LegsEleven8OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia253 posts
thewall2: Alot of it also has to do with your bringing..if you had negative affirmations as a kid..they tend to get carried with you into adulthood...on a sub conscious level sometimes. You need to hang around positive people who are gonna give you positive affirmations.
Yep! And break the wall down! Hey are you a Jericho fan? of the WWE..
LegsEleven8: Yep! And break the wall down! Hey are you a Jericho fan? of the WWE..
Not really..more JOHN Cena.
But seriously,sometimes it's subconscious..maybe a bad experience which can hurt someone's confidence. Could be a combination of thing.
One of my friends..was very depressed,he never felt like doing anything..he was depressed..and what it turned out he needed was some INSIGHT..ON WHY HE WAS BEING HELD back...why he ws depressed..
and once he got that insight...he was back into the swing of life.
LegsEleven8OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia253 posts
thewall2: Not really..more JOHN Cena. But seriously,sometimes it's subconscious..maybe a bad experience which can hurt someone's confidence. Could be a combination of thing.
One of my friends..was very depressed,he never felt like doing anything..he was depressed..and what it turned out he needed was some INSIGHT..ON WHY HE WAS BEING HELD back...why he ws depressed..
and once he got that insight...he was back into the swing of life.
Ya Cena is cool. Yea sometimes we are like a battery that needs to be charged. I am happy that your friend is back into the swing of life, I love happy stories
LegsEleven8: Ya Cena is cool. Yea sometimes we are like a battery that needs to be charged. I am happy that your friend is back into the swing of life, I love happy stories
Dec 18, 2010 8:56 PM CST It really is about self confidence and belief in yourself!
bellatrixnewcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK115 Posts
bellatrixnewcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK115 posts
thewall2: If I CAN GIVE MY OPINION,you don't have to tell her every other day...she probably knows it.
Just be there for her when she needs you...she's your sis.
yes, she knows i am always here......she phones me constantly to get reassurance.....which i always give her....and which is essentially nagging by now because theyr is only ever one right answer that she finds acceptable
Hey legs eleven...howsw the stepping going....confidence in both male and female is an attractive quality....look in the mirror, tell yourself everyday what good qualities you have....you dont strike me as lacking confidence.....dont't doubt yourself xxx
Dec 18, 2010 9:17 PM CST It really is about self confidence and belief in yourself!
southbaynativeLos Angeles County, California USA26 Posts
southbaynativeLos Angeles County, California USA26 posts
Really? In my career I see many children with unnaturally high opinions of themselves borne out by nothing except doting parents. 1/4 of all university freshmen in a recent study tested as clinically narcissistic. I prefer humility.
Dec 18, 2010 9:28 PM CST It really is about self confidence and belief in yourself!
bellatrixnewcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK115 Posts
bellatrixnewcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK115 posts
southbaynative: Really? In my career I see many children with unnaturally high opinions of themselves borne out by nothing except doting parents. 1/4 of all university freshmen in a recent study tested as clinically narcissistic. I prefer humility.
LegsEleven8OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia253 posts
dolphin1: Hey legs eleven...howsw the stepping going....confidence in both male and female is an attractive quality....look in the mirror, tell yourself everyday what good qualities you have....you dont strike me as lacking confidence.....dont't doubt yourself xxx
Yes thanks for that, and yea the steps work well, hehe I do 50 is that enough? How many do you do? I always do em after the treadmill so my muscles are warm. ;)
You can do anything in life just because YOU CAN....the choice is your'es to make...the challenge is your'es to take...go on..you can be as confident as you want to be...or..as despondant as you want to be...i dare you to love you..
In response to: You can be a great looking person and have great inner qualities, but if you lack confidence and self belief, then you won't amount to much sadly. Yes, you may all call me Mr Obvious from now on, but it's all true. Need to feel alive and confident inside! Maybe this is a thread addressed to me as well lol. I dunno, just felt like making this...
LegsEleven8OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia253 posts
scottyburd: You can do anything in life just because YOU CAN....the choice is your'es to make...the challenge is your'es to take...go on..you can be as confident as you want to be...or..as despondant as you want to be...i dare you to love you..
Not only an adorable face aye? Thanks for that sweet one. I shall try.
LegsEleven8: You can be a great looking person and have great inner qualities, but if you lack confidence and self belief, then you won't amount to much sadly. Yes, you may all call me Mr Obvious from now on, but it's all true. Need to feel alive and confident inside! Maybe this is a thread addressed to me as well lol. I dunno, just felt like making this...
there is a saying in my country ,which goes something like this: "God gave beauty to stupid people as compensation" In my case, he made a exception ... and gave me nothing...
Boban1: there is a saying in my country ,which goes something like this: "God gave beauty to stupid people as compensation" In my case, he made a exception ... and gave me nothing...
Some folks just dont realise how beautiful they are
LegsEleven8: Indeed it does haha yesterday I was walking past a well I'll say gas station and a woman pulled up to a pump whilst looking at my legs as I walked past, I then heard her car starting up again, coz she was looking at me she drove too far in front of the pump adorable!
That is hilarious.
I almost caused a traffic accident in Birmi this summer wearing my shortest mini skirt and platform heels walking along a busy street.
Now that is the kind of thing that boosts confidence.
So, when you going to upload a photo of these infamous legs? After all, I showed you mine...
That's right, Leg Boy. I just double-dog dared you.
LegsEleven8: You can be a great looking person and have great inner qualities, but if you lack confidence and self belief, then you won't amount to much sadly. Yes, you may all call me Mr Obvious from now on, but it's all true. Need to feel alive and confident inside! Maybe this is a thread addressed to me as well lol. I dunno, just felt like making this...
Did you write this for me? I really need a bit of self confidence - perhaps Santa will leave some under the tree... I know I'm getting better but sometimes it's easier to hide away ...another day I could look anyone in the eye - swings and roundabouts I guess...
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You need to hang around positive people who are gonna give you positive affirmations.
Yep! And break the wall down! Hey are you a Jericho fan? of the WWE..