Hasseling people on this site (41)
kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 PostsThats right if she doesnt want the mail its very easy to block maybe your not getting 100% of the story here I mean really... delete your profile so you dont have to read an email???? doesnt exactly sound right to me ...jmo 
There's been threads on here posted by guys who ask why many women don't respond to their mails and flowers .. "at least a polite thanks, but no thanks would do."And this is probably why many women DON'T respond
If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
serene56: There's been threads on here posted by guys who ask why many women don't respond to their mails and flowers .. "at least a polite thanks, but no thanks would do."
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
Serene, you are just as great as ever!!
(Soooo Cooool :+)
kizzy27: Thats right if she doesnt want the mail its very easy to block maybe your not getting 100% of the story here I mean really... delete your profile so you dont have to read an email???? doesnt exactly sound right to me ...jmo
kizzzy,
i think beeing behind the bar, (@ kizzzy's bar)
has made you see behind the scenes..
(is that an elephant dancing?!?!?!? :+)
serene56: There's been threads on here posted by guys who ask why many women don't respond to their mails and flowers .. "at least a polite thanks, but no thanks would do."
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
well said serene ... too easy... common sense prevails... "RESPECT"...sheeeesh... some ppl just don't get it 
... your post oozes maturity and I couldn't have said it any better!! 
kizzy27: Thats right if she doesnt want the mail its very easy to block maybe your not getting 100% of the story here I mean really... delete your profile so you dont have to read an email???? doesnt exactly sound right to me ...jmo
Well I guess its always easy to be on the other side and judge, say could of or should of but the fact is theses people should understand no does mean no
I started this thread to get this kind of behavour brought out into the open, this is a serious problem and doesnt give the honest guys out there a fair chance, I dont think this sort of thing is to be made fun of......?
dragonprince: I started this thread to get this kind of behavour brought out into the open, this is a serious problem and doesnt give the honest guys out there a fair chance, I dont think this sort of thing is to be made fun of......?
Dragonprince , noway was I making fun ..I do agree ofcourse no means no but as said before if anyone, not just yr lady friend doesnt wish to recieve mail especially from abusive men who cant take no for an answer then all they need to do is push block , they cannot email or make any contact apart from on the threads , If harrassed their the moderators will sort it out .
Ask yr friend to revamp her profile and to block any unwelcomed advances if some men dont want friendshio then they deserve it
Kizzy
dragonprince: I started this thread to get this kind of behavour brought out into the open, this is a serious problem and doesnt give the honest guys out there a fair chance, I dont think this sort of thing is to be made fun of......?
Some guys just don't leave you alone...I haven't blocked anyone yet...all she had to do was block them
serene56: There's been threads on here posted by guys who ask why many women don't respond to their mails and flowers .. "at least a polite thanks, but no thanks would do."
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I'm one of the guys who asked this very same question and still believe that if someone takes the time to send you a message, but you're not interested in them, the very least you can do is to say no thanks. It's just simple common courtesy to reply to a message from a member that has not contacted you before and is genuinely interested in you. If you are not interested and don't want to recieve messages from that member again then reply BEFORE you block them. Manners ladies manners, or am i just being too old fasioned by being polite?
kizzy27: Dragonprince , noway was I making fun ..I do agree ofcourse no means no but as said before if anyone, not just yr lady friend doesnt wish to recieve mail especially from abusive men who cant take no for an answer then all they need to do is push block , they cannot email or make any contact apart from on the threads , If harrassed their the moderators will sort it out .
Ask yr friend to revamp her profile and to block any unwelcomed advances if some men dont want friendshio then they deserve it
Kizzy
Ask yr friend to revamp her profile and to block any unwelcomed advances if some men dont want friendshio then they deserve it
Kizzy
Thanks I will tell her to open her profile back up.
redozichick: Some guys just don't leave you alone...I haven't blocked anyone yet...all she had to do was block them
I dont think she knows about blocking, she was getting E Cards from a couple of guys say 'I Love You' now that coming from deserate and strange folk.
dragonprince: I dont think she knows about blocking, she was getting E Cards from a couple of guys say 'I Love You' now that coming from deserate and strange folk.
I think you'll find that happens to most of the women on here
I assume she has set up her account so that any mail from people that she doesn't want contact from, goes into her filter box
Has she set age, country etc parameters up? Because otherwise she would be flooded with mail from countries all over the world as most Western women are, if they allow it. It doesn't take long for the penny to drop on that front .. I imagine most of us aren't really looking for guys in Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia etc.
Sounds like she might just need to get things sorted, like we all had to early in the piece
so that she has a little more control over the situation.All the best
what a holes :<
Errr... sorry, Wabbet wont do it again.... 
Wabbet needs a new woman to send "I love you" emails to now....
Wabbet needs a new woman to send "I love you" emails to now....
serene56: I think you'll find that happens to most of the women on here
I assume she has set up her account so that any mail from people that she doesn't want contact from, goes into her filter box
Has she set age, country etc parameters up? Because otherwise she would be flooded with mail from countries all over the world as most Western women are, if they allow it. It doesn't take long for the penny to drop on that front .. I imagine most of us aren't really looking for guys in Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia etc.
Sounds like she might just need to get things sorted, like we all had to early in the piece so that she has a little more control over the situation.
All the best
I assume she has set up her account so that any mail from people that she doesn't want contact from, goes into her filter box
Has she set age, country etc parameters up? Because otherwise she would be flooded with mail from countries all over the world as most Western women are, if they allow it. It doesn't take long for the penny to drop on that front .. I imagine most of us aren't really looking for guys in Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia etc.
Sounds like she might just need to get things sorted, like we all had to early in the piece so that she has a little more control over the situation.
All the best
Thanks for your input and I will pass it on,
serene56: There's been threads on here posted by guys who ask why many women don't respond to their mails and flowers .. "at least a polite thanks, but no thanks would do."
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
And this is probably why many women DON'T respond If you do reply with a no thanks, some you'll never hear from again but then there are those who come back with negative remarks and you end up blocking them anyway.
I don't immediate block people who I don't feel I have anything in common with, that's not usually necessary - I just leave it go and mostly they get the message. If they persist though and start getting aggro or whatever ... Blocked.
I have blocked a few for different reasons
well for the kiwis don't go on NZ dating as that is all you get from guys & girls.
sometimes it is a communication thing. often guys have no idea what is going on.
recently on another site woman was keen to meet to look for a long term relationship, but when I fronted, first it was great, then it wasn't then it was very friendly & now after she said no more but keep in touch, she won't reply.
get the feeling she just didn't want me, but that is not reason she gave. It was her issues she had to sort. well I think her issue is leading guys on then getting her fun & moving onto the next one without really saying no more. she likes the attention & she is not the only women I know of who does this.
So I am going to ask her in next few days.
meanwhile I will just enjoy the forums here. it is why I came back. some pretty good banter.
sometimes it is a communication thing. often guys have no idea what is going on.
recently on another site woman was keen to meet to look for a long term relationship, but when I fronted, first it was great, then it wasn't then it was very friendly & now after she said no more but keep in touch, she won't reply.
get the feeling she just didn't want me, but that is not reason she gave. It was her issues she had to sort. well I think her issue is leading guys on then getting her fun & moving onto the next one without really saying no more. she likes the attention & she is not the only women I know of who does this.
So I am going to ask her in next few days.
meanwhile I will just enjoy the forums here. it is why I came back. some pretty good banter.
dragonprince: Thanks for your input and I will pass it on,
You pass it on to the lovely woman you were chating over months and had to leave the site because she couldn't handle love ecards.. Does that mean you've her privat email? What are you bothering then, you should be happy she's off this site and you've her all to yourself.My first feeling was that she had just found an easy way out and away from you.
My second feeling is that a woman who's unable to protect her space on a dating site with enough tool available could have serious problems to do so out in the real world.
Just MPO without intention to offend anybody.
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