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May 12, 2010 11:37 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
When one door closes, another one always opens..dancing

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..doh

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?help

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain cool ?

grin
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May 12, 2010 11:47 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
HJFinAZ: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?


Not afraid of anything me! thumbs up
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May 12, 2010 11:48 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
englishelegance: Not afraid of anything me!


cept spiders and wasps.uh oh


laugh
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May 12, 2010 11:51 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
linzy
linzylinzyIndonesia, Jakarta Indonesia126 Posts
i always tell this to myself, the opened door might not b open for long, so its either i move on or just see the door shut on me when i'm about to move on!
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May 12, 2010 11:52 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
bodleing: cept spiders and wasps.


Not afraid of em, don't like them in my place though!!!
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May 12, 2010 11:55 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
HJFinAZ: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?
Many of us that have been married /in long time relationships have in past been fearfull of what may be on other side of that door or wall in my case

A dear friend told me "Laugh and the world laughs with you " but remember Girletttt "Cry and u cry alone " so lower that brick wall and get OUT there and face the world with head held high and u will be amazed how good it feels.

Was great advice to ME and sooooooo glad i took it


Hi HJF wave wave
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May 12, 2010 11:56 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
lovingyou49
lovingyou49lovingyou49Napoleon, Ohio USA3 Threads 359 Posts
In response to: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?

Open it if you don't take chances you never know what it might have been.If a wrong choice just move on to next.
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May 12, 2010 11:56 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Yabadabadoo
YabadabadooYabadabadooOntario, Canada1 Threads 91 Posts
I had few opened doors in front of me that were absolutely new, unexpected and unknown.

I was scared as hell but I've jumped through them ....sometimes deliberately, other times without even realizing I did....

Looking back, that was the best choice I could have done!
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May 12, 2010 11:56 AM CST A proven fact (for me)..
To sit in front of a closed Door,when an open One beckons,is both Unwise and Foolish!


Mako in The Big Brawl.grin
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May 12, 2010 12:00 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Yabadabadoo
YabadabadooYabadabadooOntario, Canada1 Threads 91 Posts
But on the same token, there were plenty of doors I avoided entering dunno ...not even sure why....a mix of motives I guess , fear being the major one.
When it comes to relationships, it's harder for me to pick that open door ad walk through.
I did it and still do it in a heartbeat in my professional life but I kept avoiding it in my personal life.

I think it's a different level of cowardice confused ...it must be...dunno
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May 12, 2010 12:02 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
HJFinAZ: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?

Im glad that you look on life, this way....cheers


In my case... if the one door is closed ...its no use if other thousand opens....
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May 12, 2010 12:05 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Better to face the anxiety of change than to suffer the depression of stagnation.


dancing
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May 12, 2010 12:08 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Yabadabadoo
YabadabadooYabadabadooOntario, Canada1 Threads 91 Posts
bodleing: Better to face the anxiety of change than to suffer the depression of stagnation.


thumbs up Definitely!
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May 12, 2010 12:16 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
HJFinAZ: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?
confused Well, I am afraid to BUT I always rumble straight on through with my eyes closed then I wait.tongue wave
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May 12, 2010 12:23 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
I walked through the door that opened for me 15 years ago and although it took the loss of a loved one,it's brought me to understand that things have a way of working itself out.
I never thought that I'd be here today,looking back at me and my families loss.Now,when "doors open or me" I'm eager because behind that door I know life happens and now,I'm going to enjoy my life and if an obstacle occurs,I'll deal with it,like I've always done.wave
In response to: When one door closes, another one always opens..

In the past, (yes past) I often had to much fear to walk through the door that opened..

What about you? Are you willing to walk through the doors that open for you, or do you remain in fear of the past?

Did you even see the door that opened, or did you remain ?
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May 12, 2010 12:28 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
sometime in life, you have no choice but find another door. You wake up one mornin and find your life has been turned upside down, like in my case. I lost everything and am willing to look for that light at the end of the tunnel. If you feel you can't open a door then look for a window.yay
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May 12, 2010 12:30 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
englishelegance: Not afraid of anything me!


Ladies of elegance should have no fears..wink
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May 12, 2010 12:31 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Nuliiiiiii: Many of us that have been married /in long time relationships have in past been fearfull of what may be on other side of that door or wall in my case

A dear friend told me "Laugh and the world laughs with you " but remember Girletttt "Cry and u cry alone " so lower that brick wall and get OUT there and face the world with head held high and u will be amazed how good it feels.

Was great advice to ME and sooooooo glad i took it Hi HJF




wink wave
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May 12, 2010 12:33 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
lovingyou49: Open it if you don't take chances you never know what it might have been.If a wrong choice just move on to next.


Are there wrong choices, or opportunities to learn??confused
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May 12, 2010 12:35 PM CST A proven fact (for me)..
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
HJFinAZ: Are there wrong choices, or opportunities to learn??
Learn, learn, learn!!!!professor Hi, Pat.wave teddybear
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