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Jul 25, 2010 12:00 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
Boban1: looks like you live in a great place ... especially cool to go out with your wife and children .. ...




My ex is the one with a sawed off shotgun!


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Jul 25, 2010 12:09 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
hug Im a martial fart expert, dont listen to the haters sebo tongue
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Jul 25, 2010 12:09 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
Jaygo1: No, I've never heard of Punatics. Why do we on the mainland never hear of all the crime there? All I ever hear of Hawaii is what a tropical paradise it is.

I have friends that are going there in just a couple weeks, but I doubt they'll be anywhere near these subdivisions.





Tell them not to camp on any trails!

The trails around the island were built one rock at a time, in bucket brigade style; by thousands of people working together.
If you camp on a trail, it will be considered disrespectful to them, and the whole community.

You can look up Hawaiian night marchers on the internet.

If you camp on a trail in Hawaii, and you are found inside of your tent, at the bottom of a cliff, everybody will say.... It was the night marchers.



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Jul 25, 2010 12:17 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I took my daughter to martial arts classes for about 7 years because she's very small. It's given her a huge amount of confidence and freedom. She knows that wherever she goes round here, whatever time of night, she can look after herself.

Twice in the last couple of years a friend of hers has been attacked and once herself. Grown men have ended up being made to feel very stupid by a 4'11'' young woman.

Serves them right for picking on her. Tee hee hee.

Jac xxx
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Jul 25, 2010 12:32 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
wulfen: Typical couch potato comment

Martial arts is not just about being able to beat people up. It teaches you to have greater awareness of your body and mind; it's a good exercise to stay healthy and your body flexible even as you age; and teaches one self discipline.

Besides, how many times are you going to have to fight vs. someone with a shotgun? We're not in the Wild West you know.


My boys did karate for a while but gave it up when soccer became their passion. I was sad because I agree with you've said above. I've taken a self defense class and found it very informative, even though I haven't yet had to put it in practice. Apart from learning focus and self-discipline and sculpturing your body beautifully, I think particularly for women, it could be a very useful tool in defending yourself. I admire anyone who masters martial arts. thumbs up
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Jul 25, 2010 12:33 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
Jaygo1
Jaygo1Jaygo1Chicopee, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 226 Posts
anonymous1: Tell them not to camp on any trails!

The trails around the island were built one rock at a time, in bucket brigade style; by thousands of people working together.
If you camp on a trail, it will be considered disrespectful to them, and the whole community.

You can look up Hawaiian night marchers on the internet.

If you camp on a trail in Hawaii, and you are found inside of your tent, at the bottom of a cliff, everybody will say.... It was the night marchers.
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OMG!!! That's horrible!! Luckily, these friends are not the camping out type. A 3 star hotel would probably be the closest they'd get to "roughing it".
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Jul 25, 2010 12:34 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
Jaygo1
Jaygo1Jaygo1Chicopee, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 226 Posts
anonymous1: I've already been shot two different times.F.T.W. If someone threatens to come back at me with a gun, they are in danger.One guy was yelling at me in the dark... You're breaking my arm!I just told him, I know..





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Jul 25, 2010 12:43 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
anonymous1: Malta might not be the wild west; but, where I come from you're more likely to see a gun, than a martial artist.
Gun battles with AK-47s, and Uzis, are very common; have you ever huddled on the bottom of your vehicle, while people hide behind it, in the middle of a machine gun shootout?

And, you should see some of the subdivisions in Hawaii.
There's miles of rough rocky roads between you and the police.
Guns are common in the sub-divisions, and so are lime pits; where your bones disappear.

One guy recently got drug behind a truck, until he was spread out for miles.
All that being said, I practice martial arts for physical rehabilitation from being thrown through the window of a car.
My dad signed me up for Kempo Karate, when I was 4, so it's been in my life for along time.

My dad practiced martial arts all of his life; and, he taught me to treat everybody with respect, like they have a loaded gun.
Martial arts are good exercise; but you never know when the wild west will appear on your doorstep.
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Er, you make the Hawaii sound worse than Afghanistan there! conversing

As for the rest of the thread, I agree with you that no matter how good you are, if confronted with a firearm and you're unarmed yourself you should only resort to fighting your assailant as a very last resort.

Still, if it boils down to self defence I'd rather know how to defend myself rather than huddling in a ball and sob.

In the dojo I attend we stress a lot on the fact to the kids who attend lessons that the skills they learn there are NOT to be used to bully classmates at school for example; and it does teach them to be more self confident & have a greater awareness of their bodies. Besides that they have fun in a healthy manner and it's a change from sitting in front of a playstation all day.
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Jul 25, 2010 12:47 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
jac379: I took my daughter to martial arts classes for about 7 years because she's very small. It's given her a huge amount of confidence and freedom. She knows that wherever she goes round here, whatever time of night, she can look after herself.

Twice in the last couple of years a friend of hers has been attacked and once herself. Grown men have ended up being made to feel very stupid by a 4'11'' young woman.

Serves them right for picking on her. Tee hee hee.

Jac xxx


mom enrolled me in ballet instead of martial arts cuz i was tomboyish. as she says, to make me act more refined moping


can u be my mom? grin
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Jul 25, 2010 12:49 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
leostartingover: My boys did karate for a while but gave it up when soccer became their passion. I was sad because I agree with you've said above. I've taken a self defense class and found it very informative, even though I haven't yet had to put it in practice. Apart from learning focus and self-discipline and sculpturing your body beautifully, I think particularly for women, it could be a very useful tool in defending yourself. I admire anyone who masters martial arts.


Hehe, actually football is another passion of mine. The two aren't incompatible so long as you have the time to practice both :)

Seeing the world cup final there was at least one Dutch player who didn't have a bad flying kick at all (can't remember the name, but it was the guy who kicked the Spanish player in the chest during the final,lol)
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Jul 25, 2010 12:51 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
sebomaster: all is in the title i think ,so,i would be glad to know what ladies think about it ;)

thanks a lot ;)


My ex husband chose Aikido, because he liked the more peaceful, reactive message of it, rather than the pro-active.

I always found he came back from his classes more relaxed and peaceful.

As regards women taking self-defence classes, I agree totally with that. I think its essential. As long as it is indeed used as DEFENCE, and not just a way of causing more aggro..

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Jul 25, 2010 12:51 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
leostartingover: My boys did karate for a while but gave it up when soccer became their passion. I was sad because I agree with you've said above. I've taken a self defense class and found it very informative, even though I haven't yet had to put it in practice. Apart from learning focus and self-discipline and sculpturing your body beautifully, I think particularly for women, it could be a very useful tool in defending yourself. I admire anyone who masters martial arts.


my only self defense is this grin and this super

and the good ol' kick in the nuts moping
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Jul 25, 2010 12:52 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
so sebomaster, since you're into martial arts... is sebo a sort of jitsu?dunno
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Jul 25, 2010 12:52 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
plainlyjune: mom enrolled me in ballet instead of martial arts cuz i was tomboyish. as she says, to make me act more refined can u be my mom?


Strange as it may sound, Jean Claude Van Damme learnt ballet as a boy, and he always described ballet lessons as being some of the toughest exercise he's ever did.

If you look closely at most martial arts kata (katas are a form of motions done in sequence, going through the motions of a set of predefined techniques, either solo or with other opponents), they focus more on gracefulness of movement and co-ordination that outright brute strength; and in that regards ballet is very similar I guess.
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Jul 25, 2010 12:54 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
wulfen: Strange as it may sound, Jean Claude Van Damme learnt ballet as a boy, and he always described ballet lessons as being some of the toughest exercise he's ever did.

If you look closely at most martial arts kata (katas are a form of motions done in sequence, going through the motions of a set of predefined techniques, either solo or with other opponents), they focus more on gracefulness of movement and co-ordination that outright brute strength; and in that regards ballet is very similar I guess.


thumbs up wow hmmm.. i did tai chi for a year in college. does that count? uh oh
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Jul 25, 2010 1:10 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
plainlyjune: hmmm.. i did tai chi for a year in college. does that count?


Tai Chi is a bit of conundrum amongst martial artists. You'll meet some who consider it a 'true' martial art, and others who view it as a more active form of meditation.

In my view (and it is purely my personal view) it is not a true fighting style, but I admire it a lot as a meditation style. Unlike 'rougher' martial arts it can also still be practiced by elderly people and helps a lot in keeping them flexible and energetic.
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Jul 25, 2010 1:10 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
wulfen: Er, you make the Hawaii sound worse than Afghanistan there!

As for the rest of the thread, I agree with you that no matter how good you are, if confronted with a firearm and you're unarmed yourself you should only resort to fighting your assailant as a very last resort.

Still, if it boils down to self defence I'd rather know how to defend myself rather than huddling in a ball and sob.

In the dojo I attend we stress a lot on the fact to the kids who attend lessons that the skills they learn there are NOT to be used to bully classmates at school for example; and it does teach them to be more self confident & have a greater awareness of their bodies. Besides that they have fun in a healthy manner and it's a change from sitting in front of a playstation all day.




I was describing two different places.

I'm from Venice California, that's where I was shot when I was 18, where I was stabbed, where the machine gun battles happen, and where I learned to do the duck, and run when someone has a gun.

I moved to Hawaii, and even though it's rough, I had more friends die when I was between 16, and 20 in Venice, than I have lost here in 30 years.


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Jul 25, 2010 1:22 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
jac379: I took my daughter to martial arts classes for about 7 years because she's very small. It's given her a huge amount of confidence and freedom. She knows that wherever she goes round here, whatever time of night, she can look after herself.

Twice in the last couple of years a friend of hers has been attacked and once herself. Grown men have ended up being made to feel very stupid by a 4'11'' young woman.

Serves them right for picking on her. Tee hee hee.

Jac xxx




Right on!

My daughter has had Ninja training; and, I'm trying to keep her interested in learning more.

I like to give her things that look inconspicuous; but, have whole arts built around them being weapons.


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Jul 25, 2010 1:22 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I DID KICKBOXING FOR 2 YEARS.
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Jul 25, 2010 1:24 PM CST ladies,what do you think about men practicing martial arts?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
wulfen: Tai Chi is a bit of conundrum amongst martial artists. You'll meet some who consider it a 'true' martial art, and others who view it as a more active form of meditation.

In my view (and it is purely my personal view) it is not a true fighting style, but I admire it a lot as a meditation style. Unlike 'rougher' martial arts it can also still be practiced by elderly people and helps a lot in keeping them flexible and energetic.




I like the movie where Bruce Lee discovers Tai Chi, as his true style.


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