Why do most nice guys finish last (119)
I agree with you, men are never going to ive up to womens expectations.
I guess wer'e just going to have to lower our standards to accommodate you all.
I guess wer'e just going to have to lower our standards to accommodate you all.
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venusinsilk: I agree with you, men are never going to ive up to womens expectations.
I guess wer'e just going to have to lower our standards to accommodate you all.
I guess wer'e just going to have to lower our standards to accommodate you all.
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they don't finish last..We just save the best for last...
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Hi allBut
its not JUST women who do this, allot of men are very shallow also.....if your a tad over weight, they just dont want to know.... It works both ways.....
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falcon1964: Have i beeen locked away in a time capsule for decades
then released to find not much has changed
single woman looking for their mate, which is much like a shopping list with boxes to tick
Is it no wonder most nice guys finish last
If the guy is too predictable hes-boring
if hes not a bad boy-boring
if hes not financially secure-too much of a liability
the list goes on
the guy must be incredibly handsome to even get a foot in the door
as the woman wouldnt be caught dead with The Hunchback of Notre Damn
if a guys personality is shy he loses points also
so how as males are we ever to live upto womans expectations
some guys still put the toilet seat down, clean pickup after themselves, organised, cook, washing, show sensitivity, sencerity during PMS but still fall short.
And no i am not perfect far from it.
I have always believed and treated woman as equals and their roles in life are more than cleaning a house, cooking etc
and having our children
Its magnificent to see women being recognised for their abilities
and i am sure one day Australia will have their first woman Prime Minister bring it on............
with fresh and new ideas...............
I take my hat off to single mums well to all mums who try to juggle a career and be a mother, all the skills needed its an awesome tasks so pat yourselves on the back well done.
And each and every woman has different skills weaknesses and strengths as do males
But as a single male i just feel nice guys like me more often than not finish last
And i have never stated that i have the answers to everything to make a relationship work because i dont
But as for nice guys finishing last Maybe one day a lady will prove me wrong
RJ
then released to find not much has changed
single woman looking for their mate, which is much like a shopping list with boxes to tick
Is it no wonder most nice guys finish last
If the guy is too predictable hes-boring
if hes not a bad boy-boring
if hes not financially secure-too much of a liability
the list goes on
the guy must be incredibly handsome to even get a foot in the door
as the woman wouldnt be caught dead with The Hunchback of Notre Damn
if a guys personality is shy he loses points also
so how as males are we ever to live upto womans expectations
some guys still put the toilet seat down, clean pickup after themselves, organised, cook, washing, show sensitivity, sencerity during PMS but still fall short.
And no i am not perfect far from it.
I have always believed and treated woman as equals and their roles in life are more than cleaning a house, cooking etc
and having our children
Its magnificent to see women being recognised for their abilities
and i am sure one day Australia will have their first woman Prime Minister bring it on............
with fresh and new ideas...............
I take my hat off to single mums well to all mums who try to juggle a career and be a mother, all the skills needed its an awesome tasks so pat yourselves on the back well done.
And each and every woman has different skills weaknesses and strengths as do males
But as a single male i just feel nice guys like me more often than not finish last
And i have never stated that i have the answers to everything to make a relationship work because i dont
But as for nice guys finishing last Maybe one day a lady will prove me wrong
RJ
Women ain`t gonna admit it..... but they don`t want to be treated "equal"
they want a cave Man.....
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Amity: How many of these threads are there?
Amity, LOL u are the biggest troll, every post you make is negative, get a life.
To the poster, the problem is the good guys are left with the job of picking up the pieces which is an impossible task. While most women will stil be attracted to the "treat them mean keep them keen" profile, that or a perfect mask for the former.
So I totally understand what you are on about.
To all the single mums out there, you are like the caring nurses totally awesome.
Guess we can only hope that our time will come.
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Quest4SoulMate: Amity, LOL u are the biggest troll, every post you make is negative, get a life.
To the poster, the problem is the good guys are left with the job of picking up the pieces which is an impossible task. While most women will stil be attracted to the "treat them mean keep them keen" profile, that or a perfect mask for the former.
So I totally understand what you are on about.
To all the single mums out there, you are like the caring nurses totally awesome.
Guess we can only hope that our time will come.
To the poster, the problem is the good guys are left with the job of picking up the pieces which is an impossible task. While most women will stil be attracted to the "treat them mean keep them keen" profile, that or a perfect mask for the former.
So I totally understand what you are on about.
To all the single mums out there, you are like the caring nurses totally awesome.
Guess we can only hope that our time will come.
Oh dear....
Im a troll?
How nice of you to notice...was it my type that gave me away?
I have 4 words for you..
anger management..seek it.
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Amity: Oh dear....
Im a troll?
How nice of you to notice...was it my type that gave me away?
I have 4 words for you..
anger management..seek it.
Im a troll?
How nice of you to notice...was it my type that gave me away?
I have 4 words for you..
anger management..seek it.
LOL I rest my case and submit to you fine jurors that she is in fact guilty of said crime and fir for appropriate punishment
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Quest4SoulMate: LOL I rest my case and submit to you fine jurors that she is in fact guilty of said crime and fir for appropriate punishment
you are going to finish first because you aren't nice at all. 
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Quest4SoulMate: LOL I rest my case and submit to you fine jurors that she is in fact guilty of said crime and fir for appropriate punishment
Lets talk about football....
this evening 20;30 central European time....
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I just took down a blog that sounded something like this post.
Its easy to get frustrated, and to make a post like this seems correct at the time, but its not.
The comments I seen on my blog was correct, a post like that will alienate any decent women that is out there. So will this post.
Try to get this post took down again, it will only backfire.
Its easy to get frustrated, and to make a post like this seems correct at the time, but its not.
The comments I seen on my blog was correct, a post like that will alienate any decent women that is out there. So will this post.
Try to get this post took down again, it will only backfire.
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I am not quite sure what you are on about. You seem to use lots of cliche expressions which are meaningless to true and honest communication. From what I gather though, is it that you feel frustrated because you have been misunderstood? If so then speak up when you have the chance, clarify things, if they are in fact important to you. Otherwise, continue on with your life in a mature fashion. Own your actions and the consequences they bring forth.
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I've noticed a trend since I've been here. That some people have developed the habit of wanting to tar the majority for the perceived wrongs of a few. Folks are supposed to learn from their mistakes, but it you're making the same bad choices over and over what does that say? 'NICE' is a worn out term. What does it mean? Anyone can label themselves as nice - but nice to who? Things didn't work out with him/her so it must be that they don't want a nice person - buttom line you weren't compatible. Dating sites like this would be out of business if everyone found their match instantly, less divorce would happen, less single parents too probably. Not everyone is going to fit the bill and sometimes you have to change you're scope. Too many times these type of threads smack of "I'm so wonderful and they're so flawed". " We're all flawed." How many good choices were overlooked on the way to a bad one. 
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then released to find not much has changed
single woman looking for their mate, which is much like a shopping list with boxes to tick
Is it no wonder most nice guys finish last
If the guy is too predictable hes-boring
if hes not a bad boy-boring
if hes not financially secure-too much of a liability
the list goes on
the guy must be incredibly handsome to even get a foot in the door
as the woman wouldnt be caught dead with The Hunchback of Notre Damn
if a guys personality is shy he loses points also
so how as males are we ever to live upto womans expectations
some guys still put the toilet seat down, clean pickup after themselves, organised, cook, washing, show sensitivity, sencerity during PMS but still fall short.
And no i am not perfect far from it.
I have always believed and treated woman as equals and their roles in life are more than cleaning a house, cooking etc
and having our children
Its magnificent to see women being recognised for their abilities
and i am sure one day Australia will have their first woman Prime Minister bring it on............
with fresh and new ideas...............
I take my hat off to single mums well to all mums who try to juggle a career and be a mother, all the skills needed its an awesome tasks so pat yourselves on the back well done.
And each and every woman has different skills weaknesses and strengths as do males
But as a single male i just feel nice guys like me more often than not finish last
And i have never stated that i have the answers to everything to make a relationship work because i dont
But as for nice guys finishing last Maybe one day a lady will prove me wrong
RJ