darren9030: Yes loads of internet dates. That is what dating sites are for
Exactly. I've been using CS since the end of October and have had a number of dates with other members. It's a resource and should be approached with common sense and lack of fear.
MvdakkerDen Haag, South Holland Netherlands13 posts
well i agree... I went once and it was the first, I think the person is nice.But u ll never know still.. Donno I still find online meetings a bit strange..
Mvdakker: well i agree... I went once and it was the first, I think the person is nice.But u ll never know still.. Donno I still find online meetings a bit strange..
I've read this thread with great interest. Ive not been on an actual date as yet. Just lots of chatting.
Even as a guy. I'm probably extremely over cautious. I'm just thankful that I'm not a woman else I'd probably find it even harder. Especially with the seemingly increasing number of creeps out there.
But as someone else infered, 'one bad apple should'nt spoil the whole bunch'.
In response to: HI GUYS, I HAVE BEEN ON AN INTERNET DATE ONCE(MET THE GUY ON LINE AND THEN WENT TO MEET HIM) IT WAS A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE,PUT IT IN SHORT, IT DIDNT GO WELL AS HE EXPECTED ME TO STAY THE NIGHT APPARENTLY LOTS OF OTHER WOMEN HAD DONE SO BEFORE ME, HE GOT VERY ANGRY AND I HAD A JOB GETTING OUT OF THERE...BUT MAYBE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES.... HAVE YOU EVER? OR WOULD YOU?
U can't just give up cos of a few bad apples u just keep trying cos there are good genuine people on this site it's just unfortunate u met a creep. Never mind, nobody said we lived in a perfect world.....
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
eumundibabe: HI GUYS, I HAVE BEEN ON AN INTERNET DATE ONCE(MET THE GUY ON LINE AND THEN WENT TO MEET HIM) IT WAS A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE,PUT IT IN SHORT, IT DIDNT GO WELL AS HE EXPECTED ME TO STAY THE NIGHT APPARENTLY LOTS OF OTHER WOMEN HAD DONE SO BEFORE ME, HE GOT VERY ANGRY AND I HAD A JOB GETTING OUT OF THERE...BUT MAYBE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES.... HAVE YOU EVER? OR WOULD YOU?
I have met many men from dating sites.None of them are what I would consider awful.The vast majority of them were nothing more then coffee meets and we never saw each other again.The handful I did go on a date again were not awful either,just not compatible.
maryrachelle: I have met many men from dating sites.None of them are what I would consider awful.The vast majority of them were nothing more then coffee meets and we never saw each other again.The handful I did go on a date again were not awful either,just not compatible.
likewise mary. havnt had any bad experiences yet. ended up dating a couple of guys, whom i still remain friends with.
Yes, I do date men I meet online. Most have been good experiences. I simply have the attitude of smile, laugh, have a good time, no grand expectations. I have made some good friends, a short-term relationship, a long-term relationship. A few odd ones for sure as well.
eumundibabe: HI GUYS, I HAVE BEEN ON AN INTERNET DATE ONCE(MET THE GUY ON LINE AND THEN WENT TO MEET HIM) IT WAS A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE,PUT IT IN SHORT, IT DIDNT GO WELL AS HE EXPECTED ME TO STAY THE NIGHT APPARENTLY LOTS OF OTHER WOMEN HAD DONE SO BEFORE ME, HE GOT VERY ANGRY AND I HAD A JOB GETTING OUT OF THERE...BUT MAYBE OTHER PEOPLE HAVE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES.... HAVE YOU EVER? OR WOULD YOU?
No I didn't have this kind of date yet But I think if two person have good understanding, compatibility ,good listener, have patient both are trustworthy , loyal to each others then no one can break their relationship
Yes after talking to them for a long time on the phone, but when you meet in person it's soooooooooooooo different. Sometimes the spark is just not there and trying to get away is kind of hard, when you don't want to hurt their feelings.
Dreamyone: I guess I should say, yeah I met him on here (the second) and we both travel a lot and it seemed we were always in different parts of the world. He asked me to quit, but not quite ready although I did for a bit. Dang, now I miss him!!!
.......touching story, Dreamyone... i miss my ex's a bit, also...don't want them back, though... hope you get a new and improved version, soon. Tim
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Exactly. I've been using CS since the end of October and have had a number of dates with other members. It's a resource and should be approached with common sense and lack of fear.