Sometimes men are so sick.... (64)
JAN_is: Thanks Cusp and thanks again to all of you who have given such good advice and support.
I´m going to phone a police student of mine tomorrow morning and make an official report. I think by doing that I will at the very least be less nervous when I come come home from work late in the evening, and as others have said it may stop this lunatic from thinking about doing it again to anybody else.
You´re a good crowd, thank you.
I´m going to phone a police student of mine tomorrow morning and make an official report. I think by doing that I will at the very least be less nervous when I come come home from work late in the evening, and as others have said it may stop this lunatic from thinking about doing it again to anybody else.
You´re a good crowd, thank you.
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JAN is,
If you can't discribe him then be more prepared in the future. There's always going to be freaks and peverts out there. When walking to your car have your keys already out and door-key ready, the same with your going to your house from your car. They have Key-fab devices that can turn on your enterence-way lights from your car or if walking. If you don't want to carry Mace, go to a Sporting Goods store and ask for a 'FOX 40' or 'STORMER' whistle(s). The loudest (Key-Chain, Sporting) mouth-blown whistles made, about $4. to $8.'s .
GOOD LUCK
If you can't discribe him then be more prepared in the future. There's always going to be freaks and peverts out there. When walking to your car have your keys already out and door-key ready, the same with your going to your house from your car. They have Key-fab devices that can turn on your enterence-way lights from your car or if walking. If you don't want to carry Mace, go to a Sporting Goods store and ask for a 'FOX 40' or 'STORMER' whistle(s). The loudest (Key-Chain, Sporting) mouth-blown whistles made, about $4. to $8.'s .
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JAN_is: .....I arrived home from work this evening at 10.30pm and was just putting the key in the door to the apartment block when I felt something, a hand in fact, reach up quickly behind me and very high up under my skirt. I yelped with fright and saw a man rushing off. I struggled then to get the key to turn as my hands were shaking so much, and this same man did an about turn, and approached me again with his hand hiding his face. I managed to get inside the building, but with hindsight, I don´t think he was going to touch me again.
What on earth possessed this man to do such a thing? It´s never happened to me before, and I felt ill when I finally entered my flat, so much so that I immediately showered and threw all the clothes I´d been wearing in the wash basket even though my outer garments had only been worn for a couple of hours.
I´ve been doing a little work on the computer since and trying not to think about it, but I´m still feeling rather queasy.
No funny comments please, however well meaning they be.
What on earth possessed this man to do such a thing? It´s never happened to me before, and I felt ill when I finally entered my flat, so much so that I immediately showered and threw all the clothes I´d been wearing in the wash basket even though my outer garments had only been worn for a couple of hours.
I´ve been doing a little work on the computer since and trying not to think about it, but I´m still feeling rather queasy.
No funny comments please, however well meaning they be.
OMG Jan! I am glad you are ok . Why did you not call the cops?
You have to be careful
do you know him, what if he may be lurking around the area? 
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KEANU13: JAN is,
If you can't discribe him then be more prepared in the future. There's always going to be freaks and peverts out there. When walking to your car have your keys already out and door-key ready, the same with your going to your house from your car. They have Key-fab devices that can turn on your enterence-way lights from your car or if walking. If you don't want to carry Mace, go to a Sporting Goods store and ask for a 'FOX 40' or 'STORMER' whistle(s). The loudest (Key-Chain, Sporting) mouth-blown whistles made, about $4. to $8.'s . GOOD LUCK
If you can't discribe him then be more prepared in the future. There's always going to be freaks and peverts out there. When walking to your car have your keys already out and door-key ready, the same with your going to your house from your car. They have Key-fab devices that can turn on your enterence-way lights from your car or if walking. If you don't want to carry Mace, go to a Sporting Goods store and ask for a 'FOX 40' or 'STORMER' whistle(s). The loudest (Key-Chain, Sporting) mouth-blown whistles made, about $4. to $8.'s . GOOD LUCK
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suggasugga: Jan sorry to hear this and you are not alone you have your family here on the site ok.
I dont know if you guys remember I told I moved from where I was because I felt the manager was going into my place. After moved to this place I thought it was over boy was I wrong. I had a run with this midget at my job and he's in cohost with the lock smith that works for my job and they have been in my new place. When they come in they go thru my persal effects and god knows what else. does no use to change the locks when you are dealing with a lock smith. i cant afford a camera yet. i am to the point i want to load up a gun. Please I know I will go to jail if do that but just so freaking stressed and my own family doesnt even believe and thats part that hurts the worse
I dont know if you guys remember I told I moved from where I was because I felt the manager was going into my place. After moved to this place I thought it was over boy was I wrong. I had a run with this midget at my job and he's in cohost with the lock smith that works for my job and they have been in my new place. When they come in they go thru my persal effects and god knows what else. does no use to change the locks when you are dealing with a lock smith. i cant afford a camera yet. i am to the point i want to load up a gun. Please I know I will go to jail if do that but just so freaking stressed and my own family doesnt even believe and thats part that hurts the worse
sorry
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So sorry for you Jan, that happens every where.
We must be prepared. Here in Mexico I carry a pepper gas in my hand when ever coming late home.
btw that has happened to me too in a parking lot but the guy would not want to remember it. One of my brothers (who happens to be on law enforcement) was walking behind me but the guy did not see him, so you can imagine what the outcome was.
It is good that you will report it to the police and you must alert your neighbors as well.
Ask to some neighbor to wait for you at night (you can give them a phone call before leaving work)and reciprocate the favor too. We do it here.
And there is lots of info on the net to learn some facts and protect ourselves better.
Take care girl!
We must be prepared. Here in Mexico I carry a pepper gas in my hand when ever coming late home.
btw that has happened to me too in a parking lot but the guy would not want to remember it. One of my brothers (who happens to be on law enforcement) was walking behind me but the guy did not see him, so you can imagine what the outcome was.
It is good that you will report it to the police and you must alert your neighbors as well.
Ask to some neighbor to wait for you at night (you can give them a phone call before leaving work)and reciprocate the favor too. We do it here.
And there is lots of info on the net to learn some facts and protect ourselves better.
Take care girl!
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sultryash: OMG Jan! I am glad you are ok . Why did you not call the cops?
You have to be careful do you know him, what if he may be lurking around the area?
You have to be careful do you know him, what if he may be lurking around the area?
I´m ok and I didn´t phone the police because I thought this man was just a sick chancer out for a quick thrill. He didn´t pose a real threat I don´t think, but I have decided to report it now.
I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
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sultryash: sorry why dont you try going to the police.......maybe install a cam...there is a set of security cam......its three in the set..I cant remember the name but they are small and can easily be hidden .....maybe if you check online you may find it......hope you are alright
you cant just call without proof I know who it but I need tangible proof b4 they can do anything hopefully when I get my taxes I can but ty Sultry------ This thread is Archived ------
JAN_is: I´m ok and I didn´t phone the police because I thought this man was just a sick chancer out for a quick thrill. He didn´t pose a real threat I don´t think, but I have decided to report it now.
I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
Jan, the next time you have something in your hands and your keys should always be in your hands b4 you approach the door. I just saw that you dont drive still be prepared with keys in your hands and some kind of weapon small scissors or something whistle something.I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
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JAN_is: I don´t think it would do any good as I couldn´t give a good enough description, but you may be right and I do have students in the police so maybe I should.
I know I´m going to be quite nervous when I arrive home tomorrow night. I´m so angry now. Isn´t it strange how we go through these different troughs of emotions when something happens like this.
Can you carry pepper/mace where you live? If so, it comes in small (like a purse-sized flashlight) cans, also they have some that attach to key rings. If not, consider a small flashlight. Some are now made with a very, very bright light, just flashing it in an attackers face is enough to get a moment or two to get away or call for help. This guy is dangerous, that's a bold move he made, and indicates he would do much more. Make a report, even though you don't feel it would do any good. I am so lucky to live in a small beach town. We don't have too much of this around here. Sorry it happened, Love--please care for yourself and make sure of your environment at all times.I know I´m going to be quite nervous when I arrive home tomorrow night. I´m so angry now. Isn´t it strange how we go through these different troughs of emotions when something happens like this.
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JAN_is: I´m ok and I didn´t phone the police because I thought this man was just a sick chancer out for a quick thrill. He didn´t pose a real threat I don´t think, but I have decided to report it now.
I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
a man who sneaks up behind a woman and puts his hand up her clothes IS a REAL threat. Good that you aren't going to brush this off. Gosh I'm worried about you. Am praying hard for your safety. I count you as a tangible friend.I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
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JAN_is: I´m ok and I didn´t phone the police because I thought this man was just a sick chancer out for a quick thrill. He didn´t pose a real threat I don´t think, but I have decided to report it now.
I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
I don´t drive by the way to those who have mentioned car safety. I travel to and from work either on foot or by bus.
Thank you once again to all of you. I´m going to bed now, but with a much more relaxed frame of mind since before I posted the thread.
Have a good sleep Jan! And be careful out there
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wow sorry you were violated, that is awful and I hope they can catch him
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I can tell you this much Jan,he would have been shot if he had tried something like that down here in Texas.either that or some good ole boys would have hunted him down.
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JAN_is: .....I arrived home from work this evening at 10.30pm and was just putting the key in the door to the apartment block when I felt something, a hand in fact, reach up quickly behind me and very high up under my skirt. I yelped with fright and saw a man rushing off. I struggled then to get the key to turn as my hands were shaking so much, and this same man did an about turn, and approached me again with his hand hiding his face. I managed to get inside the building, but with hindsight, I don´t think he was going to touch me again.
What on earth possessed this man to do such a thing? It´s never happened to me before, and I felt ill when I finally entered my flat, so much so that I immediately showered and threw all the clothes I´d been wearing in the wash basket even though my outer garments had only been worn for a couple of hours.
I´ve been doing a little work on the computer since and trying not to think about it, but I´m still feeling rather queasy.
No funny comments please, however well meaning they be.
What on earth possessed this man to do such a thing? It´s never happened to me before, and I felt ill when I finally entered my flat, so much so that I immediately showered and threw all the clothes I´d been wearing in the wash basket even though my outer garments had only been worn for a couple of hours.
I´ve been doing a little work on the computer since and trying not to think about it, but I´m still feeling rather queasy.
No funny comments please, however well meaning they be.
Jan_is..I'm so sorry that you had this happen to you.
Is it legal to carry mace or pepper spray in Spain? If so, get some as quickly as possible.
I agree with the other poster's that have advised you to call the police..you've been victimized and this person needs to be caught, cuffed, stuffed and prosecuted....you deserve justice!
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Jan I'm glad you are ok. Call and report it to the police. Try not to come hpme by yourself tommorrow.
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Jan, can you have someone walk you home tomorrow from work.
Or as Life said, call a neighbor, they need to be on the look also.
I lived in a apt. and there was a peeping tom. A ladies husband would patrol at night with a baseball. That made us ladies more comfortable.
I would use your car key as a weapon when walking around as well as pepper spray.
He did violate you and it really upsets me that he bothered you.
Take care,
The DObe
Or as Life said, call a neighbor, they need to be on the look also.
I lived in a apt. and there was a peeping tom. A ladies husband would patrol at night with a baseball. That made us ladies more comfortable.
I would use your car key as a weapon when walking around as well as pepper spray.
He did violate you and it really upsets me that he bothered you.
Take care,
The DObe
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Hi Jan,
Sorry You had this Bad experience, and yes you should Report this, tho for about 59 Dollars, or less, You can ger whats called a trail Cam, It is for Hunting tho,(sporting Goods ) it could be set up arround there and will take pics, by motion, only a thought to get a REAL pic, they work at night too, just My Thought...
Its hard without identification, just thinking what I would do, i would set up a camra, Hope this helps...
Sorry You had this Bad experience, and yes you should Report this, tho for about 59 Dollars, or less, You can ger whats called a trail Cam, It is for Hunting tho,(sporting Goods ) it could be set up arround there and will take pics, by motion, only a thought to get a REAL pic, they work at night too, just My Thought...
Its hard without identification, just thinking what I would do, i would set up a camra, Hope this helps...
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I dont know if you guys remember I told I moved from where I was because I felt the manager was going into my place. After moved to this place I thought it was over boy was I wrong. I had a run with this midget at my job and he's in cohost with the lock smith that works for my job and they have been in my new place. When they come in they go thru my persal effects and god knows what else. does no use to change the locks when you are dealing with a lock smith. i cant afford a camera yet. i am to the point i want to load up a gun. Please I know I will go to jail if do that but just so freaking stressed and my own family doesnt even believe and thats part that hurts the worse