how did you end your last relationship (108)
hellosailor: Yes and you just wonder how one can get it so wrong , but life will go on and i am over it now..
Glad to hear it .. it's one thing suspecting it but ..
Better days ahead
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StillOfTheNight: My ex broke up with me because I did not get over my fathers death quick enough for her. Was not feeling good one night, I explained to her I was missing my father and that same night, she broke up with me.
Sounds like you're well rid SOTN
Amazing that some folk put a timescale on the grieving process, depression and emotions. Like we can just snap out of it 
With my ex, I packed up his belongings and put them into his car... and then told him that I wanted him to go. I then changed the locks.
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70Libra: Sounds like you're well rid SOTN Amazing that some folk put a timescale on the grieving process, depression and emotions. Like we can just snap out of it
With my ex, I packed up his belongings and put them into his car... and then told him that I wanted him to go. I then changed the locks.
With my ex, I packed up his belongings and put them into his car... and then told him that I wanted him to go. I then changed the locks.
It took me a long time to get over that
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StillOfTheNight: It took me a long time to get over that
I'm sorry Still. She missed out on a good guy!
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StillOfTheNight: It took me a long time to get over that
I still have both my parents but I feel for your loss
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He stalked me long after the relationship ended, maybe about two years after. I ended up having to (very childishly) blank him because he seemed to gain hope from being told to eff off 
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I am ending it in divorce...he found his computer more interesting than me....He was too enthralled with his war games and became abusive in his speech to me, so he is gone....
NO, he isn't taking it well. He comes from a family that seems to bully to get their way....so... 
NO, he isn't taking it well. He comes from a family that seems to bully to get their way....so...
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My ex was suppose to be taking care of his sick mother one weekend,I needed to ask him some thing so i called his mothers house.His mom told me Lord Hunny he hasn't spend the night here since you two got married,hes not here.When he got home on Sunday evening his bags were packed,setting out side the back door,end of story...Drama over.
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blarneykite: I left rather than retaliate to the ongoing violence, at least that way I can still see my kids........ Funny how most see the victims of DV as being women
Except for in cases involving drugs and/or booze, most cases of domestic violence are the result of a women not knowing when to back off and let men cool off. When a man gets angry, it's never a good idea to push your luck unless you are willing to get into a physical confrontation. It takes two to tango. Just sayin'
When women are the abusers, men usually don't report it because they're ashamed or because the police would laugh at them. Some women take advantage of that. Women do all kinds of crazy stuff, too, if the man reports them to the police, like breaking their own arm by slamming it in the freezer door or burning themselves with a curling iron to make it look like their man abused them. Most men in situations with women like that have a hard time getting out.
Glad to see you got out of there.
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jac379: He stalked me long after the relationship ended, maybe about two years after. I ended up having to (very childishly) blank him because he seemed to gain hope from being told to eff off
i know, i know...here you are just trying to say that you are sooooooooo desirable by men (and i don't despute that at all)
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demonfairy: My ex was suppose to be taking care of his sick mother one weekend,I needed to ask him some thing so i called his mothers house.His mom told me Lord Hunny he hasn't spend the night here since you two got married,hes not here.When he got home on Sunday evening his bags were packed,setting out side the back door,end of story...Drama over.
Guess he never told you that his mother has Alzheimer ....
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jac379: He stalked me long after the relationship ended, maybe about two years after. I ended up having to (very childishly) blank him because he seemed to gain hope from being told to eff off
I had one of those
It went on for a good couple of years too .. he even called me at work 
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They didnt like it.I had one hanging onto each leg,another wrapped around my waist,one tyring to kiss me to pieces,and two threatening to commit suicide,but thats life.
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thelastgoodman0: Except for in cases involving drugs and/or booze, most cases of domestic violence are the result of a women not knowing when to back off and let men cool off. When a man gets angry, it's never a good idea to push your luck unless you are willing to get into a physical confrontation. It takes two to tango. Just sayin'
When women are the abusers, men usually don't report it because they're ashamed or because the police would laugh at them. Some women take advantage of that. Women do all kinds of crazy stuff, too, if the man reports them to the police, like breaking their own arm by slamming it in the freezer door or burning themselves with a curling iron to make it look like their man abused them. Most men in situations with women like that have a hard time getting out.
Glad to see you got out of there.
When women are the abusers, men usually don't report it because they're ashamed or because the police would laugh at them. Some women take advantage of that. Women do all kinds of crazy stuff, too, if the man reports them to the police, like breaking their own arm by slamming it in the freezer door or burning themselves with a curling iron to make it look like their man abused them. Most men in situations with women like that have a hard time getting out.
Glad to see you got out of there.
I agree with you here...some women do take advantage and know that most of the time, the police won't do anything to protect the man in this situation......It's just a shame....there are always two sides and the guy should be able to afford the same rites as the woman.
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In response to: and who was hurt the most.....
Both of us..it was ended in silence! I even took a holiday to forget it!!!
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Can I answer that one on Monday? I am going over to see her this weekend and telling her it is over.
If no one sees me here on Monday, can you please call the police and tell them.
If no one sees me here on Monday, can you please call the police and tell them.
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thelastgoodman0: Except for in cases involving drugs and/or booze, most cases of domestic violence are the result of a women not knowing when to back off and let men cool off. When a man gets angry, it's never a good idea to push your luck unless you are willing to get into a physical confrontation. It takes two to tango. Just sayin'
When women are the abusers, men usually don't report it because they're ashamed or because the police would laugh at them. Some women take advantage of that. Women do all kinds of crazy stuff, too, if the man reports them to the police, like breaking their own arm by slamming it in the freezer door or burning themselves with a curling iron to make it look like their man abused them. Most men in situations with women like that have a hard time getting out.
Glad to see you got out of there.
When women are the abusers, men usually don't report it because they're ashamed or because the police would laugh at them. Some women take advantage of that. Women do all kinds of crazy stuff, too, if the man reports them to the police, like breaking their own arm by slamming it in the freezer door or burning themselves with a curling iron to make it look like their man abused them. Most men in situations with women like that have a hard time getting out.
Glad to see you got out of there.
Thanks TLGM... The kicker was when I was arrested and removed in handcuffs, having been kicked in the balls twice and punched in the face several times in front of our kids.... funny thing is as a 2nd dan I could have snapped her in half....... Had I defended myself I wouldnt have seen my kids again, however in the states eyes she's the better parent...Funny Hey
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gmanblue: Can I answer that one on Monday? I am going over to see her this weekend and telling her it is over.
If no one sees me here on Monday, can you please call the police and tell them.
If no one sees me here on Monday, can you please call the police and tell them.
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blarneykite: Thanks TLGM... The kicker was when I was arrested and removed in handcuffs, having been kicked in the balls twice and punched in the face several times in front of our kids.... funny thing is as a 2nd dan I could have snapped her in half....... Had I defended myself I wouldnt have seen my kids again, however in the states eyes she's the better parent...Funny Hey
Not at all funny. I hope you have been able to move on and leave this behind you though.
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Sorry hellosailor, but it wasn't about YOU, it was HIS stuff. Hope you find someone more deserving!