These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story... Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story... Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
I think women should learn there place. It`s not in front of the man or behind him, it`s beside him.
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story... Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
I'm reading this as not most women our age (the mature age), but many young women do this. Some do act very needy and attach quickly, as if in their 20's they are going to be "old maids". And it is very much low self esteem. I've personally seen it, and I've had long discussions with some of the younger gals. I don't get it either.
My thoughts on this are that I often find overall that it's men who may not feel complete without a woman by their side.
I've discussed this with single male friends and they've tended to agree
Nothing wrong with that, it's perfectly natural, but I don't really feel that women in particular should be branded as "needy" .. some are, but many, most definitely, are not
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story... Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
im not sure what exactly is your suggestion here LL..no offence,but sounds pretty bitter to me...its been awhile,since women have been equal to men,and moving forward too..men,same as women can be needy,maybe they dont express it the same way as we do..but,we are not the same...are you suggesting going back to the caves or we women simply have to ignore the existance of men.. failing to see the point here..
Highjacking for a just a minute some people on this thread I have seen for a while or very often so I wanted to pop on amd say HI for those who celebrate Thanksgiving I hope you all have agreat on! And for those that domnt still hope u have a fantastic week!! Great to see you all.. k back to subject here lol
Any person will be treated ONLY as they allow another to treat them, this goes the same in all areas of life whether it be a relative, friend or romantic interest.
I don't think this thread is about male bashing at all, it is written by a lady that is trying to figure out things in her life and is looking for input from others.
Relationships take time and sometimes there are obstacles to overcome, but things will happen in its own time, as it is supposed to and when it is supposed to happen.
Stop trying to rush things, enjoy your life and let the chips fall where they may, I think (some) people are in such a rush to be with another person they overlook or dismiss certain things which is never good because when you compromise yourself too much, it's called settling and that's not fair to the other person or yourself.
gemeh22: Highjacking for a just a minute some people on this thread I have seen for a while or very often so I wanted to pop on amd say HI for those who celebrate Thanksgiving I hope you all have agreat on! And for those that domnt still hope u have a fantastic week!! Great to see you all.. k back to subject here lol
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
lovelyliza: These topic pertains to "LADIES" only..but guys are welcome to comment....LADIES,,,I am sad to keep reading the sad stories about Love and Relationship that is not going anywhere,women that are doubting themselves if the guy their dating really love and vice-versa..And I am one of those ladies who posted a "PIty Me" story... Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he
Well im not needy, have been on my own eight years and every day is a great one!!!
englishelegance: Well im not needy, have been on my own eight years and every day is a great one!!!
well I aint a lady, I am needy as hell, never been on my own without a woman, I started young and traded mama in for a wife.. and now all my days are crappy cause I got no female.. Please help the disadvantaged like me... ---SoldierByte---
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Ladies, this is only my suggestion..Why??can't we go back to the traditional values..that the men/guys were the ones that really wanted the love from a woman and not the other way around...IT'S TIME TO DEFEND OUR BANNER LADIES...WE HAVE VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND THE ONE'S THAT IS THE NURTURING...and men loves that quality in a woman...WE have to stop being NEEDY and show them that WE can live without THEM...Don't get mad!!ok??..this is just for discussion.. he,he,he