what does this kiss mean?? (81)
You know what? I think you should take this kiss to mean that she likes you - she's playing hard to get, and maybe she's egging you on to play for her. After all is she's on MSN for 3 hours, she isn't invisible and neither has she blocked you. In fact, she's probably waiting for you to make the next move.
So I say, bite the bullet and ask her out again, and make an effort. You don't have to go over the top by wearing your heart on your sleeve, but show the kiss meant something to you. And if I'm wrong, then you learned something, and at least you had the courage to try.
And if that doesn't work, I'm in Plymouth at the end of the month, and I'LL go out with you!!!!
xx
So I say, bite the bullet and ask her out again, and make an effort. You don't have to go over the top by wearing your heart on your sleeve, but show the kiss meant something to you. And if I'm wrong, then you learned something, and at least you had the courage to try.
And if that doesn't work, I'm in Plymouth at the end of the month, and I'LL go out with you!!!!
xx
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ok well, everyone says to ask her.. she's still online! so i think im just gonna simply ask 'did you make a mistake friday night?!' 
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God no - don't start it with a negative!!!!! Just assume she didn't and take it from there!!!!
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well if i assume she didnt make a mistake, i wouldnt be in this position!!
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Try something like...Im wondering whats going on, I had a great night Fri. and wondered if you would like to do it again??
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Tamarory: hey guys, well im just wondering what others might think on the situation, cause im sitting here kinda frustrated.. as usual!
ok, i met a girl from a dating site, not this one... (but you still rock!), but anyways, i picked her up in my car, we went to the seaside, had a bit of a walk and just sat down and chatted, it got cold so i suggested we go get a drink in the pub. so we spent the rest of the night there watchin a band and chatting more, she told me some very personal things about her chidhood experiences, showed me all her tattoo sketches.. she was in total an awesome chick!
so i drove her home, and we hugged goodbye but she made the first move for a kiss. all was great! i went home happy as larry and couldnt wait to speak to her again the next day..
and this is where i feel frustrated, sent her a text the following day and got a very brief text back. the next day i decided to not annoy her by bugging with a text. she never decided to send me one either.. the day after, today!! i sent a text, she briefly replied. and we have both been on msn the last 3 hours, but he hasnt sent anything... so whats up with that??
ok, i met a girl from a dating site, not this one... (but you still rock!), but anyways, i picked her up in my car, we went to the seaside, had a bit of a walk and just sat down and chatted, it got cold so i suggested we go get a drink in the pub. so we spent the rest of the night there watchin a band and chatting more, she told me some very personal things about her chidhood experiences, showed me all her tattoo sketches.. she was in total an awesome chick!
so i drove her home, and we hugged goodbye but she made the first move for a kiss. all was great! i went home happy as larry and couldnt wait to speak to her again the next day..
and this is where i feel frustrated, sent her a text the following day and got a very brief text back. the next day i decided to not annoy her by bugging with a text. she never decided to send me one either.. the day after, today!! i sent a text, she briefly replied. and we have both been on msn the last 3 hours, but he hasnt sent anything... so whats up with that??
There is a song , kiss today goodbye, the sweetness and the sorrow, wish me luck the same to you , ....but I won't regret what we did for love, love is never gone.....
Tamarory, sometimes we really don't know why people do the things they do. There are times when we miss golden opportunities because we couldn't decipher the other person's body languages, or messages. If you want to see her again, no harm in asking her if she would like to go out again. The worse scenario, she may so no. If she agrees to go out with you again, then you can observe how she react the next time. If she refuses, then chalk it up to experiences, and you will find another beautiful girl who adores you.
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Liebe2: Well, you need to decide what's best for yourself-play games so that you won't get hurt or talk openly and clear the air. Me personally I love men that wear their hearts on their sleeves
As a poster above said, ask her out again and see how it goes. Some women like to be courted and pursued and like to see the man putting effort into it. Who knows?
Good luck!
As a poster above said, ask her out again and see how it goes. Some women like to be courted and pursued and like to see the man putting effort into it. Who knows?
Good luck!
I agree with Liebe2.... Buck up.
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Tamarory: it was different than your peck on the cheek kind of kiss.. she put her hands in my face, and pulled my lips to hers. and nobody was drunk or stoned or anything. i dont want to have to ask her becuase iv heard before that i wear my heart on my sleeve too much, and have no confidence.. that appareantly has been my downfall all these years?! i know the worse she could say is no.. but, theres only so many no's i can hear in one day!
Ask her or it will annoy you and you will end up saying something to her that you will regret, in my opinion she doesn't seem to be a very nice person, if she doesn't want anything to happen with you then she should be honest, there's my 2 cents
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well i plucked up the courage.. i sent like a 'heyyup' message to get a hello back.. no reply for like 40mins and her status always stayed at online, usually if you away or inactve for 10 mins you switch to away automatically..
so i just said 'ok, i get friday night mightve been a mistake, i just dont want it to get awkward cause you still have to design my sleeve!'
and she replied like 10 seconds later and assured me, it wasnt a mistake, she's got these major exams tomorrow which is why she hasnt spoke much!! ooops! so alls gravy, otto is happy and everyone feast your eyes on this before it hits sattelite tv ;)
hanks for everyones inputs :)
chow for now!!
so i just said 'ok, i get friday night mightve been a mistake, i just dont want it to get awkward cause you still have to design my sleeve!'
and she replied like 10 seconds later and assured me, it wasnt a mistake, she's got these major exams tomorrow which is why she hasnt spoke much!! ooops! so alls gravy, otto is happy and everyone feast your eyes on this before it hits sattelite tv ;)
hanks for everyones inputs :)
chow for now!!
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i toooold you
the away sign only shows when you are idle if you set it to
otherwise you can appear online permanently!!!
so anyway if we dont hear from you for the next 10 years we'll know why
cheers tam
the away sign only shows when you are idle if you set it to
otherwise you can appear online permanently!!!
so anyway if we dont hear from you for the next 10 years we'll know why
cheers tam
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its interesting how some of these posts draw a lot of attention; it caught mine cause my son had almsot the same experience with a girl a few months ago.
it was a real disappointing experience for him too in similar ways and for similar reasons, but basically i think in his case it turned out the girl just wasn't interested in a relationship and so his further attentions were off-puting.
but im sure the kiss was exactly what you thought it was; as someone wisely said on here whats in the others mind we can never know.
it was a real disappointing experience for him too in similar ways and for similar reasons, but basically i think in his case it turned out the girl just wasn't interested in a relationship and so his further attentions were off-puting.
but im sure the kiss was exactly what you thought it was; as someone wisely said on here whats in the others mind we can never know.
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mindfful: i toooold you
the away sign only shows when you are idle if you set it to
otherwise you can appear online permanently!!!
so anyway if we dont hear from you for the next 10 years we'll know why
cheers tam
I leave my computer on to sites for hours and do house work and stuffthe away sign only shows when you are idle if you set it to
otherwise you can appear online permanently!!!
so anyway if we dont hear from you for the next 10 years we'll know why
cheers tam
don't know why. And have had a few people leave me messages after a nice message then a few hours later a 
message. I still can not help it I will walk off and get involved in something else 
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Tamarory: soooo?? its cause im a bad kisser??
I don't know but am willing to try it and let you know what I think. 
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haha you sure did mind! and dont worry.. you'll see me again.. soonish?! like, within a year anyways 
im still here after 4 years aint i!!
hey desert, sorry to hear about your kid, he must be gutted.. but hey, this is probably my fourth experience with this kind of situation.. just glad one finally turned up trumps! so i guess persistance pays off
im still here after 4 years aint i!!hey desert, sorry to hear about your kid, he must be gutted.. but hey, this is probably my fourth experience with this kind of situation.. just glad one finally turned up trumps! so i guess persistance pays off
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venusenvy: A Kiss is just a kiss...you should come right out and ask her...she will respect you for it.
I AGREE ASK HER AND BOTH PUT YOUR CARDS ON THE TABLE ABOUT WHAT YOU BOTH WANT AND TAKE IT FROM THERE.
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After one date, and you're not sure if she's interested or not, see if she'll go along with you to something else, instead of making it about her, or about you two 'together'.
As in- Instead of asking her out 'on a date', or 'to dinner', where the point of the matter is for you and her to be together, line something up that you're going to anyways (live music somewhere?) and then ask if she'd like to come along.
This way you present an opportunity for her to express interest, then to spend more time together, and you're not exposing yourself so much (meant that in the proper way, of course).
Also realize: Some people are just more affectionate that others. I had a girl kiss me and fall asleep on me after a first date, and all the more she had to say the next morning was that a ride to the salon would be awesome.
As in- Instead of asking her out 'on a date', or 'to dinner', where the point of the matter is for you and her to be together, line something up that you're going to anyways (live music somewhere?) and then ask if she'd like to come along.
This way you present an opportunity for her to express interest, then to spend more time together, and you're not exposing yourself so much (meant that in the proper way, of course).
Also realize: Some people are just more affectionate that others. I had a girl kiss me and fall asleep on me after a first date, and all the more she had to say the next morning was that a ride to the salon would be awesome.
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thanks for acknowledging my comments. was my first comments on this site so i appreciate someone actually took the time to read it and reply. glad things are good for you for the moment. dont let it go to yer head, remember yer dealing with a woman here! "non-understandable creatures boys cant live without".
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It's the Copenhagen.
Works every time.
Works every time.
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desertshores: thanks for acknowledging my comments. was my first comments on this site so i appreciate someone actually took the time to read it and reply. glad things are good for you for the moment. dont let it go to yer head, remember yer dealing with a woman here! "non-understandable creatures boys cant live without".
thats funny thats how we refer to your kindmen
cant live with em cant kill em
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