Marrying a cousin (200)
ironman57321Russellville,Ar., Arkansas USA247 PostsSwissblueeyes: ya i realize it was sterotyping the southern race and not correct about all of them, but it was funny to see the dishoveled hair, clothes and bad grammar they used for those characters darryl, darryl & darryl.. lol...
The southern RACE????
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ninamil: Yes, maybe if I had not brother-in-law and the wonderful family that I have I would think as all of you
Hi Nina
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elienebrazil: Hi Nina
Oi amiga
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Boban1: Im talking hypothetical
just because some of my ancestors were cannibals ,or it was considerate normal to stone someone to death or hang them to death ,do I have to accept their ways or customs???
Well they already married. Do you i tell them go to divorce?just because some of my ancestors were cannibals ,or it was considerate normal to stone someone to death or hang them to death ,do I have to accept their ways or customs???
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ninamil: Yes, maybe if I had not brother-in-law and the wonderful family that I have I would think as all of you
You have realized that it`s wrong but still you won`t admit it ... which is fine with me
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I had a relationship for 2 years with a man who is Iraqi (immigrant to Australia), Muslim. So, what I understood that most of his relatives are married to cousins, just a few are not. Most of them have a good marriage, probably only my boyfriend had not but I think it was his fault as he is drinker, unfaithful and verbally abusive person, however very educated.
His justifications of those marriage choices were: when you know a person from her/his childhood you see who you marry, there are no negative surprises in behaviour, domestication, health, education, family status. Also, even those marriages were arranged but in reality it was done after informal consultation (through brothers and sisters) that both parties do not mind to get married to each other and there is a mutual attraction. So, nobody was forced into it, there were choice to refuse even before it was arranged.
Also, when both partners are from the same family, their marital problems (which they still have - people can not be agree on everything, and women in Iraq are very powerful in family, so they can demand if they need to) resolved within the family, so there are no sides as it could be when one of the partners is from other clan and complains made there.
Also, he said that there were no health problems with their children ever. But he also said in Iraq there is a law which do not give you permission to marry before you check your blood for genetic disorder.
His justifications of those marriage choices were: when you know a person from her/his childhood you see who you marry, there are no negative surprises in behaviour, domestication, health, education, family status. Also, even those marriages were arranged but in reality it was done after informal consultation (through brothers and sisters) that both parties do not mind to get married to each other and there is a mutual attraction. So, nobody was forced into it, there were choice to refuse even before it was arranged.
Also, when both partners are from the same family, their marital problems (which they still have - people can not be agree on everything, and women in Iraq are very powerful in family, so they can demand if they need to) resolved within the family, so there are no sides as it could be when one of the partners is from other clan and complains made there.
Also, he said that there were no health problems with their children ever. But he also said in Iraq there is a law which do not give you permission to marry before you check your blood for genetic disorder.
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Boban1: You have realized that it`s wrong but still you won`t admit it ... which is fine with me
maybe they'll realise it when they have a three legged baby...
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Desertguy49: I prefer that my children have straight teeth and all limbs intact
and no extra parts...
and no extra parts...
hermaphrodite can arise in any family
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Boban1: You have realized that it`s wrong but still you won`t admit it ... which is fine with me
You`re wrong, it is very normal to me, if there are love
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elienebrazil: Well, if you check our history, you will find much more that, it is not just some exemples from here, in many countries or culture.
Yes Im aware of the history and the past ,Im aware that humankind has gone from one extreme to another and I hope that we have learned ,learned from the mistakes made true history
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ninamil: What a contradiction
yep... Im having quite a problem due to the language barrier to explain myself ...
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Boban1: Yes Im aware of the history and the past ,Im aware that humankind has gone from one extreme to another and I hope that we have learned ,learned from the mistakes made true history
i can understand, but our past history is not because cousin married cousin. The big mistake in our beeing come from the hatred and lack of love, dont you think?
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Ela1963: I had a relationship for 2 years with a man who is Iraqi (immigrant to Australia), Muslim. So, what I understood that most of his relatives are married to cousins, just a few are not. Most of them have a good marriage, probably only my boyfriend had not but I think it was his fault as he is drinker, unfaithful and verbally abusive person, however very educated.
His justifications of those marriage choices were: when you know a person from her/his childhood you see who you marry, there are no negative surprises in behaviour, domestication, health, education, family status. Also, even those marriages were arranged but in reality it was done after informal consultation (through brothers and sisters) that both parties do not mind to get married to each other and there is a mutual attraction. So, nobody was forced into it, there were choice to refuse even before it was arranged.
Also, when both partners are from the same family, their marital problems (which they still have - people can not be agree on everything, and women in Iraq are very powerful in family, so they can demand if they need to) resolved within the family, so there are no sides as it could be when one of the partners is from other clan and complains made there.
Also, he said that there were no health problems with their children ever. But he also said in Iraq there is a law which do not give you permission to marry before you check your blood for genetic disorder.
His justifications of those marriage choices were: when you know a person from her/his childhood you see who you marry, there are no negative surprises in behaviour, domestication, health, education, family status. Also, even those marriages were arranged but in reality it was done after informal consultation (through brothers and sisters) that both parties do not mind to get married to each other and there is a mutual attraction. So, nobody was forced into it, there were choice to refuse even before it was arranged.
Also, when both partners are from the same family, their marital problems (which they still have - people can not be agree on everything, and women in Iraq are very powerful in family, so they can demand if they need to) resolved within the family, so there are no sides as it could be when one of the partners is from other clan and complains made there.
Also, he said that there were no health problems with their children ever. But he also said in Iraq there is a law which do not give you permission to marry before you check your blood for genetic disorder.
Here are a few marriages between cousins, and I can assure that it is not for convenience, only if there is love
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Boban1: yep... Im having quite a problem due to the language barrier to explain myself ...
No, it is not because the language barrier...
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jlw45: maybe they'll realise it when they have a three legged baby...
thanks for adverting doctor prophet
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ninamil: No, it is not because the language barrier...
yep... Serbian language has 7 cases of conditions and far more expressions than English language ... My English is well lets say bad ..
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Boban1: yep... Serbian language has 7 cases of conditions and far more expressions than English language ... My English is well lets say bad ..
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Lilly32: what do you think guys, does it work ?
In some cultures it does and there is no problem of that.But are couples are happy in a such unit.
Genetics, pheramons, its a relative that sharing the same blood line.
In some cultures it does and there is no problem of that.But are couples are happy in a such unit.
Genetics, pheramons, its a relative that sharing the same blood line.
Hopefully they'll make it illegal here soon....
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You will end up like the UK royal family!!!!
Can you hear the banjo's sing????
Can you hear the banjo's sing????
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estate: You will end up like the UK royal family!!!!
Can you hear the banjo's sing????
Can you hear the banjo's sing????
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