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drew_wea: I started talking to this girl on another dating site and now we having been talking 3 days or so now just via text. Got her name as most girl don't want to give the name out right away. Not stalking her but i looked her up Facebook for topic starters and her pictures are wayyyyyy off. What do i do don't talk to her at all anymore. It not like she would want to know the real reason.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
Pictures way off? You mean she doesn't look like the ones on her profile?
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Ya basically
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Wait all the picture are of her plus a village that's mean I'm going hell
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drew_wea: Wait all the picture are of her plus a village that's mean I'm going hell
huh?
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Its late here in others words her weight
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drew_wea: Its late here in others words her weight
maybe she's lost weight! i've lost a considerable amount of weight since my profile pic here was taken, but as it's a head shot it doesn't make so much difference..
or maybe you are being a little shallow - are you the perfect weight for your height?
be nice and talk to her not the entire internet about it...
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a lot of people post out of date pictures,i met a man once he was 45 in his pictures,black hair,185 lbs,in person he was 5ft4,gray hair,400 lbs.65 years old,i still had lunch with him,we chatted had a nice time,i told him he should update his pictures ,but to this day he hasn't.i never saw him again,i dislike honesty...its up to you,ask her up front about it.
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drew_wea: I started talking to this girl on another dating site and now we having been talking 3 days or so now just via text. Got her name as most girl don't want to give the name out right away. Not stalking her but i looked her up Facebook for topic starters and her pictures are wayyyyyy off. What do i do don't talk to her at all anymore. It not like she would want to know the real reason.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
Why not just be up front about her pics?....see what she says?...
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demonfairy: a lot of people post out of date pictures,i met a man once he was 45 in his pictures,black hair,185 lbs,in person he was 5ft4,gray hair,400 lbs.65 years old,i still had lunch with him,we chatted had a nice time,i told him he should update his pictures ,but to this day he hasn't.i never saw him again,i dislike dishonesty...its up to you,ask her up front about it.
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drew_wea: I started talking to this girl on another dating site and now we having been talking 3 days or so now just via text. Got her name as most girl don't want to give the name out right away. Not stalking her but i looked her up Facebook for topic starters and her pictures are wayyyyyy off. What do i do don't talk to her at all anymore. It not like she would want to know the real reason.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
yeah...."present her some nasty pictures of your self "....
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Shallow I knew that going to be thrown in there very misleading picture tho. I actually just lost over 50 lbs between some of my pictures. A lot of work and I didn't do that to catch bigger fish.
I really enjoyed talking to her tho owell.
I really enjoyed talking to her tho owell.
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Ladybee42: maybe she's lost weight! i've lost a considerable amount of weight since my profile pic here was taken, but as it's a head shot it doesn't make so much difference.. or maybe you are being a little shallow - are you the perfect weight for your height? be nice and talk to her not the entire internet about it...
People can lose/gain weight and change their appearance in lots of ways,but, I feel you should be honest with folk and be upfront on your profile.Morgan who posted after you notes the guy who lied about his height, well in many cases that could have been a complete no no as he was a lot shorter than he said......I wonder why folk do it.....Because you might eventually meet someone and ooops, what are they supposed to think......Weight and age are a slightly different case as long as you are not posting 10 year old photos and 
As for the weight photos can make you look all differnt sizes.....JMO 
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patmac: People can lose/gain weight and change their appearance in lots of ways,but, I feel you should be honest with folk and be upfront on your profile.Morgan who posted after you notes the guy who lied about his height, well in many cases that could have been a complete no no as he was a lot shorter than he said......I wonder why folk do it.....Because you might eventually meet someone and ooops, what are they supposed to think......Weight and age are a slightly different case as long as you are not posting 10 year old photos and As for the weight photos can make you look all differnt sizes.....JMO By the way my photos are only months old......nearly bust the camera
Thing was Pat if he had been honest and I still would have met him, it really was the fact he wasn't that pissed me off. ( and I could have worn flat shoes) 
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No the picture are recent updated she said she took her little sister to the zoo and there a giraffe in the background. Or I am judging her to soon or she just really good a photoshop
Thanks for the advice
Thanks for the advice
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well, maybe you mentioned and i have not noticed..
Does she live so far away from you that you can not meet her in real? So ask her for current picture and you would know..
I am not into idea posting old pictures at all. It is so confusing..
Does she live so far away from you that you can not meet her in real? So ask her for current picture and you would know..
I am not into idea posting old pictures at all. It is so confusing..
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morgan5: Thing was Pat if he had been honest and I still would have met him, it really was the fact he wasn't that pissed me off. ( and I could have worn flat shoes)
And probably enjoyed the day more....I actually often get a better rappore with folk 'cos of their input on the threads, only when I decide to have a look at their profile do I even think about looks....Most folk have a reasonable photo on their posting and the rest are allsorts good luck to them,but most of the folk I really get on with here are ( oooooo sounds bad I could be in trouble...) Genuine and have just ordinary snaps from day to day life on the profile, I have met a few and they all in the main were up to date photos.....JMO.... ------ This thread is Archived ------
drew_wea: Shallow I knew that going to be thrown in there very misleading picture tho. I actually just lost over 50 lbs between some of my pictures. A lot of work and I didn't do that to catch bigger fish.
I really enjoyed talking to her tho owell.
I really enjoyed talking to her tho owell.
Hi Ah, perhaps if you enjoyed talking to her... keep it up and when you get to know her better, just ask the question...
Communication is an essential requirement basis on where to start to make a friend of her, and ifn it leads on to something more... then all well and good... but you are not going to know ifn you dont ( in a nice way) ask.?
Good luck fella... but they may be a reason as other posters here have mentioned... see if there is and give it a go.
You will know if you are being deceived in days to come...
Cheers hun
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Reminds me of the issue with my friend.
The fact that she has lied about herself is reason enough to walk away...not for being shallow, but the fact that she has already been dishonest!
The fact that she has lied about herself is reason enough to walk away...not for being shallow, but the fact that she has already been dishonest!
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drew_wea: I started talking to this girl on another dating site and now we having been talking 3 days or so now just via text. Got her name as most girl don't want to give the name out right away. Not stalking her but i looked her up Facebook for topic starters and her pictures are wayyyyyy off. What do i do don't talk to her at all anymore. It not like she would want to know the real reason.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.
my experience that the website love will not affect our real life too much, u will be easy forget this photo to follow another photo, then just pls go to talk with other photo that can match your conditions, good luck,
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One picture was very nice compared to the others but it could have taken 4 years ago. Looks aren't everything to me but. Not trying to be jerk.
Any advice anyone.