Foreigner in my own native country ( Archived) (167)

Aug 26, 2010 4:34 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?moping
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Aug 26, 2010 4:37 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
mnowsa: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?


Yes. I have, after living abroad for nearly 15 years. I am back here 20 years now and still feel like a foreigner.wine
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Aug 26, 2010 4:41 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
GingerBe: Yes. I have, after living abroad for nearly 15 years. I am back here 20 years now and still feel like a foreigner.


Nice to see you again ginger! And Happy month of ramadan to youpeace
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Aug 26, 2010 4:55 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
mnowsa: Nice to see you again ginger! And Happy month of ramadan to you


Thank you mnowsa, and to you too.teddybear
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Aug 26, 2010 4:56 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
mnowsa: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?
Yes,I know the feeling!
Lived abroad for 35 years.
Back now for five,and it still feels strange.

Everything changed,even the usage of words.
confused
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Aug 26, 2010 4:58 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
mnowsa: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?


Oh yea! I have also just returned to my Home country too after 15 years, and WOOOOOW...I am lost too, so u are not the only one...wave
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Aug 26, 2010 5:01 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
mnowsa: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?


Yes it's quite a common problem for people who've worked abroad mate.
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Aug 26, 2010 5:04 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
mnowsa: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?


Yes.

I come from a long line of mixed unions and am of such mixed roots and culture, I make the dog look posh.

No one land is my motherland and everywhere I'm a foreigner.

Its one of the reasons why a site like this is so good for making new friends. It never ceases to surprise me that I can find more common ground with people from all over the world, in a way that I can't with most folk who live in the same village as me.

Its lovely to be able to do that.

Jac xxx
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Aug 26, 2010 5:04 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
PollyWolly: Oh yea! I have also just returned to my Home country too after 15 years, and WOOOOOW...I am lost too, so u are not the only one...


I'm lucky in that the Irish and the Scots are so interlinked with our celtic roots that I feel just as at home in both countries. But the world and the people in it have certainly changed beyond recognition which sometimes leaves me feeling nostalgic and a wee bit adrift from my roots.wave
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Aug 26, 2010 5:11 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Godsgift: I'm lucky in that the Irish and the Scots are so interlinked with our celtic roots that I feel just as at home in both countries. But the world and the people in it have certainly changed beyond recognition which sometimes leaves me feeling nostalgic and a wee bit adrift from my roots.


Regarding your roots,could be the weed killer you spread around.wave
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Aug 26, 2010 5:12 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
jeffc320
jeffc320jeffc320burnley, Lancashire, England UK11 Threads 461 Posts
Certainly do and i never left mine.
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Aug 26, 2010 5:13 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
jac379: Yes.

I come from a long line of mixed unions and am of such mixed roots and culture, I make the dog look posh.

No one land is my motherland and everywhere I'm a foreigner.

Its one of the reasons why a site like this is so good for making new friends. It never ceases to surprise me that I can find more common ground with people from all over the world, in a way that I can't with most folk who live in the same village as me.

Its lovely to be able to do that.

Jac xxx


I can relate to that too. I'm of British descent (2nd generation) but have been born and lived in Malta all my life. My mentality and outlook is certainly different from most locals'.

Strange as it may seem, I tend to feel 'foreign' amongst Maltese, and 'Maltese' amongst foreigners. laugh
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Aug 26, 2010 5:14 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
missingLondon
missingLondonmissingLondonMsida, Majjistral Malta101 Threads 11 Polls 455 Posts
been back almost a year after 5 years in London and if it weren't for the economic situation in the UK, I'd be on the first plane back. I don't fit in my home country.
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Aug 26, 2010 5:18 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
missingLondon: been back almost a year after 5 years in London and if it weren't for the economic situation in the UK, I'd be on the first plane back. I don't fit in my home country.


London is certainly different from Malta for sure. Having said that, I enjoy London as a holiday destination, but would certainly not enjoy living there permanently. Too hectic for my tastes. conversing
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Aug 26, 2010 5:26 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
Hiya...wave well there are 2 things here. My roots, well that I am still serching for....doh Being raised in so many countries, I am Totally lost , I neither belong where i was born, nor where I was raised nor where I am now.....so Yea! I am totall stranger here, so for me its best to just keep moving.....Kinda a Rambler....laugh laugh But it sure does bring back some good old happy memories ....bouquet
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Aug 26, 2010 5:28 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
Steve5721
Steve5721Steve5721La Zenia, Murcia Spain72 Threads 2 Polls 4,564 Posts
Strange...for I feel more at home here in Spain than I do back in the UK.
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Aug 26, 2010 5:32 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
Steve5721: Strange...for I feel more at home here in Spain than I do back in the UK.


that coz there are so many brits there....grin
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Aug 26, 2010 5:33 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
professor Texas is a big country. Easy to get lost there, especially if you have been away living on a tropical island for 16 years. dancing
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Aug 26, 2010 5:33 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
In response to: Back to Bangladesh(my mother land) after living more than 12 years in the USA. It looks like i am lost in my own country. Has anybody ever had that kind of feeling?


Hell yeah. When I moved to North Carolina, I thought I was south of the border due to the number of latinos. Happy to be back in New Hampshire where I don't have to put up with them
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Aug 26, 2010 5:34 AM CST Foreigner in my own native country
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Raynew1959: Hell yeah. When I moved to North Carolina, I thought I was south of the border due to the number of latinos. Happy to be back in New Hampshire where I don't have to put up with them
professor You would have been better off going south of the border !~JMO
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