of mind that I know will pass with positive thoughts. I know that I am the one responsible for my thoughts. I refuse to play a victim!!!!
To deal with I hit the gym, Go on line, yard work, I am self employed so there is always something to do to.

Get out and become active.


wave sweden,

Yes I agree, but sometimes some of these things are not possible at the moment your feeling this way.

But yes fighting these feelings with all your might, and we are the masters of our own minds.

Thankyou thumbs up
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Apr 25, 2010 1:01 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Ocee35: I add things to my life, knowledge, humor, music....etc.There's no real substitute for ya'll, but some things help for a bit.


Thankyou OCEE good advice sad flower
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Apr 25, 2010 1:02 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
felixis99: I have always been kind of a loner anyway ~ and not unhappy that way

but sometimes it does get to me ~ not often~ but now & then I overhear people planning to do something I would enjoy, but have no one to do it withand I just and c'mon home................


Hi Felixteddybear
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Apr 25, 2010 1:02 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Hi Friends,

How do you deal and how do you feel with these feelings?

When does loneliness get to you the most and when is the worst time for you?.

I know not everyone feels these feelings.

But would be interested to hear comments etc.



Don't know what to say -

just a hug hug


dunno teddybear
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Apr 25, 2010 1:07 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
sweetlyscented1: Hi Friends,

How do you deal and how do you feel with these feelings?

When does loneliness get to you the most and when is the worst time for you?.

I know not everyone feels these feelings.

But would be interested to hear comments etc.


I dont feel that too much but you just do things that you like to do.

It's a natural feeling but to me the worst loneliness would be to with someone that you know you dont want to be with.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:07 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Laura25: Don't know what to say -

just a hug


Hugs can convay thoughts when words cant be found bouquet
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Apr 25, 2010 1:08 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1: Hi Felix
wave hey sweetlywave
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Apr 25, 2010 1:09 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
mjames: I dont feel that too much but you just do things that you like to do.

It's a natural feeling but to me the worst loneliness would be to with someone that you know you dont want to be with.


Hi jameswave

yes loneliness within a relationship can be the worst there is....

kiss Thankyou
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Apr 25, 2010 1:10 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
mjames: I dont feel that too much but you just do things that you like to do.

It's a natural feeling but to me the worst loneliness would be to with someone that you know you dont want to be with.


u have no idea what a coincidence it is that u say that. So many times I have told my friends after my divorce that the worst part of the last few years of being married was feeling totally alone, yet married.....

I don't mean that vindictively as i am sure he probably felt the same way at times.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:13 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
hug hugs for Deb

I feel lonely most of the time. I guess I am use to it by now since I have been alone most of my life.

But it does overwhelm me at times and I really yearn for companionship....just someone who will love me and most of all someone who will allow me to love them.
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Apr 25, 2010 1:19 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
mbcasey: hugs for Deb

I feel lonely most of the time. I guess I am use to it by now since I have been alone most of my life.

But it does overwhelm me at times and I really yearn for companionship....just someone who will love me and most of all someone who will allow me to love them.


Hi Sweetie,

Yes I guess it takes getting used to.....

I find weekend the worst of all times

I feel you will find this darlin, but in time I guess, I know everyone says that and its easier said than done....

sigh all good things come to those who wait, isnt that what they say.

Hugs for YOU too

teddybear
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Apr 25, 2010 1:32 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
I read a good book, watch a move, clean house, walk the dogs, call family or friends. I just get out there and do things. When do I feel the loneliest? At weddings, coming home from visiting the family over the holidays, and sometimes when I'm in a crowd. My sister once wrote a poem that has always stuck in my head. "People are here people are there I am here does anyone care."
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Apr 25, 2010 1:35 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
summer_2009
summer_2009summer_2009Paradise Lost, Central Visayas Philippines7 Threads 1 Polls 230 Posts
i feel most lonely when i'm eating in a resto alone and then there's some sweet happy couples eating also or when i see a couple holding hands while walking..i'm kind of jealous but worst is the loneliness it gives to me..i feel like i'm the most unlucky person when it comes to love..but then i will think it is 'Better Single Than Sorry'..but its a lie!

anyway for 3 months now reading CS forums and blogs take away my loneliness esp. when i'm at home & got nothing to do..its a diversion! Various posts would made me think and made me laugh. grin

cheers

teddybear
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Apr 25, 2010 1:37 AM CST FEELINGS OF LONELINESS
Smitten
SmittenSmittensaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada1 Threads 61 Posts
i have heard over and over again, if one is able to be alone, enjoy being alone, love themselves enough to be alone, then they are ready not to be alone.....dunno man, now that i say that, sounds kinda dumb..wtf..lol.....but honestly, being alone sux but i think it provides us with an opportunity to do a personality check on ourselves that makes us stronger not weaker in future relations........but dont get me wrong, no one wants to be alone.......teddybear
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