Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
Oh, definitely better not to waste too much time on the interweb of lies
Far better to waste time in the real world with real life losers and liars.. and just make guest appearances in the net
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
Damn!!..stop reading the same book... no healthy...
You can't possibly get to know someone by tapping away on a keyboard back and forth, let's face it.
And until you meet that person, in the flesh, you haven't even begun a relationship or to found out if that person is as they say they are, in every way.
It's like a penpal kind of concept, to me .. the meeting is where it really starts
serene56: I use these sites purely for entertainment value
You can't possibly get to know someone by tapping away on a keyboard back and forth, let's face it.
And until you meet that person, in the flesh, you haven't even begun a relationship or to found out if that person is as they say they are, in every way.
It's like a penpal kind of concept, to me .. the meeting is where it really starts
I think it pays to step back from this regularly and realise that it's really not worth all the agony and angst that people seem to put themselves through
Most on here seem to long for someone who's far away, with little or no hope of ever meeting them.
A reality check now and then is healthy, in my opinion.
Just enjoy the fun and don't take it too seriously is all Im suggesting, as many of us do
I think it pays to step back from this regularly and realise that it's really not worth all the agony and angst that people seem to put themselves through
Most on here seem to long for someone who's far away, with little or no hope of ever meeting them.
A reality check now and then is healthy, in my opinion.
Just enjoy the fun and don't take it too seriously is all Im suggesting, as many of us do
Once again i have to agree with what you are saying lass,i find it very hard to be serious here on the forums,some folks here with totally amazing personalities and not realise the talents that they have as people..
Sep 24, 2010 3:07 AM CST Do u think is better not wait too much in net..
LanilenPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand37 Posts
LanilenPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand37 posts
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
I always try to move it to meatspace after just a few emails, it very handily separates the time wasters from those that may actually be interested in dating.
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
Dont know about others but i always present my reality and u can find me the same or may be some better in real life
I learned it's better to take your time & get to know a person over time , pay attention to what the say & how they react about things get to see there inner personality first.
rebelluvr: I learned it's better to take your time & get to know a person over time , pay attention to what the say & how they react about things get to see there inner personality first. or you might windup with a stalker
Wow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK3,698 posts
I think a few messages back and forth, then chatting on webcam on messenger, then a meet-up as soon as possible. All perhaps within the space of perhaps 3 weeks or so.
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
claudya: Do u think is better not wait too much in net ,communicating to much with a person making plans and after u meet that person in real ,u realize the things are other instead of net ,he/she tells u other real things instead what he/she told u in net and u realize u can't engage in such relationship and u become dissapointed?
things dont appear as they turn out to be... That is just part of life and dating.. It sucks!!
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