I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies... ( Archived) (127)

Nov 24, 2010 1:06 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
lovelyliza
lovelylizalovelylizabethlehem, Pennsylvania USA12 Threads 2 Polls 488 Posts
These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story...
Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion..love frustrated he,he,he
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Nov 24, 2010 1:07 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Lol. Bless you.
Im not needy...i dont need one tongue
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Nov 24, 2010 1:19 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
todd3789
todd3789todd3789Gainesville, Missouri USA9 Posts
Amity: Lol. Bless you.
Im not needy...i dont need one
I don`t need a woman but I do want a woman that I can love for the rest of my life that won`t leave when life gets tough.
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Nov 24, 2010 1:21 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
There is no female or male banners... only ourselves with deep aspirations and desires that we need to listen to and try to fulfill. dunno
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Nov 24, 2010 1:23 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
todd3789
todd3789todd3789Gainesville, Missouri USA9 Posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story...
Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
I think women should learn there place. It`s not in front of the man or behind him, it`s beside him.
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Nov 24, 2010 1:25 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
todd3789: I think women should learn there place. It`s not in front of the man or behind him, it`s beside him.



With a frying pan in her hand.J/K

Actually I agree.
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Nov 24, 2010 1:31 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story...
Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he


I'm reading this as not most women our age (the mature age), but many young women do this. Some do act very needy and attach quickly, as if in their 20's they are going to be "old maids".
And it is very much low self esteem. I've personally seen it, and I've had long discussions with some of the younger gals. I don't get it either.
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Nov 24, 2010 1:42 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
kidatheart: I think you meant berth.....it's obvious where you're mind is at. I do agree with your post though.

Freudian slip, grin angel devil
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Nov 24, 2010 1:46 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
My thoughts on this are that I often find overall that it's men who may not feel complete without a woman by their side.

I've discussed this with single male friends and they've tended to agree conversing

Nothing wrong with that, it's perfectly natural, but I don't really feel that women in particular should be branded as "needy" .. some are, but many, most definitely, are not wine
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Nov 24, 2010 1:57 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
kidatheart: I think you meant berth.....it's obvious where you're mind is at. I do agree with your post though.
OMG - I can't believe I wrote that!!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Just making sure you are paying attention! thumbs up
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Nov 24, 2010 2:09 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
langleygirl: OMG - I can't believe I wrote that!!! Just making sure you are paying attention!


thumbs up


hug

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Nov 24, 2010 2:12 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story...
Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
im not sure what exactly is your suggestion here LL..no offence,but sounds pretty bitter to me...its been awhile,since women have been equal to men,and moving forward too..men,same as women can be needy,maybe they dont express it the same way as we do..but,we are not the same...are you suggesting going back to the caves or we women simply have to ignore the existance of men..confused failing to see the point here..bouquet
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Nov 24, 2010 2:35 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
Highjacking for a just a minute some people on this thread I have seen for a while or very often so I wanted to pop on amd say HI for those who celebrate Thanksgiving I hope you all have agreat on! And for those that domnt still hope u have a fantastic week!! Great to see you all.. k back to subject here lolteddybear
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Nov 24, 2010 2:38 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
langleygirl: OMG - I can't believe I wrote that!!! Just making sure you are paying attention!



I pay attention to details.wink

bouquet
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Nov 24, 2010 2:42 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
Any person will be treated ONLY as they allow another to treat them, this goes the same in all areas of life whether it be a relative, friend or romantic interest.

I don't think this thread is about male bashing at all, it is written by a lady that is trying to figure out things in her life and is looking for input from others.

Relationships take time and sometimes there are obstacles to overcome, but things will happen in its own time, as it is supposed to and when it is supposed to happen.

Stop trying to rush things, enjoy your life and let the chips fall where they may, I think (some) people are in such a rush to be with another person they overlook or dismiss certain things which is never good because when you compromise yourself too much, it's called settling and that's not fair to the other person or yourself.
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Nov 24, 2010 2:43 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
gemeh22: Highjacking for a just a minute some people on this thread I have seen for a while or very often so I wanted to pop on amd say HI for those who celebrate Thanksgiving I hope you all have agreat on! And for those that domnt still hope u have a fantastic week!! Great to see you all.. k back to subject here lol


You too Gemeh! hug wine
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Nov 24, 2010 2:47 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story...
Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he


Well im not needy, have been on my own eight years and every day is a great one!!!yay yay yay applause bouquet
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Nov 24, 2010 2:50 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
englishelegance: Well im not needy, have been on my own eight years and every day is a great one!!!


It's really good to see a lady who is not needy and independent, I wish you happinessgrin angel devil
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Nov 24, 2010 2:50 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
englishelegance: Well im not needy, have been on my own eight years and every day is a great one!!!

well I aint a lady,
I am needy as hell,
never been on my own without a woman,
I started young and traded mama in for a wife..
and now all my days are crappy cause I got no female..moping
Please help the disadvantaged like me...blushing

nerd ---SoldierByte---typing
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Nov 24, 2010 2:52 PM CST I would like to say!!!Pls. Ladies...
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
tomcatwarne: It's really good to see a lady who is not needy and independent, I wish you happiness


Thank youwave
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