Can you forgive? (127)
time4fun4u: I am a very calm,logical person.If someone does something to me,i will not in any shape or form let it affect me emotionally.I will mentally just cut them off,and have no contact with them.
So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.
So,for me,its not a case of forgiving,its a case of erasing.
Suppose the people are family?
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newinsouth: Suppose the people are family?
No differant.If they deserve it from thier actions,then they live with the consequences.Its thier problem,they carry it,not me.
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time4fun4u: No differant.If they deserve it from thier actions,then they live with the consequences.Its thier problem,they carry it,not me.
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time4fun4u: No differant.If they deserve it from thier actions,then they live with the consequences.Its thier problem,they carry it,not me.
Yes, I can forgive.........................
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
You have to find the balance depending of what you forgive, how much, which way and who you forgive.For example to forgive some ppl for them is the worst punishment...Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
You have to find the balance depending of what you forgive, how much, which way and who you forgive.For example to forgive some ppl for them is the worst punishment...Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
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leigh2154: Yes, I can forgive.........................
I havnt done anything wrong yet,have i? 
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In response to: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
i always forgive but forgetting is the hardest but ull learn by nor forgetting the next timeCan you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
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I think forgiveness is about self.
You don't forgive other people for just being who they are.
You forgive yourself for not recognising who they are.
I believe most anger needing forgiveness, stems from self-disgust.
You don't forgive other people for just being who they are.
You forgive yourself for not recognising who they are.
I believe most anger needing forgiveness, stems from self-disgust.
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GingerBe: I think forgiveness is about self.
You don't forgive other people for just being who they are.
You forgive yourself for not recognising who they are.
I believe most anger needing forgiveness, stems from self-disgust.
You don't forgive other people for just being who they are.
You forgive yourself for not recognising who they are.
I believe most anger needing forgiveness, stems from self-disgust.
Wise words.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Wise words.
Thanks NMP.
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
For me, if someone has treated me badly, it is not really a matter of forgiving &/or forgetting, it's a matter of I just don't want them in my life. So, they are gone, no long part of my life. Real friends don't treat you badly or hurt you. A partner, if it is a good relationship, will not do something to hurt you, not intentionally or thoughtlessly.Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
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i forgive alot....sometimes too much and i get my heart run ove...then i forgive again...its a fault
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Women NEVER,EVER forget.....may be able to forgive....but will bring it up 6 years later!!Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
That's a pretty sound philosophy.
It's a waste of precious time remaining bitter.
In the end you only hurt yourself!
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ReadyToTryAgain: Women NEVER,EVER forget.....may be able to forgive....but will bring it up 6 years later!!
Speaking from your own experience, which does not mean to say the whole of the female race behave in this way.
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Amity: Are you capable of letting something go?
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Can you forgive and forget?
I guess it is based on circumstances but i wonder if i am sometimes TOO forgiving.
I tend to forget any hurt that has been caused and want to make amends.
My view is life is too short, and i wouldnt want to wish harm or bad meaning on anyone..
Your views?(P.S... this is my all grown up n sensible thread)
Yep,forgiveness is the best way to heal your own hurts and time will help you forget.
If you don't forgive you will never forget and the pain stays with you.
nice question Amity
As always JMO
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ReadyToTryAgain: Women NEVER,EVER forget.....may be able to forgive....but will bring it up 6 years later!!
i guess you are not quite READYTOTRYAGAIN,you haven't got over the past yet
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