I feel somewhat used!!.... (113)
Don't you remember what you've been though? Smile and take it like a man. You're a man. Men have no feelings.
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Zeloniy: Don't you remember what you've been though? Smile and take it like a man. You're a man. Men have no feelings.
Finally a voice of reason! What took you so long, Zeloniy? I started doubting...
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
wow!!! a man experiencing how women have felt about this issue for centuries 
(not to say it doesn't happen to men of course) 
this is what happens when we jump in to quick and perhaps discussing 
if you were on the same page before assuming could have saved your pride from getting hurt 
I'd put it down to experience if it were me
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Laura25: Finally a voice of reason! What took you so long, Zeloniy? I started doubting...
oh you know I had to run few countries in old Soviet block and solve world hunger. 
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sweetlyscented1: Well I guess its just a case of the BOY WHO CRIED WOLF in my books
Or if you are into anagrams and football ,"fowl" (or foul)
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Unfortunately it seems there are a lot of these people, and infact "using' types out there, both male and female - its just a shame as they end up hurting people who are on here for the right reasons.
I hope you get some goodluck and find what you are looking for
I hope you get some goodluck and find what you are looking for
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1)Did her profile or conversations suggest that she wanted to meet a man on the first night, sleep with him and then form a binding contract?
2) Did she make you do anything you didn't want to do?
If you answer no, then she was not using you. You consented and then made assumptions and expectations beyond what she wanted. Now that may hurt you but it is it not her fault
2) Did she make you do anything you didn't want to do?
If you answer no, then she was not using you. You consented and then made assumptions and expectations beyond what she wanted. Now that may hurt you but it is it not her fault
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travisblue: 1)Did her profile or conversations suggest that she wanted to meet a man on the first night, sleep with him and then form a binding contract?
2) Did she make you do anything you didn't want to do?
If you answer no, then she was not using you. You consented and then made assumptions and expectations beyond what she wanted. Now that may hurt you but it is it not her fault
2) Did she make you do anything you didn't want to do?
If you answer no, then she was not using you. You consented and then made assumptions and expectations beyond what she wanted. Now that may hurt you but it is it not her fault
I agree with you. He ASSUMED that she wanted the same things that he wanted, a long term relationship. Some here are saying she didn't make it clear at the beginning what she wanted, but why didn't he seek a confimation from her what she wanted and tell her what he wanted and decide to meet her or not. Now he says that he has been used when she is being honest and telling him that she only wants an intimate encounter and no long term relationship. How's that being used when you enjoyed every bit of the first meet??
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stefonline: She could be married and just want's a fling of passion from time to time....so keep your phone line open and be on call....
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SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
SusanBoyle: ...Just wondered if anybody else has experienced anything like this on this site...
I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
It could have been worse, at least she went back for seconds....I met a very beautiful young lady off this site a couple of weeks ago for a date. I obviously won't say who she is.... She wasn't from Liverpool, so she drove up and stayed in a city centre hotel. We had a great night, restaurant, few bars...you know the score... anyway she invited me back to the hotel, and I ended up staying the night...and well, y'know
The next day we stayed in the hotel room all day, and without being graphic, had a very passionate afternoon indeed.... we then went out again that evening...and she decided to stay an extra night....with again me staying for a night of passion.
Now, once she travelled back safely, she let me know that she wanted to see me again but isnt looking for a relationship...just to be blunt...wanting JUST a physical relationship...Now, thats fine if thats what she wants, everybody's entitled to live their lives how they want. I know I shouldn't be moaning too much, but I feel Ive been used just for one thing!! Im sure women have felt the same through the generations with certain men being "Bounders" or "Cads" just sleeping with women and never contacting them again.... Im just a little surprised that its happened to me...I actually really liked her...
Isn't life fascinating...one big adventure...
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sxc666: It could have been worse, at least she went back for seconds....
No it was her hotel room....he went back for seconds....she just wanted value for money....
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englishelegance: My father used to say "Men gain experience from a tart but never marry one!!!. Hope this enlightens you.
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