For what reason............ (46)
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 PostsTulefel: Wondering what your selection criteria were...
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Englishman55: Large (.) (.)
At first I was about to express my hope that she at least had posh bosom that he also got some enjoyment of... but I found that comment too naughty...
Tulefel: At first I was about to express my hope that she at least had posh bosom that he also got some enjoyment of... but I found that comment too naughty...
Just as well I was there to save your blushes then, and say what you were thinking
Englishman55: Just as well I was there to save your blushes then, and say what you were thinking
Yeah... You kind of rescued a damsel in distress. Very knighty of you.
Congrats,what i think is a near perfect analysis,and the combination of order,shower,whisky,Spaghetti,then more whisky,i will follow in the future,hoping to be as analytical as you,when i'll have a problem to solve.
smoky: Good, I am so glad you are still watching this space......
Okay, I had my shower, and a whisky ... .and then ate my most delicious Spaghetti Bolognaise that only I know how to make ... and then the boyfriend pitched ... and drank a beer, and ate some bolognaise, washed down with a Vietnamese Coffee laced with whisky, and I had a couple more whiskys ..... and now I am back here ..... with the REASON for this weird behaviour.
Okay, the reason people get nasty when divorcing is: In the beginning they were not complete in themselves .. they were actually seeking for the "other half of themselves or what they were lacking"......(dress how I want you to dress, or cook how I want you to cook, or talk like I want you to talk, have no friends other than MY friends, etc etc)
Sooo.... you get a person seeking something to complete THEMSELF. And this usually means finding someone to dominate. They dominate this "other half" until nothing is left to dominate ... the "other half" has become the same as themselves (hoping to please their partner)...... and they hate what they have "created"(a reflection of themselves, not what originally attracted them). And then this other person wants OUT .... Which leaves them with their half-formed selves ...... and they then hate this other person ... So they take half of everything .....Breaking up everything ... and hoping to completely ruin what is pulling away from their control..... to make themselves feel "in control" and superior .. but actually behaving like they are clutching at something to save themselves.
I seen these Grabbers all my life .. in my own, and in others lives ... they never change. Bring on the Divorce, and they go into action ... a War is declared. One can only pity them, cause they have no Self.
Okay, I had my shower, and a whisky ... .and then ate my most delicious Spaghetti Bolognaise that only I know how to make ... and then the boyfriend pitched ... and drank a beer, and ate some bolognaise, washed down with a Vietnamese Coffee laced with whisky, and I had a couple more whiskys ..... and now I am back here ..... with the REASON for this weird behaviour.
Okay, the reason people get nasty when divorcing is: In the beginning they were not complete in themselves .. they were actually seeking for the "other half of themselves or what they were lacking"......(dress how I want you to dress, or cook how I want you to cook, or talk like I want you to talk, have no friends other than MY friends, etc etc)
Sooo.... you get a person seeking something to complete THEMSELF. And this usually means finding someone to dominate. They dominate this "other half" until nothing is left to dominate ... the "other half" has become the same as themselves (hoping to please their partner)...... and they hate what they have "created"(a reflection of themselves, not what originally attracted them). And then this other person wants OUT .... Which leaves them with their half-formed selves ...... and they then hate this other person ... So they take half of everything .....Breaking up everything ... and hoping to completely ruin what is pulling away from their control..... to make themselves feel "in control" and superior .. but actually behaving like they are clutching at something to save themselves.
I seen these Grabbers all my life .. in my own, and in others lives ... they never change. Bring on the Divorce, and they go into action ... a War is declared. One can only pity them, cause they have no Self.
Hello Smoky
I never thought that a shower, a whisky and Spaghetti Bolognese could have this kind of effect on people.
You really hit the nail on the head and are spot on with your analysis.
If I want to be half as good as you, I think that I must shower more often and substitute my vodka with whisky. However, I am not prepared to change my cooking. My cooking has won me quite a few kudos, so I will stick to it.
I never thought that a shower, a whisky and Spaghetti Bolognese could have this kind of effect on people.
You really hit the nail on the head and are spot on with your analysis.
If I want to be half as good as you, I think that I must shower more often and substitute my vodka with whisky. However, I am not prepared to change my cooking. My cooking has won me quite a few kudos, so I will stick to it.
Bental: Hello Smoky
I never thought that a shower, a whisky and Spaghetti Bolognese could have this kind of effect on people.
You really hit the nail on the head and are spot on with your analysis.
If I want to be half as good as you, I think that I must shower more often and substitute my vodka with whisky. However, I am not prepared to change my cooking. My cooking has won me quite a few kudos, so I will stick to it.
Well, Bental darl, you first got to get your priorities in order and then all falls into place.I never thought that a shower, a whisky and Spaghetti Bolognese could have this kind of effect on people.
You really hit the nail on the head and are spot on with your analysis.
If I want to be half as good as you, I think that I must shower more often and substitute my vodka with whisky. However, I am not prepared to change my cooking. My cooking has won me quite a few kudos, so I will stick to it.
So first you got be clean. Then you got to be relaxed, then you got to eat. Nein, never change your cooking. Is very important to cook what YOU like. Never confuse a future possible partner!
Once I made the mistake of trying to eat vegan ... and ended up eating turnips (with the tops) for breakfast! Okay, I had more energy, but ...........God was I eternally hungry for REAL food! Running 10k`s every morning just did not seem to satisfy me. So I divorced him.
So, now ..... where were we? for what reason what? Oh, why partners get nasty. Don`t know. Guess they just the wrong partners? And we seem to think marriages were made to last like Swans Mating? Nah! Humans mate for an average of 15 years, and then Kaput! The woman gets bored. The man gets bored.
So, in the end ....... eating is more important. Specially if you can cook Bolognaise like I do.......and eat only half vegan, and the other half healthy ..... a sort of 50/50 situation .... and the other 50% you make up with Schnapps, Whisky, Beer, or whatever blurs your imagination......or makes you more imaginative....
smoky: Well, Bental darl, you first got to get your priorities in order and then all falls into place.
So first you got be clean. Then you got to be relaxed, then you got to eat. Nein, never change your cooking. Is very important to cook what YOU like. Never confuse a future possible partner!
Once I made the mistake of trying to eat vegan ... and ended up eating turnips (with the tops) for breakfast! Okay, I had more energy, but ...........God was I eternally hungry for REAL food! Running 10k`s every morning just did not seem to satisfy me. So I divorced him.
So, now ..... where were we? for what reason what? Oh, why partners get nasty. Don`t know. Guess they just the wrong partners? And we seem to think marriages were made to last like Swans Mating? Nah! Humans mate for an average of 15 years, and then Kaput! The woman gets bored. The man gets bored.
So, in the end ....... eating is more important. Specially if you can cook Bolognaise like I do.......and eat only half vegan, and the other half healthy ..... a sort of 50/50 situation .... and the other 50% you make up with Schnapps, Whisky, Beer, or whatever blurs your imagination......or makes you more imaginative....
So first you got be clean. Then you got to be relaxed, then you got to eat. Nein, never change your cooking. Is very important to cook what YOU like. Never confuse a future possible partner!
Once I made the mistake of trying to eat vegan ... and ended up eating turnips (with the tops) for breakfast! Okay, I had more energy, but ...........God was I eternally hungry for REAL food! Running 10k`s every morning just did not seem to satisfy me. So I divorced him.
So, now ..... where were we? for what reason what? Oh, why partners get nasty. Don`t know. Guess they just the wrong partners? And we seem to think marriages were made to last like Swans Mating? Nah! Humans mate for an average of 15 years, and then Kaput! The woman gets bored. The man gets bored.
So, in the end ....... eating is more important. Specially if you can cook Bolognaise like I do.......and eat only half vegan, and the other half healthy ..... a sort of 50/50 situation .... and the other 50% you make up with Schnapps, Whisky, Beer, or whatever blurs your imagination......or makes you more imaginative....
Smoky, I'm so clean that I don't need to shower. I'm so relaxed that I get fidgety and I eat because I love my food and not because I got to.
And since I am not average and my wife was not either (she was special) we lasted till death did us part. We rarely got bored. When we did, we just got on our bike and went riding in the wind like lovers do. As for imagination, I'm not telling..... I'm too much of a gentleman.
Bental: Smoky, I'm so clean that I don't need to shower. I'm so relaxed that I get fidgety and I eat because I love my food and not because I got to.
And since I am not average and my wife was not either (she was special) we lasted till death did us part. We rarely got bored. When we did, we just got on our bike and went riding in the wind like lovers do. As for imagination, I'm not telling..... I'm too much of a gentleman.
And since I am not average and my wife was not either (she was special) we lasted till death did us part. We rarely got bored. When we did, we just got on our bike and went riding in the wind like lovers do. As for imagination, I'm not telling..... I'm too much of a gentleman.
Nice post.
Bental: Hello Jan,
Had to look up your profile.
Mamma mia those eyes! And all the rest too...mmmm... I like.
Hope to cross post with you soon.
Had to look up your profile.
Mamma mia those eyes! And all the rest too...mmmm... I like.
Hope to cross post with you soon.
Thank you.
But I´m an old regular here.josingleinspain: If a relationship does not work out, do either or both paties become so mean and nasty to the person that they once loved???????
Ummm...maybe cos it wasn't love?
Just something masquerading as...
All the best to you.
You must make amazing tea!
Tulefel: Don’t know. When I’ve come to conclusion that my Swedish marriage failed, I asked him for divorce. At that time we were living parallel lives. We had no children in common. I had no financial demands. And it took almost 2 years for him to get his physical body to an advocate. The procedure itself took 20 minutes. Yes, I felt bitter and irritated all the two years before as I couldn’t understand his reluctance, couldn’t leave his house, couldn’t continue with my life. And I felt bitter and irritated a good while after as he just didn’t leave me alone. He could appear on my threshold without any warning and stood there breathing heavily glaring at me without a world… (even the memory of it annoys me…) until I’d let him in and offer a cup of tea. Such a misery. Oh, I kept it civilized, and still do, as I had to leave my car at his place.
For what reason people do things like this? Actually I asked him more than once what exactly he was trying to accomplish by keeping me prisoner, and then watching me. Have never got any answer. But it was a relief to move to another town and finish all contact face to face.
The end is good, everything is good.
For what reason people do things like this? Actually I asked him more than once what exactly he was trying to accomplish by keeping me prisoner, and then watching me. Have never got any answer. But it was a relief to move to another town and finish all contact face to face.
The end is good, everything is good.
Aaahhhhhh ... At last! Some Romance here!
Jan .... and .... Bental .....
I`m going to be keeping a grand-motherly eye on you two
....... 
Jan .... and .... Bental .....
I`m going to be keeping a grand-motherly eye on you two
....... 
smoky: Aaahhhhhh ... At last! Some Romance here!
Jan .... and .... Bental .....
I`m going to be keeping a grand-motherly eye on you two.......
Matchmaker,Matchmaker,make a Match.........Jan .... and .... Bental .....
I`m going to be keeping a grand-motherly eye on you two.......
Bental: Nah!
I am spoken for, so there.
Okay, so that is news. I took a look at your profile (Granny checking out bona fides) and you don`t mention that fact!I am spoken for, so there.
I am also spoken for, and state so clearly in my profile, and the reason I still stay here on CS ... tis only honest to be open.
Unless of course you have other reasons to not make yourself clear, and flirt here with the girls..?
smoky: Okay, so that is news. I took a look at your profile (Granny checking out bona fides) and you don`t mention that fact!
I am also spoken for, and state so clearly in my profile, and the reason I still stay here on CS ... tis only honest to be open.
Unless of course you have other reasons to not make yourself clear, and flirt here with the girls..?
I am also spoken for, and state so clearly in my profile, and the reason I still stay here on CS ... tis only honest to be open.
Unless of course you have other reasons to not make yourself clear, and flirt here with the girls..?
You are partially right.
When I put up my profile, I was on me own good and proper. Now that I am spoken for, I must edit my profile as you suggest.
But please don't analyse me. I am honest and do not think that stating the obvious is flirting. If paying someone a compliment is flirting, then I am guilty as charged.
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