Attraction (64)
Attraction - Charisma or something that intense challenging another person.
This Charisma we can have it or not .Charisma does not learn, we are born with it of course depends on your tastes.
Appearance generally matter ,but one ingredient is not enough to provoke real attraction,other qualities matter much more - the most important is personality
This Charisma we can have it or not .Charisma does not learn, we are born with it of course depends on your tastes.
Appearance generally matter ,but one ingredient is not enough to provoke real attraction,other qualities matter much more - the most important is personality
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mmichaelm: That's certainly a choice. Choices have consequences. There are no right or wrong choices. Depends on where you want to end up.
most women find me repulsive so i try to charm them with my sense of humor and intellect.
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Swissblueeyes: Ok..I hear so many times how a guy thinks he gets rejected because he is a "nice" guy..I love nice guys but I want to be attracted to their "looks" too..I think all of us want that..I've gotten messages from men who weighed 300 lbs and have no decent job and very bad grooming skills but they say they are nice..Ok. Well nice is great but I need to feel attracted to their looks too and admire their other good qualities along with ambitions..I also see men posters who are reasonably attractive have a decent job and they complain friends try to hook them up on blind dates with a girl who is "nice" then meet her and shes way overweight and lives with her parents and guess what? That guy doesnt want the girl even though everyone claims shes nice.
So, why is it that a woman is bad if she wants a man she feels attracted to and gets bashed if she rejects a guy shes not attracted to who claims he is nice? I try to be realistic in my expectations, I dont expect Brad Pitt to come over in a limo and if I want a certain type of man I know I have to present myself on his level too..This is one of my reasons why I try to have good grooming skills and have goals..I hope I dont come across as being mean, I'm just so tired of hearing how women are shallow or bad if we want to feel a physical attraction along with him being a good man? As a woman I can honestly say if a man who had drop dead good looks aproached me and was acting like a jerk I would lose any interest in him at all so the idea that all women like bad men is false..Yes looks to a certain degree are only surface level but we all need to feel a certain amount of attraction first before the other things can grow into a relationship..Just venting here and I know I've chosen a kind of touchy subject but I have to work to keep myself in shape and have goals ect, so why should I or any other woman feel bad for wanting that in their man too?
So, why is it that a woman is bad if she wants a man she feels attracted to and gets bashed if she rejects a guy shes not attracted to who claims he is nice? I try to be realistic in my expectations, I dont expect Brad Pitt to come over in a limo and if I want a certain type of man I know I have to present myself on his level too..This is one of my reasons why I try to have good grooming skills and have goals..I hope I dont come across as being mean, I'm just so tired of hearing how women are shallow or bad if we want to feel a physical attraction along with him being a good man? As a woman I can honestly say if a man who had drop dead good looks aproached me and was acting like a jerk I would lose any interest in him at all so the idea that all women like bad men is false..Yes looks to a certain degree are only surface level but we all need to feel a certain amount of attraction first before the other things can grow into a relationship..Just venting here and I know I've chosen a kind of touchy subject but I have to work to keep myself in shape and have goals ect, so why should I or any other woman feel bad for wanting that in their man too?
I don't weigh 300 pounds, but I don't have a job, I am mean & nasty all the time.. Does that qualify me for a "nice guy" title??
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Make you normal.
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And the guy that taught me how to drive race cars lives in Gowen, MI... He will verify all my bad traits..
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lonelywoman55: Make you normal.
Surely you cannot be referring to me....
"ME", normal??
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HJFinAZ: I don't weigh 300 pounds, but I don't have a job, I am mean & nasty all the time.. Does that qualify me for a "nice guy" title??
In MY book: yes.....
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I know the sun has baked yor brian right.(lived in AZ) What is normal?
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lonelywoman55: I know the sun has baked yor brian right.(lived in AZ) What is normal?
Your asking "ME"??????
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Sure I always like a older gentalmens view.
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lonelywoman55: Sure I always like a older gentalmens view.
Well, let me see................Normal is is is is is is.....OH what the hell, I have no clue..
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Well at least you tell the truth. And thats always good. 
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lonelywoman55: Well at least you tell the truth. And thats always good.
Most can't handle the truth..
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You are right. but with Attraction you needed truth. Or it just wont work. 
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I totally agree..there has to be some kind of attraction especially with looks!
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Lulibella: I totally agree..there has to be some kind of attraction especially with looks!
Or a VERY LARGE bank balance....
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You're cute.....
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Swissblueeyes: Ok..I hear so many times how a guy thinks he gets rejected because he is a "nice" guy..I love nice guys but I want to be attracted to their "looks" too..I think all of us want that..I've gotten messages from men who weighed 300 lbs and have no decent job and very bad grooming skills but they say they are nice..Ok. Well nice is great but I need to feel attracted to their looks too and admire their other good qualities along with ambitions..I also see men posters who are reasonably attractive have a decent job and they complain friends try to hook them up on blind dates with a girl who is "nice" then meet her and shes way overweight and lives with her parents and guess what? That guy doesnt want the girl even though everyone claims shes nice.
So, why is it that a woman is bad if she wants a man she feels attracted to and gets bashed if she rejects a guy shes not attracted to who claims he is nice? I try to be realistic in my expectations, I dont expect Brad Pitt to come over in a limo and if I want a certain type of man I know I have to present myself on his level too..This is one of my reasons why I try to have good grooming skills and have goals..I hope I dont come across as being mean, I'm just so tired of hearing how women are shallow or bad if we want to feel a physical attraction along with him being a good man? As a woman I can honestly say if a man who had drop dead good looks aproached me and was acting like a jerk I would lose any interest in him at all so the idea that all women like bad men is false..Yes looks to a certain degree are only surface level but we all need to feel a certain amount of attraction first before the other things can grow into a relationship..Just venting here and I know I've chosen a kind of touchy subject but I have to work to keep myself in shape and have goals ect, so why should I or any other woman feel bad for wanting that in their man too?
So, why is it that a woman is bad if she wants a man she feels attracted to and gets bashed if she rejects a guy shes not attracted to who claims he is nice? I try to be realistic in my expectations, I dont expect Brad Pitt to come over in a limo and if I want a certain type of man I know I have to present myself on his level too..This is one of my reasons why I try to have good grooming skills and have goals..I hope I dont come across as being mean, I'm just so tired of hearing how women are shallow or bad if we want to feel a physical attraction along with him being a good man? As a woman I can honestly say if a man who had drop dead good looks aproached me and was acting like a jerk I would lose any interest in him at all so the idea that all women like bad men is false..Yes looks to a certain degree are only surface level but we all need to feel a certain amount of attraction first before the other things can grow into a relationship..Just venting here and I know I've chosen a kind of touchy subject but I have to work to keep myself in shape and have goals ect, so why should I or any other woman feel bad for wanting that in their man too?
makes sense...but not much.
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That's certainly a choice. Choices have consequences. There are no right or wrong choices. Depends on where you want to end up.