Are woman mean? (219)

Jun 11, 2010 2:25 PM CST Are woman mean?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
heidi2765: Well.......I think you are really mean with money, if I would notice your hesitation about paying, believe me I would probably pay the bill and make sure never to meet you again!It is a fact that most women in Europe earn less than their male counterparts and if a guy is that tight on the first date it shows me how the relationship will pan out. Your whole attitude speaks for itself....by the way I am a single mother, my husband died and no pension or settlement!!!


Spot on...thumbs up I would too....
Jun 11, 2010 11:47 PM CST Are woman mean?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
GenuineMale: Entertainment?

Not at all but educating and helpful, all the comments including yours.

Entertainment is watching Queens Tennis at London on the TV. Which I love and looking forward to Wimbledon Tennis and thereafter to leave in my Motor Home to travel for a few months.

Life is good and some honest and fair minded lady out there is missing out. After all I do supply the motor home that was as costly as some houses and all I would expect is 50% of the fuel cost. I suppose that also is not acceptable to ladies?

Better off on my own and I can see that once again and will enjoy my trip to whereever it leads.

Some people can not see a good deal when it is staring them in the face.


well after many years in industry, you are not a good deal with your attitude in fact if you rant about the lady paying half your fuel bill etc, i dread to think what the flirt lines are like.

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Jun 12, 2010 3:13 AM CST Are woman mean?
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
mariola: The more he writes the clearer it becomes that he is looking for someone the share his living costs, not romance. Or to half his holiday bill.When will he mention the insurance, oil, maintenance costs for his home on wheels.




I hope the lady interested in sharing this luxury will will not charge him for cooking, cleaning etc.


My idea of a dream holiday...sharing with Scrooge. I am on my way to Wimbledon.......barf
Jun 12, 2010 4:33 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
Well now that is interesting to hear. I am obviously not making myself very clear. I do not wish a live in partner, but someone close so easy to meet up, my profile does state that. I enjoy my house clean and tidy and do it all myself. I can pay my own way alone or with a partner too, but I refuse to be taken for granted! Interesting your comment from Hamburg which is the city of my birth. Yes, German 100% who has spent very many years in the UK.
Jun 12, 2010 4:47 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
mariola: The more he writes the clearer it becomes that he is looking for someone the share his living costs, not romance. Or to half his holiday bill.When will he mention the insurance, oil, maintenance costs for his home on wheels.


Keep reading sweetheart and your thoughts of my search agenda will knock your theory on the head.

Whatever the outcome it has proved to me that generally men are happy to pay and woman happy to accept.

One is a fool the other not. My opinion only, not an accepted fact.

I do no longer expect much support from men as they feel it honourable to pay for the company of woman and woman do not feel degraded to be entertained.

Here in Spain at most traffic roundabouts sit woman who are happy to entertain for money and I feel very sorry to see woman having to or choosing to earn their bread money that way.

Please tell me the difference?

That should get some more responce from you ladies out there.

If it means my being reported to the site and my profile is removed, I will have lost nothing.
Jun 12, 2010 5:19 AM CST Are woman mean?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Shall we pay fifty fifty on the internet bill as well.

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Jun 12, 2010 6:03 AM CST Are woman mean?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
gussi: Shall we pay fifty fifty on the internet bill as well.


No...just keep your nose out of other peoples lives is good enough..grin
Jun 12, 2010 7:25 AM CST Are woman mean?
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Phoenix: No...just keep your nose out of other peoples lives is good enough..


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Jun 12, 2010 7:48 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
Excellent advice thank you, but why are you on this site? You obviously have the answer to attracting woman in great numbers. As to making the point I am solvent well most woman fear meeting up with a male that turns out to not be solvent as they also do not wish to land with a mill stone around the neck.
Jun 12, 2010 7:56 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
Nevica you are lovely and thank you for at least understanding my being practical. I understand your view points also and my friends request was made as my next long trip is to Scandnavia and it is always nice to have a friend to call in on and share a glass of wine together, which I would supply from my stock on the Motor Home.

Best wishes for your future.
Jun 12, 2010 8:12 AM CST Are woman mean?
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
Not all women are "this" and not all men are "that". Some are, some maybe, others definitely not.

If I ask somebody out for a first date (and a few other subsequent ones), I make sure that I have a clean shirt, clean jeans and enough money to cover all eventualities.
I am honoured to pay for both, but if offered, I will have no qualms about accepting going Dutch. And no, she doesn't have to pass the money under the table so as not to embarrass me.

So, Genuine Male, stop counting your money, get a life and start enjoying life like there is no tomorrow.

P.S. It wouldn't hurt if you could change your name as it is giving us blokes a bad image.
Jun 12, 2010 8:19 AM CST Are woman mean?
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
GenuineMale: Nevica you are lovely and thank you for at least understanding my being practical. I understand your view points also and my friends request was made as my next long trip is to Scandnavia and it is always nice to have a friend to call in on and share a glass of wine together, which I would supply from my stock on the Motor Home.

Best wishes for your future.
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I have heard a lot of this reasoning in Sweden and it doesn't shock me any more(although not all Swedes are the same either).
if you want to visit me, I can give you my adress, if I am not busy with anything else we can meet, I live in Norrsundet. I am not offering anything romantic just normal friendly meeting. if you want a meal we can cook here and split the meal cost 50/50. I don't drink. change your email settings or look in your filter box
Jun 12, 2010 8:58 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
nevica: .
I have heard a lot of this reasoning in Sweden and it doesn't shock me any more(although not all Swedes are the same either).
if you want to visit me, I can give you my adress, if I am not busy with anything else we can meet, I live in Norrsundet. I am not offering anything romantic just normal friendly meeting. if you want a meal we can cook here and split the meal cost 50/50. I don't drink. change your email settings or look in your filter box


Thank you Nevica and I have noted your WWW address and know how to make contact, let us hope we will be fit and healthy for a long time. Your WWW site is interesting and I will enjoy looking at it from time to time.

You see, I am a Genuine person and just love people generally but there are some real nasty and money grabbing people out there in this world. I hope we can meet some time in 2011.handshake
Jun 12, 2010 11:20 AM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
Bental: Not all women are "this" and not all men are "that". Some are, some maybe, others definitely not.

If I ask somebody out for a first date (and a few other subsequent ones), I make sure that I have a clean shirt, clean jeans and enough money to cover all eventualities.
I am honoured to pay for both, but if offered, I will have no qualms about accepting going Dutch. And no, she doesn't have to pass the money under the table so as not to embarrass me.

So, Genuine Male, stop counting your money, get a life and start enjoying life like there is no tomorrow.

P.S. It wouldn't hurt if you could change your name as it is giving us blokes a bad image.


Hola Bental, good to have you amongst us males on this subject. What you say is exactly my point, I do not wish the lady to take it for granted I will pay. I actually have a very good life and hope it will continue. I judge a good life by my happiness and contentment and no problem on either I am glad to say.

Some guys want me to change my nature and suggest I SELL myself, but surely ladies know that a salesman will never point out the bad points, so I present myself as I am and no future dissapointments to show up on later dates. You want me to change my NAME. Sorry pal, look at the guys who have slated me on this thread, look at their profiles and read how they sell themselves but still they are on the site, perhaps for many years already.

Opposite to me lives a lady of around 54 who has honestly talked to me about her single life after a marriage and relationship breakup. She is very short of money and I have supplied her with company and a few free meals as I like to help out when I can. But I am not a charity organisation. She is to put it in the words of one of the thread members NOT an F...friend and I would not even dream of taking advantage of a lady that is not having much fun in life at the moment. I shudder to think she may end up with some guy that has SOLD himself to her.

My name stands as it is but worry not as most likely soon I will delete my profile as I am off on a longish tour shortly and it will not matter if I travel alone once more. I still see much and enjoy each day, a pity though that I have to share it all with my teddy.teddybear
Jun 12, 2010 12:12 PM CST Are woman mean?
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
GenuineMale: Well now that is interesting to hear. I am obviously not making myself very clear. I do not wish a live in partner, but someone close so easy to meet up, my profile does state that. I enjoy my house clean and tidy and do it all myself. I can pay my own way alone or with a partner too, but I refuse to be taken for granted! Interesting your comment from Hamburg which is the city of my birth. Yes, German 100% who has spent very many years in the UK.



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Jun 12, 2010 1:26 PM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
heidi2765: I wouldn't advertise that


Advertise what? That I am German? Surely this is not a sin? If people look at my age they can hardly blame me for what went on when I was a little baby.

Am I reading you correct. Is that what you meant.
Jun 12, 2010 1:31 PM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
I think you should get out! This thread was started by me and you are the intruder. Hope all ther lovely ladies see the way you think!

We are not on the same wave length pal and possibly not the same planet. As my name states, I am a genuine male that is honest and trusatworthy and ladies need not fear.

Your name suggest you have risen from the ashes. wave
Jun 12, 2010 2:55 PM CST Are woman mean?
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
GenuineMale: Advertise what? That I am German? Surely this is not a sin? If people look at my age they can hardly blame me for what went on when I was a little baby.

Am I reading you correct. Is that what you meant.



When you were a little baby????? You are claiming to be 61, that means you were born 1949, 4 years after the war was over????? Genuine??????

But that is not what I was refering to....I hate you advertising that you were born and bred in the same city as me.....just obnoxious.
Jun 12, 2010 2:58 PM CST Are woman mean?
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
Das war mein letzter Kommentar zu dieser Sache, man muss sich ja schaemen!frustrated
Jun 12, 2010 4:01 PM CST Are woman mean?
GenuineMale
GenuineMaleGenuineMaleAlicante, Valencia Spain5 Threads 1 Polls 140 Posts
Good, now we may get some sensible input. I am sorry that your life experience has not been good and you have gone through a sad loss and are still recovering. I wish you luck in all you attempt.
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